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Does anyone have any tips for how to redecorate your room with very little money? I don't want to paint it or anything, but I want it to look less plain.
hang up posters and pictures and all kinds of memories. try putting up thos aol promotion cds to give the wall a cool look. buy some pillows maybe a funky colored comforter and let your imagination run wild.
What happened to your friend?
she moved to sounth carolina after being in brazil from 3rd to 8th grade then she started high school and got asked out by a really cute football player around the end of october. shes full of personality and not all that pretty. they met while working out at the gym. dont worry about getting asked out im sure someone will find you!
Ok well I just moved to a new town and well that means i'm gonna be a new girl. I mean i'm not ugly.I'm 5'2", have blonde kinda short hair, gray eyes, i'm pretty skinny but i've got a butt and a pretty big bust and I'm gonna be a freshman. But my question is would u still ask me on a date even thou i'm a new girl and a fish?(if you were a single guy at my new highschool)
hope you can help me.
I'll rate 5's to any one who answers!!!!!!!
the same exact thing happened to my friend, if you wanna know what happened to her let me know...i dunno if you want a girl to answer....
hahah i smoke bout 2 bags of weed a day should i stop??
hahaha gradually cut down ;-)
I want a new look for my room on a LOOWWWW budget. I'm 14/f and My walls are white. My carpet is like pink dots and blue dots and white dots... and I have a pegboard border around my room. I just want a new look!
well first of all, invest in some cheap, but cute paint in your favorite color. buy a comforter to match (try walmart they have the cutest things!) and maybe some throw pillows. if you want, get a chair or counch at the flea market or garage sale and cover it to match your room. have fun!
you answered my question about if i could be pregnate and you said that you have to be 16 to go to plan parenthood, do you know if thats in all areas? and what would they do if i called them up and asked them about it? I'm 15, 16 in november THANKS!
um i really dont think i was the one that said you had to be 16? i didnt know that? i think you can be any age because its a public service type thing and they want anyone who is sexually active to be safe. sooo i really dont think thats true. hope everything works out for you!
I have a question for guys out there, are you attracted to a slim girls with large hips? haha I was just wondering cause not that i'm getting older I notice I'm starting to get larger hips and all my girlfriends are jealous of me..and i'm like y, i would do anything to get ride of them. Thank-you
yeah i think guys do like because it shows that you have a womanly figure. u know that song "i like big butts and i cannot lie"?? somewhere in there it says "36 24 36" meaning bust waist hips measurments. really, love them! i have no hips and i can see where your friends are jealous. some people actually tease me about it lol.
what do you need to do to get attention from a guy that youve liked for like ever?
im 13/f and i like a 15 yr old guy
thankz
be nice, be around when/where he is, be yourself, dont be afraid to seem dumb, tell him you like him (that whay theres a chance you gys will get together), talk to him and just dont get too caught up. hope that helps!
is it safe to get a bath during a lighting storm?
i need to know now
no its not safe. stay out until the storm passes, please!
can anybody suggest a really good men's cologne for me. I'm 15/m and i'm looking for something masculine, sexy and powerful, and it has to last. My price limit is $100.
"fierce" from a&f is the best EVER! i swear i could never keep my hands off a guy wearing that! lol its about $50. hope that helps!
what does prude mean?
well its used a lot to desribe someone who is a "freezer" and wont do anything physical with the opposite gender. in some cases, it is a good thing, most cases its pretty insulting.
ok like near the end of my period lik at night i wont bleed but then after i start doing stuff in the morning a bleed regular. is that normal?
yeah it is...i dont know WHY tho. might be that you are laying down and its not enough to do its thing.
I'm 29 and I've been dating a 27 yo girl for about 8 months now and I thought things were going great. However, recently she planned her holiday season (thanksgiving and christmas) without even asking me what I was doing. Her rationale was that couples only plan things together when they are engaged or married. She tells me she loves me and doesn't understand why I was surprised that she made all her plans (which exclude me) without even talking to me about what she wanted to do. I have no intention of trying to change her plans. I just thought it was common courtesy to discuss it first and hopefully find a way to spend the holidays together. Your thoughts?
i think she should have at least invited you even if she knew you couldnt make of w/e. maybe shes not ready to introduce you to her family until you are engaged or somthing. i dont think her intentions were bad, she might have some family problems or something. dont worry too much about it. spend time with your family (if for the last time) because when you are engaged/married you wont be able to do that. hope this helps!
hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
help
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thats not right...thats 2 completely different stages in life. guys at 12 are just hitting puberty and 15 year old girls are like full blown women compared to them. if you both are willing to take the complications (he cant go to clubs for a while, cant see R movies with you...)
then stay that way.
rate high
going to new skool need new looks
how do u get rid of a big nose w/out surgery
thanx and rate
im sure you can find some kind of makeup trick to make it seem less noticeable. try getting bangs on one side of it (like sideswept) to help with that to. hope that helps!
i rate really high i used to go out with this guy but he broke up with me cause i am going to another skool. i new him since i was 1 and i love him so much. he was the only bf that i actually felt comfortable with. i cant ask my mom if i can go to his house. i am only 13 and want to no how to get him back plz help!!
well dont go to his house expecting him to tell you how much he missed you and how much he wants you back. guys are usually annoyed by this. call him, see if he wants to meet half way sometime so you guys can just talk. have a movie night at least once a month to keep in touch if you both agree to it. dont push him into anything, it seriously wont work. hope that helps!
0k wat do u like in a girl? do you like there eyes? body,boobs,personality?
what do you want your gf to be like?
plz answer my question!
i rate high!
btw im 13 and oh yeah whats like the age range or w.e that you pick a girl in?
thankz
guys taste in girls varies like girls taste in guys vary. some guys love a lot of personality and some guys like anyone who will give it up to them, see what i mean? just be yourself and the guys will be all over you trust me. i used to think it was inportant to fill the mold and i gradually dropped it and i have a lot more guys liking me now. what they want theyre gfs to be like: nice! some girls are so mean to them... they end up dumped. hope that helps even if im not a guy!
My boyfriend just came over and I gave him head and he cumed and a little later I lost my virginity to him but he didn't use a condom. I'm scared I could be pregnate. Is there any chance I could be?
yes there is a chance you could be pregnant. not wearing a condom was not a good choice.
i have these pants that are destroyed [meaning they r ripped for those who dont know] they fit me around my waist but they are VERY loose on my thighs and i was just wondering if anyone knows how i can skrink them a little bit. they are a size 1 but they are still really big on my leg area.. i was thinking of wearing them first day of school but i like jeans that are tight not too loose. thanks in advance ;] ♥
well jeans usually shrink when you put them in the wash...i have these jeans from hollister and everytime they come out of the dryer theyre a size smaller. if that doesnt work, sew in the sides. hope that helps!
theres this guy. and i think i like him but im not sure.. i mean i think about him all the time and i cant wait to see him. do i like him? i dont think i do.. but i dont know.. do you think i like him?
i say that yeah, you do like him.