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ok well i was 16 at the time same age as now and i have a feeling that after i went swimming with my x bf he turned of me! I was not hairy or anything i mean i shaved before hand and waxed but i duno he seemed to have acted strange after that i have a feeling its because i was over weight at the time but i was not huge. I duno he also kept on saying my boobs were huge i know some people say its gd but i don't think its nice when it comes from ur bf am i wrong my bra size is like 36c/d??? Do you think he turned of me because of swimming? i am confused please advice me .
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What the hell is "turned off me"?
He probably is turned off because you cant type.
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oh gosh ignore him
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well i honestly dont know what "turned of me" means but im guessing he didnt like you anymore? um all i can say is that he did, hes a totally jerk and you deserve better. <3
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i am confused because i don't know what "turned of me" means
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If you (or anyone) is skinny then they will probably look skinny in a bathing suit. If a person is overweight they will probably look a bit overwight in a bathingsuit. That said, being overweight is probably not the main reason your bf broke up with you (assuming he saw you before you went swimming). When it comes to guys, every one is different. Some guys like stick thin supermodels, others like curvey girls. There are guys there who looove big boobs (and I mean bigger than a 36 d/c). Just b/c he said they were big does not mean that he didn't like them. At the same time, guys are visual (which is why they like pics, porn etc). If he did break up with you becuase of the way you look then it was for very superficial, shallow reasons. My guess is that it was probably something more (maybe he thought that your personalities didn't mesh), but if he really was being shallow, console yourself in the fact that you deserve a guy who will like you and your body, and to go out with anyone less would be setteling.
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