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abused girl
ok my girlfriend has a abusive dad. hes always drunk and beating her. yesturday when i was visiting my girl, he was beating her up, i just got really mad. i couldnt control my self and i pushed him away. and i guess he was drunk and i was really angry he would beat up katy like that, but i beat him up pretty bad. am i right?
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you did it to protect her.
it was okay dont worry.
i think you did the right thing.
but next time, push him away & take her to the police or something. dont hit him.
stay safe <3
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Yes. And this MUST be RepoRted!!
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Well I can't say youre right or wrong. What you should do is call the police. I'm sure you care about your girlfriend very much right? So that would be the best thing to do. You're in a tough situation, don't make it tougher.
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I think that your rage got to you before your mind could take over. . .If that makes sense. What I'm trying to say is you acted before you thought about what was happening. It probably wasn't the best thing to do but I'm guessing you got him off her right? Next time you need to tell a trusted adult. It's the best thing to do. They can find a way to fix this. Hope I helped!
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It was a nice try. But ultimately youre doing the same thing he is, except on him instead of your girlfriend. This could get even more dangerous. Get her away for awhile, and if it comes down it you're going to have to call CPS. I know its a hard move, but the only way to get him to stop is to get him away from her. Abusives don't like to be told theyre wrong.
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yea you r sure helping her bye makin her dad mad.....hes gonna hurt her the more you do to him...nice move
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Okay...What you did was not exactly right but it sure as #E!! isnt wrong. You stood up for her and thats really great but what she needs right now is not a boyfriend who will beat up her dad but someone who will call ChildProtectionService on his drunk butt. I hope It all works out and that you take my advice.
CrzyLatinaChc
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Ok, while I think you were right by sticking up for her, I dont know if beating him up was right. See, he is an adult and you should respect him even if he does not deserve it (if you want to be the better person). The best thing for you to do was probably to call the police and let them handle it. Hope I Helped and Best Of Luck To Katy!
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Yes you are very right, but what is the next step. If he is a controling jerk, he won't want her to see you any more. He is in a position of power, he is the dad and the breadwinner and it's his house and she is a minor child, ( I am guessing). You know you can get in more trouble for hitting him (arrest for assult) than he can for hitting his daughter (domestic violence.) The assult between people un-related is a larger offense. Hopefully it is over, and he won't do it again, and he will lay off Katy, and she can set a goal to get out of that house as soon as possible. But if he does anything like this again, don't hit him, call the police.You are a witness. The evidence of her injuries are there, it is enough to get him arrested. I hope there is a mother in the house too. If he is the only parent, and they determin that she cannot stay with him and she is a minor, they may put her in a foster home. So I hope this won't happen.
You are a hero. It is good of you to help your girlfiend, I don't blame you for getting mad. He had it coming, but please don't get yourself in trouble. Call the police next time.
Michele
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i think you were right but you cant keep on protecting her he will always beat her so you need to go to the cops immediately or it might be too late one day
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i think that was fine.. he has no right to do that && good job for sticking up for her! =)
♥ nicole
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well you definatly wanna protect her! so yea thats a good thing :) but i think maybe you should tell someone about her dad cuz thats not right.. but yea i think you did the right thing protecting her.
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OF COURSE!!!!!!!! no girl should have to go through that! i don't care who you are or how old you are, being abused is unacceptable! good job!!!!
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yes.
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You did the right thing by protecting her but you need to tell the police right away cause you never know adults are really tricky these days with there actions! But at least you were protectin ur girl!
-steph
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You did a good job of protecting her. You really need to tell the police right away. It's for the best. Katy might be upset but she doesn't deserve to be treated like that under any circumstances. You're being a great boyfriend. =)
♥ lAuRa
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Fightings never the answer, but you were smart to try to protect your girlfriend. You have to get her out of the house, and call the cops imeaditly!
Hope everything works out ..
xOx Kymbo
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Yes you are so right and i fell for you! You need to let someone know that can do something about this! If the police knew then would it brake katies heart? I mean they really do need to know! Does she love him? Please help her tell someone. And by the way standing up for her was the best tinng that you could have done in that siutation!
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