13/f
What should you talk about when your on a date or movies etc?? Im always scared its going to be uncomfterable and its going to be silent! please help! i give EASY 5s!
Wel if your going to the movies i hope you dont talk during the movie.. your pose to be quite during the movie and he might think your anooying or something if you talk during a movie i mean who talks during a freakin movie..
but if your not at the movies or while your not in the movie theater ask what he likes to do for fun.. always make sure there isnt an awkward silence so then you both feel dumb.. you could probably also flirt or something too.. try talking to him on the phone befroe actually going on a date that way your more comfortable and have something to talk about.. ♥ Dez
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hey i was thinkin of after my shower putting gel in my wet hair and scrunching it. do i need to blow dry my hair as/after i do this? can i just let it air dry? thanks
let it dry by itself.. ♥ Dez
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Is there a possible way to shave 'down there' without irritating it? mines all irritated right now and is there a way to get it un-irritated, and then keep it un-irritated?
thank youu
baby oil or baby lotion works.. ♥ Dez
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Hey uhm im 13..and im not the u kno most preppiest girl out there. I have black hair and brown eyes..I want sumthing to do with my hair cuz im tired of being so tomboyish. Im not the skinniest girl so does ne1 have ne tips on how i can be a little more girly without being preppy?
You can maybe add some highlights to your hair if you can.. um maybe not buy tight tight clothes yet if your not comfortable with it.. when i started coming out my tomby phase i began wearing tight shirts with big pants ot tight pants with big shirts.. til i felt comfortablt to wear tight shirts and pants together.. ♥ Dez
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Hey ya'll! I'm a 16/f and I have a question about bathingsuits...I'm pretty tan- but from tennis so i have sock lines and shorts lines. I'm fine with my stomach when it comes to bathing suits but not so much with my thighs. I'm 127 and athletic but my thighs aren't as small as I would want them to be(5/6 AE jeans..) and the short lines don't help. So my question is should i still get a regular bikini? I've tried shorts but most are to big around the waist and don't fit awesome- even after my mom makes the waist smaller. So should i get a regular bikini bottom? If not, should i just work on getting shorts or is there another option? Thanks!
just get a regular bikini.. ♥ Dez
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Hi my mom used to have cancer and got surgery and now she can't play anymore what should i do
love adrienne
find things you can have fun doing that dont involve her moving alot.. like board games.. baking.. something you can do together and still talk.. ♥ Dez
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eveytime after my period I start having a really bad itchy feeling. I have gone to the doctors before and they gave me a pill that worked but this is happening everytime...what should I do or whats wrong with me?
Go to the doctor again and tell them this.. ♥ Dez
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i am 14F and i want to get a belly button ring. what do you think of a belly button ring? and how do i convince my mom to let me get one because she keep thinking of the future and saying when you get old and decide to have a baby.. it will get all streched out or it will get infected
When you get old and have a baby you can probably take it out by then with out it closing up.. tell her that.. ♥ Dez
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Hey. Ok so if i turn my weight into muscle, will i become heavier or will i just have muscles and weigh the same...Any good answers i rate high!
Muscles weigh more then fat so you might weigh more.. ♥ Dez
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ok, so my guy friends just randomly said to me i love you. we arnt that close of frinds, but we've had a history together. i dont know if he meant it seriously or as a friend.
hes kind of a player, but he told my friend he would like to be friends with benifits with me.
he could just love you as friends.. ask him about it.. ♥ Dez
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I am a 17 year old girl and I just made a huge mistake. I have a boyfriend, but this other guy has been hitting on me, flirting like crazy... and last night I gave in. It was only a few kisses, nothing at all really. But I feel really guilty. He said he won't tell my boyfriend because he knows I still love him. But what do I do? I really do love my boyfriend, this was just a one night slipup... if I tell my boyfriend I'll probably get dumped, if I don't I feel guilty... but I'll still be with him which is the desired outcome. What do I do?
Maybe find a way to tell him so you wont get dumped.. im not sure what the way would be cause i dont know him.. sorry i didnt help much.. ♥ Dez
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how long does a hickey last??? is there a way to get rid of it faster?????
Depends how dark and big it is.. but usually a couple days even if its dark or light.. but i dont think theres a way to really get rid of it faster.. you can cover it up with make up but thats about it.. ♥ Dez
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Does anybody know any Fruity Smoothies that are good for you, and don't have a lot of extra sugars and fats. So basicly recipes for a healthy smoothie?
Well i make protein smoothies for my step dad all the time and they dont taste that bad.. basically all you need is ice.. and your choice of fruit and put it in a blender and let it get all blended together but he buys the portein stuff from bally's so he gets more protein but im sure you can stuff like that anywhere.. but i think just the fruit and ice blended together taste pretty good and its not unhealthy.. ♥ Dez
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okay there really is no category, but you've answered one of my questions before and i wasnt satisfied with the answer, but i read your column and it seems like you give good advice, but i think my question was misunderstood, or there wasnt enough information. with the last question, i'm definately not happy with my current situation with these guys, and i'm really not trying to use them AT ALL .. but i did re-read the way i worded it and i could see how you could think that. well i just wanted to say thanks for responding to my question, and i'm going to have to think on it more.
♥ casey
Hey hun i just like to be real with people.. and im not sure what question i answered that was yours but im sorry if i read something wrong.. but anytime you need advice im happy to help.. ♥ Dez
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ok well i was 16 at the time same age as now and i have a feeling that after i went swimming with my x bf he turned of me! I was not hairy or anything i mean i shaved before hand and waxed but i duno he seemed to have acted strange after that i have a feeling its because i was over weight at the time but i was not huge. I duno he also kept on saying my boobs were huge i know some people say its gd but i don't think its nice when it comes from ur bf am i wrong my bra size is like 36c/d??? Do you think he turned of me because of swimming? i am confused please advice me .
oh gosh ignore him
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I am going to the beach soon and i need to know the following:
If my last period started on the May 17th and lasted about a week when will i get my next one??
you might get it around the same time.. and it might last just as long.. but if it was your very first period it will take a while til you might get your next one.. ♥
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how do you do those lil heart things?
& hearts ; but put it all together
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well today is my bf's birthday so we are going to lunch at a nice (in other words, expensive) resturant with another couple. i invited him, so does that mean i have to pay for him? its a pretty expensive place and im 14 and he's turning 15. thanks!
its his freaking birthday dont let him pay so what if its expensive pay for it.. you invited him on his BIRTHDAY so you pay.. ♥ Dez
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13/f
okay .. well i'm going out with this really great guy, but before he asked me out we were like REALLY tight friends .. and right now i dont feel like we're getting anywhere and we might not last for much longer. but the thing is he really loves me, and i really do love him too but i wanna break up with him, so if we get in a fight we won't lose our friendship too. he's an awesome guy .. but i like someone else too, and i'll never have a chance with him if i'm tied ((spelling .. ?)) down with my current boyfriend. i KN0W THiZ iZ L0NG BUT PLEASE HELP ME!
sounds to me your another bullshitten 13 year old lil girl that says there in love and play lil childish games.. but thats on you.. i think if you *LOVED* this guy you wouldnt want to move on to another relationship.. you'd want to be with this guy and only this guy.. and i think your tryin to find an excuse to dump him so you can be with this other guy you like.. WOW thats pretty damn sad.. dont bring out lame ass bullshit like *i dont want us to get in an arguement then that ruin your friendship* you know you dont give a fuck you just want the other guy.. be real with this guy you say you *LOVE* and tell him you dont want to be with him and you like somebody else and dont lie to this poor guy about LOVING him cause your a LIAR!
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Hey this is (Hailey!) Ok, my 3 friends and I got in a fight, and its been 3 days since we haevnt been friends, and i mean, we were best friends to tha bone! And they are out having fun while I am sitting at home a mess because i miss them. They haven't even called me or talked to me. They don't even care about me. I don't want to lose them, but it looks like they DO want to lose me. What should I do? Because I know most of you will probably say "they arent worth it," or "make new friends" but i love them to death and i dont want to just let this go. And I mean, i've already tried to solve it, i've tried everything. THEY HATE ME. OMG Help please. I cant take this much longer. :'-(
Well hun i know im not going to tell you to make new friends or even say their not worth it cause friends are worth it.. and their really worth it if they was like your best friends.. anyways try calling them or writing them a letter about how you feel about this whole thing you really need to find a way before you go crazy.. Girls like drama and will find a way to have it in their live even if its doing something mean or finding a way to have drama even with a best friend.. just try to talk to them or write a letter like i said and good luck.. if you'd like you can tell me how things went or if their is anything else you need leave it in my inbox.. ♥ Dez
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