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suicide hotlines or help!!!!
ok lately i have been thinking of commiting suicide. most of the time i just get scared and dont do it. but im always depresses and crying for no reason. i need help and my mom doesnt want to take me to therapy because she doesnt want anybody to know what goes on in our house. my mom also says that if u commit suicide or cut yourself you will go to hell. thats basicly the only thing keeping me from jumping out of a window. so what are some free hotlines that i can call to help me through this or something because i dont want to feel this way. PLEASE HELP ME!!!
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I'm going to address your fear of dying and going to Hell. Honestly, if going to Hell scares you then you must think there's an alternative, like Heaven or Nirvana. In which case you must believe there is a God. In which case (I apologize for making this seem long but I'm trying to make it make as much sense as possible), if you believe in a religion, would their God really punish you for taking your own life? For example, if you happened to be Christian (which I am), I do not think God would be so merciless as to send you to Hell for trying to escape your situation. Maybe you should think up an alternative way to escape whatever is going on in your life. Depression can often times be overcome in a matter of months; wait for another three or four months until you truly believe dying is your only escape. In addition, maybe you could solve this problem that "goes on in [y]our house" by calling someone like DCF (Department of Children and Families). Their hotline for reporting abuse and neglect is
1-800-842-2288.
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first of all you can tell a therapist anything they cant tell anyone else about it or they will get fired your mom shouldnt be worried about that. find a good friend to talk to. one that will understand. you can always IM me or E-mail me. I cant help with your problems. what is going on, what is causing you to cry and be depressed?
second of all, you should not kill yourself, i wanted to commit suicide to, ive cut myself for a long time, and was in the hospital for it. its not worth it at all. it doesnt help any of your problems. your just running away from them. the best way to overcome your problems is to face them, and talk about them. DO NOT KILL YOURSELF!
if you need someone to talk to im always here. i will help you the best i can. and you can talk to me about anything. i wont think youre stupid or anything else. alot has went on in my life to. and im very happy i havnt killed myself. everything happens for a reason. i guarantee you will be much happier after you talk about it. and when everything stops. so make sure you get back to me!
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Um, I see that your mom's very supportive.
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Tell your mom that you need emotional support and love right not. Not some lecture or harsh words.
Write what you're feeling down in a journal, draw, listen to music. What helps me is when I have a very bad event happen to me, I just write it all down. Whether it's in 3rd person view or 1st. I write it as a poem, lyrics, just a little short excerpt in 3rd person view, or get myself lost in my long stories that I write. What I do also is talk to someone that I trust dearly. And I met him online by the way. So go to a chat room and flag down someone and just vent out all your problems to them.
If you need someone to tlak to, I'm here.
AIM: r0ck0nl0ser
YIM/MSN/Email: xchoke_on_dead_hopex@yahoo.com
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I tried to commit suicide and it failed.....I looked up ways to do it that would work and I found this, and it helped me. Hope it helps you.
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Well I think that you need to see a therapist regardless of what your mom thinks. Suicide is very serious and I understand that she doesn't want people knowing what goes on in your house, but that's just a pathetic excuse! Here's a few phone numbers you can try:
1-800-SUICIDE / 1-800-784-2433
1-800-273-TALK / 1-800-273-8255
National Crisis Hotline: 1-800-784-2433
LifeLine: 1-800-273-8255
Depression Hotline: 1-630-482-9696
1-800-273-Talk
I hope you get better! Please write or im me anytime! If you need my number let me know and I'll give it to you as well!!!! Take care!
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Suicide is a permanant solution to a temporary problem...
don't do it...it is not wise...go to a doctor...go to a therapist...I don't give a crap what your mom says...
your life is the most valuable possesion you own...do not throw it away...go to a doctor immediately...call the police and tell them to take you into protective custody...its better than DYING...they will give you a therapist...and many other tools
its your life...given by Divine Right...it is not your time to go...instead find happiness in anything you can...be it an animal...the wind in the trees or the blueness of the sky know that there are many reasons to live...
be happy and rejoice for you are not alone...there are many who feel this way...and many overcome...don't be a statistic...do whatever you can to find happiness
here's a smiley face for starters :D
feel better please
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1.800.SUICIDE (784-2433)
Just Remember hurting yourself is only hurting others. Because once your gone you'll cause your family alot of grief. and your mom should want to take you to therapy. Talk to a counselor at school asap. If she wont do anything then you can do it yourself. its good that your trying to stop yourself!
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