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ok.. does anyone else get lyk.. rEaLLy dumb questions.. but when you delete them or wutever.. tha people IM you and get mad??

Yeah! I just entertain myself by adding a little bit of sarcasm and satire. =]

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ok i started my period when i was 10 i am now 13 i was wondering when will the menstrual cycle end how old will i be like in my 40's or wut? can someone tell me im just very curious

It all depends on whether you have it medically stopped (which you can do at just about any age) or if it stops naturally. Naturally it usually won't stop until mid 40's or older.

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If you stop eating will the size of ur boobs and ur butt go down and im just asking???>????

When you stop eating you lose weight - so technically, yes.

Also, if you excercise a lot then your breasts and butt will also minimize.

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hey...who likes the song SlowMotion By Juvinelle?!?!? (if you dont liike it tell me your
favorite song!!)

It's good, but it's not my favorite.

My favorite is Good Riddance (Time of Your Life) By Greenday.

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i want to go see a movie with my mom because we dont get to see eachother much anymore and like yeah well what new movie do you think we should go see?

The Notebook was amazing!

There are tons of movies out, go see whichever you think looks good!

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im 13 and 5'4 and weigh 108.. is that ok?

That is an absolutely fine weight.

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Im anorexic, i dont know how to stop, i try to eat, but when i do i throw it up, i was on a diet to loose weight but i dont want to loose to much, im 13, 5'6, i did weight 122 pounds and now i weigh 78, i think im at the perfect weigh, but im feeling tired and lightheaded and my face is pale, i really need help and im afraid to tell anyone :(

Take it from somebody who was anorexic and is still currently battling horrible self-confidence...

See a doctor, get some help!
Nothing is going to change unless you get help!

A very good movie for you is For The Love Of Nancy. I'm not really sure how to find it, but Tracey Gold is the actress that starts in it.

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My bf is 16 and sometimes has trouble holding an erection he's a bit worried about it what should i do? His penis is 5.5 inches long is that the average?

There really isn't anything you can do.
I'm pretty sure the average is between 4-5 inches, so he's at least average.

Try and use some foreplay or something kinky to help him keep his erection if it means that much to him.

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Can you buy birth control pills over the counter or do I need a doctor's prescription before I can get it?

You need a prescription. The morning after pill is either OTC or you can go to a health center to get it.

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coke or pepsi?

Pepsi!

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ma m8 acts like she's a which. She wants to b like a charmed sister. does ne of u watch it? she always tlks bout it i don't even have a clue wot it is. plz tell me what it is. every time i sleep or go to hers she has candels lit and she has a tin full of spells she is kreepin me out. plz help me. i need to tell ma m8 she is takin it too far. email back asap

Chesney
xxxxxxxxx

I love that show! It's about three witches who fight demons, etc. It's a really good show!

Anyway, this friend is taking it much too seriously and could really use some psychological help...

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does anyone kno if the loreal self tanner stuff works? i wanna try it out but i need 2 kno if it works or not. thx.

I wouldn't use that brand or any others.

My friend Michael came to school in the 8th grade orange after attempting to use a self-tanner. Yikes!

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anyone kno where i can get cute but cheap bikinis? like any store like walmart 2 the mall? thx, muah! erin

Target, AE, Kohls, etc.

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how do i delete any obscene websites i might have gone to in the past parents come home in 20 minutes quickly reply!!!!

Deleting both your history and cookies will usually work for this situation.

Go to Tools, Internet options and first delete your history. After doing that go back through but instead of deleting your history, delete/clear cookies.

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is it normal for girls 2 masturbate becuz its normal for guys??

It is perfectly normal for both guys and girls to masturbate. Boys just seem to be a lot more open with it than girls are.

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My best friend is acting really different because she acts black and she's not. And I mean she really acts black. ONe time she said to me " I'm really supposed to be black and look it too (meaning her skin complection) but because I have french , english, italian, and other stuff in me I came out white". That was such a lie. How could she say that. She really wishes that she was black. I like her being herself not the fony that's the only reason I became her bff because before she used to act real and be herself. I met her in 3th grade now were going to 9th grade. Ever since 5th grade she started cussin and I started cuz I dont knop but it wasn't cuz she started. Well, I need to kno what I should tell my bff like should I say stop actin that way and explain it to her I'm not sure. Help me out. signed- confused grl

There really isn't much you can do other than sitting her down and explaining to her how you feel.

If she doesn't know that you feel this way than nothing can/will change.

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how do u kno if ur chery popped??? becuz i juss had sex for the first time and im not sure if it did

Hmmm... well I don't know about you - but I've never heard of a cherry popping from sex. Well, unless you're eating a cherry, but I didn't think they popped...

BUT, if you're referring to your HYMEN, then yes, it has more than likely broken from sex if it wasn't already broken.

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My daughter is currently 13 years old. She's fairly mature and doesn't dress slutty. Now, she has liked this guy for about half a year. Today, he asked her out. They want to go see a movie with another couple their age on monday. I don't know if I should let her go. What is your stance on this? Is 13 too young to be dating?

At 13 I think group dates are the most appropriate. I wouldn't really trust two 13 year olds to be alone these days, it's just too risky.

Group dates or "dates" at the house are okay, but I being alone together at night just isn't probably anymore.

It's hard to trust kids these days no matter how responsible they seem...

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how do you make canned corn

Read the directions on the can.

It's really not all that difficult.

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wut r sum good love songs? list as many as u can think of please!!....tHaNkS...ill repay u by givin u advice!!

i will always love you-whitney houston
because you loved me - celine dion
my heart will go on-celine dion
open arms- journey
everything i do- bryan adams
unforgettable- nat king cole
how deep is your love- bee gees
i swear- all for one
you are the sunshine of my life- stevie wondor
yesterday-the beatles
something- the beatles
and i lov eher - the beatles
love me tender- elvis presley
tears in heaven- eric clapton
pretty women- ray orbison
i knew i loved u- savage garden
the reason- hoobastank
solitare- clay aiken
take my breath away- jessica simpson
this i swear- nick lache
8th world wondor-kimberly locke
ocean avenue- yellowcard
if i ain't got you- alecia keys
this love- maroon 5
can't help fallying in love- barry manilow
the trouble with love- kelly clarkson

I was able to get all of those off of www.lovesongs.com.

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