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i told my crush i like him i think he likes me to but he has a girlfriend so i fell inside that i want to make his girlfriend suffer but i dont know if its a good idea or bad (link)
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Making his girlfriend suffer will make him respect you less; give it time, and if he really likes you then you two will be together soon enough.
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ok lately i have been thinking of commiting suicide. most of the time i just get scared and dont do it. but im always depresses and crying for no reason. i need help and my mom doesnt want to take me to therapy because she doesnt want anybody to know what goes on in our house. my mom also says that if u commit suicide or cut yourself you will go to hell. thats basicly the only thing keeping me from jumping out of a window. so what are some free hotlines that i can call to help me through this or something because i dont want to feel this way. PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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I'm going to address your fear of dying and going to Hell. Honestly, if going to Hell scares you then you must think there's an alternative, like Heaven or Nirvana. In which case you must believe there is a God. In which case (I apologize for making this seem long but I'm trying to make it make as much sense as possible), if you believe in a religion, would their God really punish you for taking your own life? For example, if you happened to be Christian (which I am), I do not think God would be so merciless as to send you to Hell for trying to escape your situation. Maybe you should think up an alternative way to escape whatever is going on in your life. Depression can often times be overcome in a matter of months; wait for another three or four months until you truly believe dying is your only escape. In addition, maybe you could solve this problem that "goes on in [y]our house" by calling someone like DCF (Department of Children and Families). Their hotline for reporting abuse and neglect is
1-800-842-2288.
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(14/f)Ok I'll attempt to make this brief. My best friend and I tried out for a more advanced program at another school. I got in, she didn't. Now whenever I talk to her she always manages to sneak in a "Your school sucks, can't believe you ditched us to go there" etc... And everytime I talk to her it's always because she wants something"Can you do this question for me, can you go to my meeting for me"etc.. (needless to say the answer tends to be no, I'll help a bit but I won't do it for you. Which causes her to throw tantrums. Anyways...).
So all of this makes me want to avoid her as much as possible, the thing is that she and another one of my friends get out of school earlier than I do, and go to my house and wait outside the door for me to come home, most of the time wanting food and/or entertainment. When I come home I tend to be a nervous wreck and I tend to spend at least a good 4 hours or so on homework. Except when they come over they refuse to leave. I'm serious, even if I tell them that I'm busy and that they should go home they always say something to the effect of "We're bored, we've got nothing else to do so we'll stay here"(they're currently not talking to me because last time they did that I told them to stop harrassing me, harsh I know).
So... any ideas of how I can keep my sanity and NOT strangle them next time I see them?
hmm... attempt to make a brief question failed, it's rather long... (link)
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I think if you don't want to tell an adult (like their parent -or even yours- that they're bugging you), then another option is to completely ignore them. If they wait outside, go inside yourself and slam the door on them. If they get into your house before you come home, you could go so far as to call the cops; that is breaking and entering and they'd have to go to juvie court.
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i have not smoked pot scine december 28th. from now till january 20, if i just drink lots of water and nothing else. will it be out of my system? (link)
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It might if you're lucky. Usually, it takes a full 6 weeks at the least, but if you make sure to flush your body out with LOTS of water, you may have a chance of making that drug test say negative.
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Well there's this guy, one of my best friends and well I really like him alot. He doesn't know and I'm not planning on telling him for fear of losing our friendship so I don't need help about that. The thing is, the other day he texted me the wierdest message and then logged off. I havn't been able to ralk to him since so I don't know what it meant and I couldn't ask. The text he sent me was: 'I less than heart you'
Like what the heck does that mean? I asked a friend but she didn't know.
To clarify what I'm asking, I want to know what the message means and why he would send it to me if it's not something stupid.
Any help is appreciated. Thanks. (link)
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Since he said "less than heart you", i think he could've misspoke it and meant "less than three you", which, when typed out, means
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