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Where can I get really cheap but stylish clothes in California besides the mall?

vintage shops!! ive heard they have all kinds of goods in those places.

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well my hair is about a little longer than my shoulders, and it is VERY thick and sorta wavy. now i have been wanting a perm for awhile now, but everyone says it will look bad b/c of my thick hair! but i really want to get it! what should i do!?????? pls help!

i dont sugg. getting one. my friend did and she was like crying because she wanted it so bad...it looked so bad when she got it so she leaves it straight (dont use blowdryer on it) or when she does, its in a pony tail and geled back. its not cute. but hey if you really want to, go ahead. hair grows back.

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OK my cousin is pretty much a slut. she's 11. she wheres really tight shirts that go up past her bellybutton along with a really short skirt. She wears VERY thick padded bras so she uses a C cup. When someone calls her a slut she giggles and says "nuh uh..!" And I'm gettin sick of it because my friends are like "how does it feel to have an 11 yr old have bigger boobs than you" and honestly i really dont care because im not fake but no one realizes that. and on top or it, she brags about gettin slapped in the ass by other guys and she shaves which i dont think she should be doing when she's 11 even though its not my choice. What can do to help her without gettin her upset??

tell her what happens to girl in your hs that dress like that...you can make stuff up too. she's 11. wow im sorry but thats insane. wheres the mother? my mom wouldnt let me out of the house like that...EVER! show her how other girls dress at 17...conservative! modesty..set an example too. good luck!!

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Anyone,know a store that sells really nice guitar.
Not,the kind that you have to order online.

i think there are guitar center shops all over the us. if you live elsewhere, i really dont know. try willis music and places like that too.

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I just had surgery and i can't really walk very well and i have to go to registration at middleschool in 2 days. I am not sure if i will be better by then and i am nervous that people will think i am a weirdo if i walk around limping. What should i do?

bring a crutch if it helps you...then theyll knows its temporary and not like a diablility. oh and i know how it is, for my high school entrance test, i couldnt write cuz i broke my right hand so i had to go the special needs lady that helped by filling in the bubbles for me. that was pretty embarrassing...youll be fine. since then ive met a lot of friends.

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can i use a layout for xanga on myspace or will that not work?

well there is a site on xanga that has myspace layouts too. i believe the name is "redchevylayouts_x3" so put it in the search bar and it should come up.

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Ok well at camp this summer, i had a boyfriend 3 years older then me. You know we would hold hands and stuff and kiss and everything but like everyonce in a while he would grab my boobs and my butt and i didnt really like it but i just threw it off. anyways when i got back home, guys were all calling me a slut, and theres this guy Diantrey, and now hes like all over me grabbin my slappin my ass grabing my boobs tryin to undo my bra and stuff its getting so annoyin. now its starting to spread around my neighbor hodd now people are tryin to like hook up with me say hey baby wanna come over to my hosue tonigh. anyways i've been puttin it off but now its startin to get to me. does anyone have any advice how i can stop all of this???

if you dont like it, its sexual harrassment. please tell someone...if your at a camp, tell a councelor....you wont get in trouble but they will.

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well my boyfriend is really nice. I just met him and hes really interesting and we really click. Except he seems a little too nice. Hes always telling me that he loves me and that im hot and pretty ALL the time! Then he asked me if I ever made out with anyone. I said no and he said, "oh who do u plan on making out with for the first time?" But still he really loves me and he is so nice.

Do you think hes using me?

well theres no definate way to tell...say you dont want to make out with him & see what he does. if he says, ok ill wait...hes not. if he freaks out and dumps you, he was & he isnt good enough for you.

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Hi this may sound stupid but what does eating out a girl mean. I have an idea but im not totally clear about it.
Thank You

its when a guy uses him mouth to stimulate a girl's genitals (tonunge used like a male's genitals)

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Hey does anyone know how much a Polo, and how much a demin skirt frm Abercormei Kids would cost. Only if you've been there please, not on the site.


THanks

well the prices are the same online & at the store unless they have a sale in your area which varies from location to location because sometimes they dont have the exact size at each store so look online first to check price range then go to the store...if its cheaper...then YAY you got a good deal!! i dont want to be rude but its the truth. happy skirt&polo hunting!

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I dont have bad acne or anything but my forehead is kinda pimple-y and how do i cover it up?

i bought the concealor but it wont work and i tried putting on lots of foundation but it STILL wont cover it up. is there any way? and i cant use those acne wash and face mask because i was born to have itchy skin if i use any of those products. and it also makes my face real red too.

so is there any way i can cover up my forehead?

and also i have like sweatholes on my nose. how do i cover them up? because they look like blackheads but they are not.

and if any body can give me specific shades for me because everytime i buy the foundation or anything i ALWAYS get wrong shades for my skin. i am Asian , so i would have golden skin but i am not that much tanned so my skin shade is between Fair and Golden.

and any tip on how to get right shade? and it wont work with that match your face with plastic thing you put it on your face to get right match because that gave me way off shades...

i Rate high unless you are one of those mean people who are going to mock me and then i REPORT you.

makeup will make it worse!! dont put it on please!! ok i ave pretty good skin from meds and stuff (i reccomend seeing a derm, personally) & for my shows i have to wear full makeup so i can be seen on stage...my face is breaking out like maddd!! it will make the little you have, worse! anyway if you must wear foundation, try a light color and blend it well with a sponge. its hard to pick out exact colors...ask your mother or other relative what they use and see if you can test it out b4 you buy. thats all i can think of..good luck!!

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i have flour tortilla's , penut butter, juice, and regular butter please give me ideas im starving and im low on food!

hmm you could warm up the tortillas, cut them up and try putting butter and PB on them and see which topping you like best then drink juice with it. hope this helps!!

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hey! i'm going into 7th grade and i'm single but i really like this guy and he and this one girl wentout for about 2 months and they broke up on saturday...we were like really good friends this year and in the middle of the year, everyone found out that i liked him (people always find out who i like,i'm pretty popular)and then someone asked me out so i went out with him to cover it up that i liked him but now i like him again and i dont know how to let him know i like him!... what should i do?!?!?!?!

hmm since he's single too, flirt with him like crazy!! give him a lot of a attention and if your confident just straight up tell him or tell a big mouth friend so then itll go through the grapevine and he'll find out that way. hope this works!

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okay so my b-day is coming up and i want to make some mexican food any suggegtions

quesadillas....warm up the tortilla on the stove then put some cheese (or any other ingred.) on it, put another tortilla on it and flip it like grilled cheese. then cut it into triangles. let me know if you need anything else...

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Hey ok so tommrow my aunts ( 3 ofthem) and 2 of my cousins are going out to lunch then getting our nails done for my Grandmother Birthday. I was thinking about wearing a navy blue abercormie and fitch polo and a demin short skirt. Do you think it would be ok for this, any more suggestions?


Thanks

sounds great! just make sure that skirt isnt wayy too short! have fun!!

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Ok i have heard that mausterbaiting wiht a shower head is bad, because its never good to get water in your vagina.is it true, and if it is, why is it bad? I rate high for good answers!

well i really dont think its bad...half the world does it. try beinggirl.com too. mackenzie gave some good websites tho...

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ok ive had my period for about 2 years now but ive always worn a pad! im going to a pool party next week and i know that im going to have my period when the party is! im just soooooooo scrared i dont know what to do! ive come close to using one 2 times but i always chicken out! im reallly realllllly scared! please tell me what i should do becuase i have to go to this party and i have to use a pad

well you should really try to use a tampon, i cant give you the lowdown from experience tho. try beinggirl.com. by now you know when your heavy days are so if its really light then, you dont need to wear anything...water stops it just keep an eye out for it. or you can go and wear a bikini top and shorts and say youd rather just sit out and tan. hope this helps!

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My mom keeps on intruding on my life. Heres a perfect example: Im sure some of you have an AOL screen name right?? For instant messaging? Well, I have it. And it has something called a log manager whice saves all of my conversations. So anyways, She READS MY MESSAGES I SEND TO PEOPLE. And then shes like, "YOU SWEAR TOO MUCH YOUR BANNED FROM IT!" And ITS SO GAY. AND IM FURIOUS. SOMEONE HELP ME!

well it really depends how old you are...the title says something about "almost a teenager" so that would be around 12? at 12 you cant have anything online without parents getting it for you, know what i mean? so just talk to her and ask her nicely to not track everything you do and promise her you'll be good. or make a code with your friends online that she cant decode or write really cheesy stuff. hope this helps!

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my friend she is in love with a guy that broke up with her and hes 18 and she just turned 15 she tells him she has feelings for her but he just has sex with other girls and she doesnt care she says she still loves him and always will what should i do
Signed ~Alejandro~
HIGH POINTS IF ANSWERED

i think she needs to find someone better to give her love to...someone like you that really cares about her and doesnt have sex with other girls...was he cheating? shell get over it eventually. for some "how tos" and stuff go to www.about.com and look under "teen advice" & "love and dating".

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im fat and its hard to lose wieght and i want to be poul,ar how can i be?

eat smaller portions and try some excesizes. as for popluarity...just be nice and smile a lot.

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