about

I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

13/F

Anybody know a site that lets you download FREE completely FREE FREE FREE japanese, emo and rock music?!?!? PLEASE! I'm getting an iPod, so BOOM!!!!!

Limewire & Ares work pretty well. You can try them.


Or when you get your iPod, install iTunes & then just buy your songs.

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is there any way that you can delete songs on a CD? if there is, how do you do it?

thx

No, you can't.

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im turning 14 im a girl is it bad to get involved with a 17 old boy

It can be. He might only want something you wouldn't be able to give him, and chances are he'll use you for it & leave.


I'd get with a guy your age.

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I know that birth control can make you gain weight, but is there any birth control that doesn't

Every birth control is different and has a different effects on everyone.


Most of it does make you gain weight, but it's not a lot. It's probably like 5 lbs which isn't too much to worry about. It could also make you lose weight though. Don't stereotype the birth control.

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I am hanging out with my friends brother next weekend, He is a 19 year old and i am only 16. Should i tell him im 17, i really want him to like me! Maybe he will like me more if there is less of an age difference?

Lying about your age is dumb. Just tell him the truth because if you lie, he'll find out & then he really won't like you.


Just be yourself. There's no reason to lie.

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why do i see people spitting on the ground randomly while walking by?

Because it's a bad habit.

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is 200 hours of volunteer hours a good amount?

Yeah, but there's always more to do so try to get some more hours.

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you know the song
"make it rain"

from fat joe.

i dont get this part
i make it rain on dem hoes?
thanks

When you make it rain on hoes, it means you're in a strip club making it rain money on the strippers [hoes].


In other words, you're rich as hell & can throw your money around to strippers & not give a damn because you have so much more of it.

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I am 13 years old, am 126 pounds, and am 5 feet and 4 and a half inches. Is that healthy?

Yeah.

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How do celebrity people honestly get so skinny. Is it because of an eating disorder? Even so, it seems that they lose the weight much faster than any 'normal' person who has one. I dont understand.
Yes I know eating disorders are horrible, I'm not planning on picking one up. I'm just wondering how they get so skinny!

They have personal trainers, they work out 24/7, they take diet pills & some probably do have an eating disorder, but it's mostly the trainers & pills.

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In school, I was totally expecting to see everyone wearing wideleg jeans, Crocs (ugh!), and all the other trends for this season. But to my surprise, they were all wearing what I was wearing; skinny jeans, Uggs, and all last season's trends. Obviously new, but according to latest news, it was outdated. Why was my small, yet wealthy town not affected by the season's reports? I am totally confused.

Either your school missed the update, they hate that new trend; or nobody really gives a damn & they just wear what they want.


I think it might be the third one.

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I want to download some new songs onto my iPod, and I don't know any more really good songs. Like really really good ones. Any suggestions are welcome.

You didn't really give a genre, so I give you some Rock & some R&B. I'm not exactly sure of what you're into; but the song is on the left & the artist is on the right. Rock is first.


Rock:


The Suffering -- Coheed & Cambria.
Ten Speed -- Coheed & Cambria.
Staplegunned - The Spill Canvas.
Lusta A Prima Vera -- The Spill Canvas.
Wake Up -- Coheed & Cambria.
Crushcrushcrush -- Paramore.
That's What You Get -- Paramore.
Over & Over -- Three Days Grace.
A Favour House Atlantic -- Coheed & Cambria.
Situations -- Escape The Fate.
Reverse This Curse -- Escape The Fate.
Romance Is Dead -- Parkway Drive.
Pandora -- Parkway Drive.
Could Tell A Love -- Bless The Fall.
Black Dying Rose -- Bless The Fall.
Champagne's For Celebrating [I'll Have A Martini] -- Mayday Parade.
Life Without Friends -- Four Letter Lie.
Angela Lansbury Keeps Guys Like You Off The Street -- Greeley Estates.
Tear My World Apart -- Greeley Estates.
Roses -- Meg & Dia.
Monsters -- Meg & Dia.
Your Song -- Mayday Parade.
Seventeen Forever -- Metro Station.
When Did Your Heart Go Missing -- Rooney.
Voices -- Saosin.
You're Not Alone -- Saosin.
Seven Years -- Saosin.
Vulnerable -- Secondhand Serenade.
Choke On This -- Senses Fail.
One Eight Seven -- Senses Fail.
Unexpected Places -- The Academy Is...
Monster -- The Automatic Automatic.
Act One, Scene One -- The Fall Of Troy.
Moving For The Sake Of Motion -- Underoath.
Writing On The Walls -- Underoath.
Reinventing Your Exit -- Underoath.


And just about any song by The Almost is amazing. So feel free to download anything from them.


R&B/HipHop:


Shawty Is A Ten -- Dream.
Outta My System -- BowWow & T-Pain.
Shawty -- Plies ft T-Pain.
Crank Dat -- Soulja Boi.
My Drink & My 2Step -- Cassidy.
Kiss Kiss -- Chris Brown ft T-Pain.
Good Life -- Kanye West ft T-Pain.
Stronger -- T-Pain.
Let It Go -- Keyshia Cole, Lil Kim & Missy Elliot.
Let It Go Remix -- Keyshia Cole, Lil Kim, Missy Elliot, Young Dro & T.I.
Bartender -- T-Pain.
Backseat Action -- T-Pain.
Buy U A Drank -- T.Pain & Young Joc.
My Girl Gotta Girlfriend -- T-Pain.
Family Rules -- Birdman & Lil Waye. [This one is a skit, but listen to it; it makes sense]


But that's all I've got. I hope the genres I gave you were okay. You didn't really specify, so...

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I know I sound like I'm lazy and won't look it up myself, BUT I've spent hours looking for a tattoo of a sword going through a heart. (Not a real heart, just the heart shape.) I absolutely cannot find one and I'm getting really frustrated. If you could look for me or at least give me a website of a tattoo gallery that you don't have to pay for, that'd be great.

http://bmeink.com/


My brother's girlfriend Emily showed me this site just the other day & the work on there was amazing. It's free because I just checked it. Have fun! =]

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i want to get side bangs.
should i do it on my own.
if so how exactly??
like do i part my hair??
idk.
also pictures would help. :]

plz and thanx. :]

I would listen to the person below me. Getting sidebangs for the first few times should be something done by a professional. Once you watch them do it a few times, I would try it. I don't ever really go to a professional when I cut my bangs. They know what they're doing, but I know the length I want my bangs & I can usually get it right.


However, they're pros & I'm not, so I would go to them your first time; esepcially because you don't know what to do. You might fuck it up, and then you'll be really pissed & regret it. So yes, a professional the first time is more than likely the best for you.

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i'm gonna start off by saying i'm NOT a whore
me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 9 months and he's fingered me once and we makeout alot thats about it ;; i kinda would like some more "exitement" and i give him handjobs all the time and was even thinking of giving him head (even tho i have NOO IDEA WHAT TO DO!) and maybe even sex.. i've given him alot of time and i dont wanna like push him but do you think i should say something to him.. if so what?

btw he's one year younger then me
do you think that has much of an affect on it?

Why you had to say you're not a whore, I don't understand, but alright...


Uhm, well I would say that since you've given your boyfriend handjobs before, then the subject of giving him head shouldn't be a big deal for either of you. It might be for you because it's your first time; but you didn't say if it was his so maybe I'm not sure, but I don't think giving him head would be a big deal.


Sex might be though. I realize you love your boyfriend & you've been dating for a while; but usually it's good to wait for stuff like sex because you don't really know what the future holds. Is it your virginity; better yet...is it his? If it's both of your virginities, it might be okay but please make sure to use protection [condom, birth control pills] & remember that abortion is NOT birth control.


Honestly though, you've been going out for a while so talks like this shouldn't be hard to have. Just sit him down when he's over & be like "I don't know what you're ready for, but I know that I'm ready for more and if you're not, then that's fine & I'll wait for you, but if you are just let me know. I really love you blahblahblah" & whatever, and see what he says. If he's not ready, support him.

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ok so i've(im 20) had a crush(he is 20) on this guy for 7 years and i just told him recently how i feel . we talk all the time at least once a day. but the prob. is his best friend(is 19) whom i have no interest in what so ever has a huge crush on me its to the point of obsession and the guy i like used to date my little sister. he is the same age as me though, he just think it be weird to be with me after dating my sister and i also believe he dont wanna hurt his friend's feelings. up till three days ago i thought we were just friends thats it but then he started say he wanted to " Sleep with me" i accidently sent the message to his friend, who says he is just messing with me. but he confroted his frend(my crush) online last nite and i was talking to my crush at the time and he(my crush) said that his friend was asking why he(my crush) was hitting on me . my crush im'd me saying that he could get himself out of trouble with his friend. he told me what he told his friend he said that he was using reverse psychology on me then laugh about it with me. i said twice well he(my crushes friend) dont have anything to worry about its not like u have feelings for me right? and he said he knows what im capable of and he likes u. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? DOES HE LIKE ME OR IS HE JUST MESSING WITH ME? PLZ HELP

ok so im going to see my crush tomorrow at the football game, only prob. he is coming there with his ex gf and i just found out they watched tv together today.but he says that she was sending him mixed signals. so question one should i even bother going to the game? if i go should i just ignore him? or should i steal his attention? and what should i do to be unforgetable? how should i dress,act,etc? man im confused

I think he likes you, but doesn't really wanna hurt his friend.


And who cares if he watched tv with his ex? There is such a thing as being friends. Just because he watched tv with her doesn't mean anything.


Yes, go to the game & talk to him when you get there. Steal his attention, & dress/act like you normally would. You're going to a football game, it's not that special.

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Has anyone heard of "phonezoo.com"

is it ok to use
and free ringtones like myxertones.com

cool thanks a bunch

Myxertones is a pretty good site, and yes, it's definitely safe.


I've never heard of phonezoo, so I'm not exactly sure about that one.

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i'm 15/f...i have really hairy feet & i was wondering if it was safe to shave my feet with a regular razor?

Yeah, but use a lot of soap.

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So i was on msn and someone told me this girl(an ex classmate) i used to like just broke up with her bf. i msned her and asked for her number which i got. now should i ask her on a date? or did she just give me her number cuz we r ex classmates and she din wanna b rude? fyi the time gap thing doesn't work with her, she goes into a new r/s 2 days after the prev one is over.
Thanks for any help

She probably likes you, so that's why she gave you her number. I'd call her & set up a time to hang out.

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Hahah. this is probally going to sound really stupid but me and my best friend have no clue what to dress up as for a halloween party. We want to look cute and sexy. but we don't want to dress like sluts. Does anyone have any ideas of what we could be?
thanks for anyone that answers!! (:

The costume store can give you a lot if ideas. If it were a group, you could be cops or schoolgirls. Try being disney characters or something.


Go to a costume store & look around.

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