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my boyfriend
alright my boy friend has some issues and i dont know wat to do about it . He has a problem in figuring out who he wants to be . He sed one day that he wants to be gothic but then he changed his mind and i cant stand all the pressure of worrying about him all the time . I realy love him and i dont know wat i wud do with out him but im tired of waiting on him to figure out who he wants to be and im scared to break up with him cuz i love him so much . Wat shud i do?? -worried
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Sounds like you boyfriend doesn't have issues. I have a closet full of clothes- everyday I dress like I feel- goth, punk, skater, prep, etc. I've been doing it for 7 years, and I don't think I have issues, I think I'm creative and real with myself. If he's doing it to make a statement, then maybe he has issues, but I wouldn't bother with it. You should try it too.
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Hey Sweetie,
I see your bf is changing his image alot. Its usual for a boy, He is just tryin to see what fits him more and what he likes better. It will be worth it in the long run all you have to do is be honest with you like the goth look if my bf asked me if he lookd good in that honestly I wouldnt care because I love him for what how he treats me and his personality not for his self image. Im sure you will like it in the long run it will take a while, Just sit back and think about how much you have changed since you were lil! I know I have went from wearin skirts n all kinds of cute stuff to like wearin diff. stuff and havin my own style hes just tryining new things!! xOx Hope I helped xOx!!
-AlwaySz-
StephAnie
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You shouldn't have anything to worry about! He just is trying on new images to see what he likes. He's just expirementing. Like how you expirement with jeans to see which ones you like the best. lol Stop worrying hun everything is A O K! Hope I helped!
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Sit down with your boyfriend and tell him it stresses you out that he wants to change a lot. Tell him how much you love him for himself. And if he changes on you anyway, you know it can't be worth it. If he changes to a person that isn't your type, you know you have someone better that won't change waiting for you. But lots of guys get through phases of wanting to be wanted, and wanting to be noticed. You should tell him that the guy he is right now is the guy you fell in love with, not the gothic guy, or the punk, or prep. I find your stress more than understandable, but if you let him know how important he is to you, then he'll probably come around.
-TheTeenGirl
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Date more intelligent people if you are going to date someone at all. Seeking personality is one thing, but it seems like your boyfriend is trying to figure out what trendy group to be stereotyped as. He sounds like an idiot.
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