You can call me Catherine.
Ohh shit...
I'll try and answer your questions as best as I can.
E-mail: cathcathlove@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: St. Louis
Age: 13
AIM: KnckKnakPadyWak
Yahoo: cathcathlove
Member Since: June 5, 2005
Answers: 18
Last Update: February 7, 2006
Visitors: 1383
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I have problems focusing.
During class, if I am not talking to the person next to me I fall asleep. I ALWAYS talk, no matter what. All my teachers write in my comments that I talk to much, I just can't help it I get so distracted and bored easily.
Also, I can't focus on one thing at once, if I do I end up frustrated and stop working, or start like flipping out because I don't get it.
I was wondering....do I have ADHD? (link)
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I'm not an expert on these things but I think you should probably go to the doctor to see if they can prescribe anything that can help you focus at school.
Hope I helped!
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Ive been having like really low self esteme issues for like the past year or so... ive done so much physical harm to myself but i know its not right.. but i keep doing it cuz its like an addiction.. in the past year my best friend killed herself..(over me to try and get me to stop) and ive been in an abusive relationship.. everything has just put me down.. even the smallest things.. and i dont ever seem to be happy anymore.. i dont know what to do anymore.. sometimes i think that life is just like a dream.. is there any way i could help this?? (please dont say a councelor ive tried many and none have helped)... (link)
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You and I sound a lot alike. I used to do a lot of self injury and stuff and it was really hard to get over. I think the best thing you can do is just talk to your friends and try and get this off your mind. If you keep thinking about it you will get even more depressed. Also, something that helped me was writing poems and stories and stuff. Even if you don't like writing actual stories and stuff just get a notebook and write down everything you're feeling and why you think you're so depressed so you can look on the bright side of things.
Hope I helped!
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Ok I like this guy and he likes me. (I'm a girl, 13) He sometimes talks to me like he likes me A LOT and is real goofy and fun. Other times he seems like he doesn't really want to talk to me, making the answers real short. Everyone thinks that we would be a good couple but I'm not sure because hes a year older and he sometimes thinks im immature I guess. Is there anything I can say to try to make it better between us? (link)
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There is really nothing you can do. You just have to keep talking to him and try to get to know him a little better. Let things go the way they're supposed to go. Hope I helped!
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Im going to the beach this month, and I have no confidence when it comes to wearing a bikini. I'm pretty skinny everywhere else except my waistline. (I have really huge love handles that are unproportional to the rest of me.) I've been trying to lose it before this summer, but not seen any progress. Im also uncomfortable wearing bikini bottoms for some reason, I know im weird. So i bought some girl swim shorts that go to my knees (like surf shorts.) Do you think that would look stupid for me to wear those and a small tee or tank top when im swimming? (link)
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I see people wear that stuff all the time. It's no big. Hope I helped!
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I'm home and I need to think of something to eat for lunch. My dad won't make anything for me. My mom would freak out if I ate the wrong thing. And if I eat another God-forsaken sandwhich I would freak out. So what's something I could eat? (link)
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Make a salad. They're tasty! Hope I helped!
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Hey this is (Hailey!) Ok, my 3 friends and I got in a fight, and its been 3 days since we haevnt been friends, and i mean, we were best friends to tha bone! And they are out having fun while I am sitting at home a mess because i miss them. They haven't even called me or talked to me. They don't even care about me. I don't want to lose them, but it looks like they DO want to lose me. What should I do? Because I know most of you will probably say "they arent worth it," or "make new friends" but i love them to death and i dont want to just let this go. And I mean, i've already tried to solve it, i've tried everything. THEY HATE ME. OMG Help please. I cant take this much longer. :'-( (link)
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Try calling THEM. Talk to them and ask why they aren't talking to you. Maybe the whole thing is just a misunderstanding or they heard a rumor going around that you said something bad about them. If they still won't talk to you let them cool off for a couple days and try hanging out with some different friends for a while. I'm not going to say they aren't worth it because they are. Your friends probably don't hate you they are just going through a rough time. Hope I helped!
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i just started my period... im a little late .
what should i use tampons or pads?
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It all depends on what you feel comfortable with. No one can tell you to wear a pad or a tampon. It's all about comfort. Hope I helped!
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ok this is really worryin me my g/f is in middlsboro with her mom 4 the summer there is alot of boys that like her up there. i mean yea i trust her and all but i rlly dont kno what 2 think about all those boys can any1 help me???? (link)
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If you get really suspicious try to find a way to reach her. When she gets back from Mibblsboro confront her and tell her what you thought about all the guys who liked her and ask her if anything happened. If she says no then you should believe her. If she is truthful and says something did happen don't get angry right away and yell at her and stuff. Listen to her side of the story and find out why she did what she did. If none of that helps then try to forget about it. What's done is done and you can't change it. Hope I helped!
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alright my boy friend has some issues and i dont know wat to do about it . He has a problem in figuring out who he wants to be . He sed one day that he wants to be gothic but then he changed his mind and i cant stand all the pressure of worrying about him all the time . I realy love him and i dont know wat i wud do with out him but im tired of waiting on him to figure out who he wants to be and im scared to break up with him cuz i love him so much . Wat shud i do?? -worried (link)
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You shouldn't have anything to worry about! He just is trying on new images to see what he likes. He's just expirementing. Like how you expirement with jeans to see which ones you like the best. lol Stop worrying hun everything is A O K! Hope I helped!
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hey does anyone know where i can get some good jeans? but not like hundred dollar ones lol (link)
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Lots of good department stores sell good cheap jeans. Like Dillards, Sears, and Kohls. Hope I helped!
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I can never make up my mind about things. Like once I was asked to make out with someone but I couldnt decide. Does any one know a good way to make up your mind? (link)
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Go with your first instict. If your heart says to do something then go ahead and do it. Life is gunna be full of mistakes. Don't worry about it unless it is a big decision like having sex or something. Life's too short to be careful. Hope I helped!
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ok my girlfriend has a abusive dad. hes always drunk and beating her. yesturday when i was visiting my girl, he was beating her up, i just got really mad. i couldnt control my self and i pushed him away. and i guess he was drunk and i was really angry he would beat up katy like that, but i beat him up pretty bad. am i right? (link)
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I think that your rage got to you before your mind could take over. . .If that makes sense. What I'm trying to say is you acted before you thought about what was happening. It probably wasn't the best thing to do but I'm guessing you got him off her right? Next time you need to tell a trusted adult. It's the best thing to do. They can find a way to fix this. Hope I helped!
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Hey. 14.f.
ok so we learned about cutting and stuff in a class in school and how its wrong, but i found it a bit intresting.... so i was really mad one day so i tryed it and it didnt make me feel any better. But, i do have a little cut on my arm. Does this mean that im a cutter even though im not going to do it again? (link)
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If you cut just once to try it out you are definitely not a cutter. People who cut do it for lots of reasons and usually expirements aren't one of them. I have a lot of friends that cut and it's usually because of family problems or mental problems like depression. As long as you don't do it again you aren't a cutter and you don't need like therapy or anything. Hope I helped!
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well, i have this friend and she recently a break down in drama class and the teacher let us go outside and just sit and talk, but i didnt know if i should talk about her problems or just try to distract her since there wasnt really anything to do about them (family problems). i ended up asking her what she wanted from me, (in a less demanding way than that) but i feel like i was making the situation more about me and less about making her feel better by doing that. anyone have any advice on how i could have handled this situation better? (link)
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Since I have broken down during class a lot I know that when people bug me about what's going on I get really annoyed. Try asking your friend if she wants to talk about it. If she says yes then listen to her and comfort her. If she says she doesn't want to talk about it then just be there for her to cry on. Try cracking some good jokes around her to make her laugh or tell her something funny that happened to you in the past. Avoid the subject of family. If she feels secure enough she might actually come to you and tell you what is wrong. Hope I helped!
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i went up to my grandma's house this summer, and when I got off the plane, i went to the bathroom, and i found this clear/white spit-looking stuff that smelled really bad come out of my vagina. what is this stuff, and is this normal, because it never happened to me before and i dont know what to do.
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It's just vaginal discharge. I happens to me a lot usually around the time when I have my period. It's no big deal really just a part of growing up. If it starts to become yellowish and irritating then you should talk to a doctor because it might be an infection. Hope I helped!
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im 16 years old and 8 months pregnant..my boyfriend ..which is the father and is 19..wont have anything to do with me..he wont even touch me anymore yea he comes over every now and then but he doesnt stay long..it breaks my heart because i love him so much..he says he loves me but it definately doesnt feel like it..what can i do? (link)
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I'm only 13 but I think your boyfriend might be scared about being the father of your kid. Try sitting down with him the next time he comes over and talking to him about it. If you still feel like he doesn't love you confront him specifically on that. Hope I helped!
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i've been friends with this girl for 11 yrs and i asked her to go out with me she said yes but then later that day i called her on the phone and she broke up with me i asked her why and she said it feels like she's goin with her bro
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Well I'm not really sure what the question is but don't feel bad for her breaking up with you. I mean I don't want to sound mean but if she really felt that way about you she shouldn't have said yes in the first place. Try to forget about her and move on.
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On my sides are these marks, to be more specific my hips. I'm not sure if this is some sort of part of puberty I didn't learn about or something but it's starting to worry me. By the way I'm not fat, I play sports and I run and everything and I'm a vegetarian.. so I'm pretty skinny. I think maybe my hips are just widening or something, I dont' know, but can anyone tell me what the hell is going on? (link)
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Well it probably is just stretch marks. If the start to itch or bother you more try going to a doctor to see what they really are
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