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Hey this is (Hailey!) Ok, my 3 friends and I got in a fight, and its been 3 days since we haevnt been friends, and i mean, we were best friends to tha bone! And they are out having fun while I am sitting at home a mess because i miss them. They haven't even called me or talked to me. They don't even care about me. I don't want to lose them, but it looks like they DO want to lose me. What should I do? Because I know most of you will probably say "they arent worth it," or "make new friends" but i love them to death and i dont want to just let this go. And I mean, i've already tried to solve it, i've tried everything. THEY HATE ME. OMG Help please. I cant take this much longer. :'-(
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Hmm..well Im not going to say those things :) Go up to them and just say that you'd like to start over, or that it's been long enough for you guys to "cool-down". They were your friends once for a long, great time it seems. So why cant they again? If it is a little fight they should have gotten ove it by now :) And good luck!
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You need to call one of them and ask them what you guys are fighting over, especially if you don't even know why you're fightin' with them. Then, you need to ask them how are you going to be able to trust each other so you guys could be friends again. Obviously, you made them mad SOMEHOW or another. You need to tell them that if they don't tell you what you did, if you really want them THAT bad to be your friend again, say, "I'm sorry for whatever I did."
Signed,
Chuck Borsellino
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It seems to me like they just need a little bit of space from you. This is not a bad thing, and it's VERY normal. You just get tired of people in a while. You don't even have to do anything wrong. Call them up and say that you've been missing getting to do things with them, and maybe you guys can hang out "sometime soon"....by saying that...it lets them know that you do want to hang out with them, but you're not overly obsessive. And don't let them know that you're bored with nothing to do. It's going to make you look desperate. I hope this helps some, and I'm sure that things will be back to normal soon. Like I said this kinda stuff happens all the time....Good luck...don't hesitate to ask any more questions .
~Morgan
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Okay.
They havent even called or talked to you? So then why the hell havent you called them? Are you that big of a bitch?
Yeah, it sounds like they want to lose you too.
I recommend getting new friends.
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Try calling THEM. Talk to them and ask why they aren't talking to you. Maybe the whole thing is just a misunderstanding or they heard a rumor going around that you said something bad about them. If they still won't talk to you let them cool off for a couple days and try hanging out with some different friends for a while. I'm not going to say they aren't worth it because they are. Your friends probably don't hate you they are just going through a rough time. Hope I helped!
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Hey Sweetie,
Whasup with your friends that is so crazy. Ok my Homie had the same prob. She followed what I told her and what she did was wrote them all letters and apoligized you should seriously do everything because "The things you love are always worth fighting for" So do whatever it takes!!! Hope it gets better!! You should try callin em or even text messagin them or something but you never know it could of been something you said online or something on IM cause ive done that alot like ppl think im gettin smart but nessasarily im not and I exsplained to my friends im a crazy person and like to play round' and now they pretty much understand you just gotta esplain yourself! Xoxo Hope I Helped oxoX!!!
Alway`Sz
STEPHANiE
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Well hun i know im not going to tell you to make new friends or even say their not worth it cause friends are worth it.. and their really worth it if they was like your best friends.. anyways try calling them or writing them a letter about how you feel about this whole thing you really need to find a way before you go crazy.. Girls like drama and will find a way to have it in their live even if its doing something mean or finding a way to have drama even with a best friend.. just try to talk to them or write a letter like i said and good luck.. if you'd like you can tell me how things went or if their is anything else you need leave it in my inbox.. ♥ Dez
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You didn't say *why* you were in the fight. With the vague description you gave its hard for anyone to tell if they should be angry at you. For all we know you may have shot one of their boyfriends because you took supaiku's advice, or maybe started smoking or drinking like all the other cool kids on this site.
I'd have to say from what you've given me. If you've tried everything and they still don't want to be friends with you.
Its not going to happen again.
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