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my dad rewrote!
Sorry I rewrote it as you couldn’t read it well..
i have never got on with my dad very well from a young, i didnt like something he did (it was sick and twisted) so i told him and he didn't seem to get the message to stop, so i said stop or i'm running away. he didn't stop.. so i did what i said and ran away, my friends. dad was there and he knew everything that had been going on and said he would hit my dad if he didnt stop. so my dad being like 1/5 of his size stoped, this was like 18 months ago now ever since he has been trying to like get me back i use to cut myself and he knew everytime it didnt change anything though its like i'll be on the phone he'll shout... i'll be on the computer he'll shout and make up things when i yell back he'll just say that im over reacting and twisting what he is saying.. hes always taking my phone off me grounding me for things i havent done.
e.g. i got the wrong coat out the cupboard he grounded me for 6 months from ahving or going to a sleep over.
i use just my folk at dinner yesterday and not with the knif he goes who out ya friends have you got that off then i just went no one and walked out the room saying fine then i wont eat at all.
he didnt offer me any food all night.
my mum doesnt do anything about it she just says its your dad and its how he does things.
when i go see my councellor she just says look what your parents are going through and im just like there punishing me for something I haven’t done.
i endded up in hospital in dec for taking an overdose and my parents just told the nurses i had fallen out with my friends (making me look stooped) my dad just didnt want to get in trouble.
he blames me for everything and i think its just to do with what happened like 18 months ago i seriously cant do anything right i walk in the room and he'll say something. he hasn't been talking to me for the last 2 weeks because i do everything wrong and i just dont know what to do anymore im only 14 i cant move out or anything im just stuck here being blamed and punished. i have a sister (16) but she dont care she only thinks about herself and does everything our parents say and they never say anything to her even if she does something wrong if i were to do that they would ground me, im always being grounded or told off for something and its just taking over me right now.. is there anyway i can get out of here, or at least stop my dad from trying to take over my life??
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omg your dad's crazy! and i can't believe your mom's not even doing anything about it! you NEED to go run away from home again and go stay at your friend's house! after you go there, tell her parents about what you just told me, and ask them what you should do. call the cps(child protective services), and tell them about your dad and that your mom doesn't do anything about it and everything.
good luck!
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Punch your dad in the face. Also, if you told us what your dad actully did, we might have been able to help more....
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hey dont make threats against your parents...it will only make matters worse. if your dad doesnt talk to you, dont talk to him. you need to give each other some space. i know what its like to not do "anything right" and it might just be that your dad is having trouble with somthing or he just has no idea what hes doin raising a teenager. theres not much you can do but here are some options: go to a friends place, stay at a safe-house, totally ignore them and lock yourself in your room, "practice running" like for xc and really just leave the house for the day. whatever you do, dont say your gonna kill yourself because that will et you in trouble with both councelors and your family. hope this helps.<3
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okay you need to get out of that house befor you or your dad kills you....go to a friends house tell your mom were your going and say like if you dont let me go i will kill my self where you are at right now is not a safe place your dad needs to go to counicling from what i am hearing he is not a good father figure.....dont sit around and let him boss you around but dont get him to mad stand up for you self......but for right now try figuring out how to get out of that house and to a safe place...
if you need more help IM me on kathrenhallie
~hope i helped~
kathren hallie!
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