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Will replacing soda and only drinking water as a drink really make you lose weight? If so, why? (link)
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Yes, it will definitely make you lose weight. Because regular soda, is literally packed with calories, sodium, etc. Basically, all of the things that are unhealthy and cause weight gain. And water, doesn't contain anything so yes, this will make you lose weight.
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after my dad died his side of the family completely abandoned us . leaveing my mom to do everything.
she has a lot of stress to deal with and im not sure how to help her. ive tried helping out with cleaning the house but i just get in the way.
and my little 9 year old brother is just makeing things worse. i dont know whats going on that little head of his but hes giving my mom big ass head aches. hes failing 4th grade. wich is like the easiest grade. and hes leaving all of his garbage every where. and is constantly doing stuf wrong.
weve tried everything to help him and i swear none of it works.
if any one has any sujestions PLEASE tell me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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I speak from experience, on this because I went through just about the same thing when my dad died. His family became very mean, and we no longer speak to them anymore.
I'm sure that your mother appreciates the help you are trying to give, even though it may seem like "you get in the way" you're really not. She's grieving, and things may not be the way they seem if she gets upset or things like that.
Your brother is not intentionally trying to cause problems, it's very hard at any age to deal with you dad dying, especially, at nine years old. He's grieving his self, and he probably doesn't know how to handle it. It's anything but an easy thing to handle.
The best advice I can give you is to try to help your family as much as possible, and talk to them. Both your mother and brother. And when talking to your brother, make sure that he knows that he can always talk to you and count on you as his sister.
I'm very sorry for your loss, and I know it doesn't seem like it, but in time it will get easier. Of course, you will always miss your dad but it will get easier to handle. :)
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I read that you should never IM a guy first if you like him. Is that true? Is it bad if you do? Cause I want to talk to the guy I like so I do IM him first if I see he is on. Is it bad if I do that? (link)
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No, absolutely not. Go ahead, and IM him first. There's nothing wrong with that, but I also do not think there is anything wrong with letting him IM you first, occasionally either.
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I have an sansa e200 mp3 player and everytime I turn it on it wont play music at all. I keeps saying sychronize to continue subscription. How do I synchronize? I have rhapsody, but I can't figure it out. Please help! Thanx (link)
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Hi, you should be able to find all of your info on the product's website.
https://www.customernation.com/pls/ps/ps.ps_main?p_host=304&p_supplier=5096&p_parm=PSHPP
Click on "MP3 Players" and then "Sansa e200 Series." Next, choose the GB you have and it will take you to the FAQ for that series. :)
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Ok theres this guy I like!! Lets call him Jessy and hes a junior. Well i really like him. Hes not a friend or anything but i have this total crush on him.. I really wanna talk to him and become friends w/ him.I always see him in the hall ways. But im one of those gurls who r super duper shy. Any advice on how to talk to him..
14/f(Yes! Im a freshman) (link)
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Yes, talk to him as much as possible. Anything you can find to talk about that's at least a decent and interesting topic, go ahead and talk to him. This will help you both become more and more comfortable with each other. And then, you can see if things progress and maybe, end up dating. :)
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how do i know if my hymen is broken? besides the whole bleeding thing, is there something i can actually feel or something to let me know?
answers appreciated asap (link)
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I agree with the previous advice, you can usually feel if it's broken or not. But doctors' can tell for sure. Most girls hymen are broken before intercouse, because it can broken from the simplest things. Such as sports, riding a bike, inserting a tampon, etc.
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do you think its weird to dedicated a song to my friend who is a girl? im just asking cause i want to dedicate a cheer up song to her because shes pretty much upset about her parents divorced and all
which is Keep on Keepin' by jojo and use my shoulder-jojo if u dont know the song please just look at the lyrics here:
http://www.cravelyrics.com/artist.php/jo...
and
http://www.cravelyrics.com/artist.php/jo...
which one do u think its better? please be serious thank you =] (link)
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I definitely think "My Shoulder" by JoJo is the best choice, I think it fits and is a better song to cheer her up. :)
I'm terribly sorry, about your friend. I'm sure everything will be okay.
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what exactly is a frosting party? (link)
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I'm assuming, it's a party full of baking cakes and of course, adding the frosting. :)
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Hey everytime like when I use the mouse the cursor like moves in random places and not going in the direction it's supposed to go. It like moves on its own sometimes. Well it happens only sometimes but now its happening more often and its getting annoying. Whats the problem? (link)
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If you're using a ball mouse (has a ball in the bottom of the mouse, enabling it to move), take the ball out and clean it with rubbing alcohol. And clean the inside of it, where the ball is to make sure it's clean too. And on the surface where your mouse stays, clean it also. It always works for me. :)
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is there a way to delete ur advicenators account? (link)
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Yes, you can delete your Advicenators account by emailing DangerNerd -- dangernerd@gmail.com
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how do you become a moderator? (link)
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Hi, to become a moderator you must fit the qualifications. In which can be found in the Moderator FAQ. http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?t=13
As I always say, "When all else fails, read the FAQ."
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who sings this song
i would have given you all of my heart just to help you dry the tears that i cryed. (link)
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Yes, this is "First Cut is The Deepest" by Sheryl Crow.
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i told my crush i like him i think he likes me to but he has a girlfriend so i fell inside that i want to make his girlfriend suffer but i dont know if its a good idea or bad (link)
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Look, I know you probably really like this guy, but he does have a girlfriend. And making her "suffer" is not going to help you in any way. It will not only make you look like a mean person, but it will not help you with getting this guy either. Because I'm assuming, that he really likes his girlfriend and if you do something bad to her, he's definitely not going to like you. So it's a horrible idea, please do not do that.
Think about it, if you a boyfriend and really liked/loved and him and some girl that was after your boyfriend, was doing bad things to you and trying to make you "suffer." How would that make you feel? I know, it wouldn't feel good.
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where are good places to get bikinis? (link)
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Here is a list of great places, with the best bikinis:
Victoria's Secret. www.victoriassecret.com
PacSun. www.pacsun.com
American Eagle. www.ae.com
Abercrombie & Fitch. www.abercrombie.com
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When is One Tree Hill going to have a new episode? (link)
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One Tree Hill airs every Wednesday on The CW. A new episode will air next Wednesday, after showing re-runs for awhile.
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if there's any mega health freaks out there, do you know if its good for you if you drink a bottle of vitamin water (multi-v) a day? or can you get sick from it from having too many vitamins?
i've been thinking about it lately and its confusing me. (link)
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Sorry to tell you, but they are actually terrible for you. You might as well be drinking a regular soda. Because vitamin water is full with all kinds of sugar, which is completely unhealthy. See they trick you with the vitamin, because when you think vitamins you think healthy, but this is definitely not a good way to get them.
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I have dreams about the same kid everynight, no matter what.
He's in it , like 6 out of 7 days a week.
Is that weird?
and Another thing, I had a dream about this random boy who Ive only had one dream about and the day after that dream, he came up to me and told me I was in his dream the same night.
Is that freaky or what?
It scared me alot
Thanks 14/f (link)
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I speak from experience, this has happened to me on multiple occasions. It's like, I dream of everything that will happen (good and bad.) And then, it comes true and it's real. It's kind of like women's intuition, so there's nothing wrong with it. It's just something you're gifted with, in my opinion.
P.S. Glad to know, I'm not the only one that this happens to. :)
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My column says I haven't updated it since March of 2006 when I've definetly updated it since then. I know it's not a HUGE problem, but is there a way to fix it? (link)
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I agree with YG, email DangerNerd about it and I'm sure there's something that can be done. dangernerd@gmail.com
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My mother and I believe that I have ADD. I can't focus on any one thing. If you told me to think about bananas, I'd end up with something completely different. I think about so many things at once, that I don't even know what I'm thinking about. What are some other symptoms of ADD? How do I convince my dad to take me to the doctor and get me meds if need be (he doesn't believe me)? (link)
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Here is everything you need to know about ADD. This should really be helpful to you -- http://health.yahoo.com/ency/healthwise/hw166083
If both you and your mother still think you have ADD, once reading the symptoms, etc. I would show your father the symptoms and the page above, and explain to him how you have those symptoms, etc. And I'm sure he will do that, or your mother could do this for you. :)
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Sorry. I googled it and can't find it. What does this mean?
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You know, I wondered the same thing (without the extra 3's.) This is a heart, if you look at it sideways, you can see it looks like a heart
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