i beleive that my advice column will help you with whatever your problem may be. i will do my best to answer every single question you ask me! if i dont get to you right away though, its because i have alot of people to give advice to but i will get to you i promise.
~spice~
Website: spice's spiced up advice
Gender: Female
Location: erie
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Age: 22
Member Since: January 31, 2007
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my name is Jay i'm 13/m/north carolina. I extremely like this girl and when i finally ask her out, she rejects me. SHe was the girl of my dreams!! That was about 2 weeks ago but i still like her. What should i do? (link)
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ok well i hope i can help.
if you like this girl soo much you might want to show her what guy you realy are. but i wouldnt want to ask her out again right away try being a friend first. that should help you a lot! hope it did. sry if it didnt.
~spice~
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Is anyone psychic id like an online psychic reading...
AIM
or Email?
please && thanks (link)
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im not but there are plenty of people that are on the internet i do this all the time here is the site hope its what yuor looking for:
http://www.keen.com/documents/special_offers/psychics-goog08.asp?TID=Mjc1OERE&ysmchn=GGL&ysmcpn=USP03+-+Psychics&ysmcrn=sr2in2go1249se51pi3ai2&ysmtrm=sr2in2go1249se51pi3ai2+physic+readings&ysmtac=PPC&ovtac=PPC&SR=sr2in2go1249se51pi3ai2
if the url doesnt work you could try copying it and pasting it to your browzer bar.
~spice~
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So theres this guy at my school that I like but i dont think he notices. I am not ready for a relationship yet but I want to make him like me. What do i do?
(p.s) i go to a small school with only like 20 kids (link)
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haha ok i have this same thing goin on everyday to me or my friends if i like somebody but dont want to like be in a realationship i would just go up and tell him that i think he is really cute or something like that and if you think that thats a lil to hard at first then write him a note and slip it to him when he is at his locker or something! if works for me well atleast they notice me and most of the time we become friends and that leads to something more. hope i helpd sry if i didnt.
~spice~
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I really dont think im depressed.
I'm a really happy cheery person
I'm basicly like a cheerleader that doesnt cheer lead. I have a million friends and a wonderful boyfriend. However, i have anger problems... i get angry at tiny tiny things but i dont let anyone know im angry it just eats me up inside untill i get home and can cry it out. I hate being like this because i pretend everythings okay, so that if people ask me whats wrong i dont have to say the dumb thing. Sometimes I just want to break down and cry. I really dont think it's PMS beacuse its way worse than that.
xox. thanks (link)
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you might want to see your doctor and tell him/her the things that have been happening to you. have you ever thought you could be by polar? i no my sister is and she is somewhat in the same conflict. i think you should atleast tell somebody and mybe they can help you but your best bet would be a doctor maybe its something way smaller then what you think. i hope this helps and sry if it doesnt.
~spice~
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i really need to think of something to get my boyfriend for valentines day
im no good at thinking of things to get him on my own
so any help would be greatly appreciated =] (link)
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im not sure if this will help but here are somethings that i would consider
1 cologne
2 boxers
3 shirt
or ask him what his favorite store is and get him something from there! i guess it all depends on the guy!
hope this helped sry if it didnt!
~spice~
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My boyfriend calls me names and tells me I am all sorts of horrible things. I don't think that is acceptable in the slightest, but I guess I DO, because I'm still with him, right? I have this state of mind that I am not all of the bad things he tells me I am, unless I stay with him... then I feel as if I have become those awful things. Which makes me feel like I deserve to hear everything he has to dish out. Afterall, why should he respect me when I don't even respect myself? Isn't that true?
Thing is, I wouldn't stand for this behavior from anyone but him, and that is a fact I am sure of! I have never taken poor treatment of any degree in the past, and I come from what someone would call the "perfect" family whose parents have the "perfect" marriage. I was raised right. I was taught manners, and I know the importance of respect. So why am I still with him?
He really just has a poor attitude. He is only mean to me when he loses his cool, but he is everything I've ever dreamed of when his temper is straight. So our goods outweight our bads. But does that make his act okay? We are both in our early 20's, and we do not live together. We've been a couple for years, but he hasn't always been this way. I'm not afraid of him physically hurting me or my loved ones, but yet I still can't find the strength to leave. I feel like the most disgusting, pathetic excuse for a human being for admitting this, but..... I feel like I have nothing better to run to. I've grown up a lot over the past few years, and he's been there through everything. He is such a part of my life, that I feel too scared and flat out lazy to lose him only to take a step backwards.
Do you think I deserve this treatment for having not yet left? I feel like I have brought this all on myself. I have, haven't I? Because I am the only one who can stop it, and I haven't, correct? Can anybody help me with finding a train of thought to help myself gain the courage and self-respect it would take to break away from him? And stay away? (link)
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first of al i want you to know that this is not your fault! and you can really do nothing to prevent this except leaving this man. i deffinatly think you should leave him or you will have to deal with this untill you relise that you dont need to be treated this way. nobody should ever be. you will not turn into anything b/c of staying with him. but you do need to relise that you could do better then this. you should leave this guy and find a guy that treats you better then this. secondly you have the courage you just have to walk right you to him and say me and you? yea we are threw! and walk away! and your best bet would be to be in a public place just incase he gets violent he wont hit you there. then if he has a key i suggest you change the locks. if he does anything else to bother you tell the cops. i hope this has been helpful to you.
~spice~
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Hi. I really want my belly button pierced. Just my mom won't let me. I'm 14, and have 2 holes in my ears and a cartaledge. My boyfriend is getting his eyebrow pierced this weekend by his friend that does piercings professionally. He is the best in my state. I'm going with him, but I want to get my belly button done too.
Any ideas on how to talk my mom into it? (link)
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if your absolutly sure that you want to get this done then sit down with your mom and just talk about it like adults! i think that if you want it done and you explain to her how much and why she might consider it. it would also be a good idea to maybe make an agreement. try it and see what happenes
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