Question Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 7:31 pm
i told my crush i like him i think he likes me to but he has a girlfriend so i fell inside that i want to make his girlfriend suffer but i dont know if its a good idea or bad
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? LagunaBabe answered Thursday January 11 2007, 2:19 pm: Look, I know you probably really like this guy, but he does have a girlfriend. And making her "suffer" is not going to help you in any way. It will not only make you look like a mean person, but it will not help you with getting this guy either. Because I'm assuming, that he really likes his girlfriend and if you do something bad to her, he's definitely not going to like you. So it's a horrible idea, please do not do that.
Think about it, if you a boyfriend and really liked/loved and him and some girl that was after your boyfriend, was doing bad things to you and trying to make you "suffer." How would that make you feel? I know, it wouldn't feel good. [ LagunaBabe's advice column | Ask LagunaBabe A Question ]
angieroonie answered Thursday January 11 2007, 6:28 am: Never do that! if he likes her, there is nothing you can do about it. he'll hate you if you break them up and it's not what he wants. just give it time. find out where you stand with him and then you know what to do
christina answered Thursday January 11 2007, 4:27 am: I would just leave them alone. If you start up with him, and his girlfriend finds out, I can guarentee that she's gonna get pissed & call you out. If you mess with her, she's probably gonna be like "wtf." I would just wait until they break up because it's dumb to get into the middle of relationships. Plus, you'd look like a slut to everyone else.
iloveaar answered Thursday January 11 2007, 12:43 am: don't bother his girlfriend cause i've been in both sides, and both are really wrong ,, for you it will be fun or something :p but trust me it won't work :S cause do you think he will still want to be your friend after your bothering his girlfirned? better stayed as friends, and just let him know in an indirect way that your interested in him and care about him, if he feels the same way then it works for you! [ iloveaar's advice column | Ask iloveaar A Question ]
yates answered Wednesday January 10 2007, 10:26 pm: Making his girlfriend suffer will make him respect you less; give it time, and if he really likes you then you two will be together soon enough. [ yates's advice column | Ask yates A Question ]
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