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okay so i'm a little scared i'm 13f and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me and i havn't even started my period yet and i'm afraid if i have it with him something bad might happen can someone please help me i'm afraid.
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I suggest not having sex until YOU know you are ready to have it. If you are scared, dont do it. Dont let someone pressure you into something you dont want, its your body.
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noooooooooo dont realli and truly dont hav sex now..ure onli 13..dere soooo much tyme 4 you to do dat in da future and plus in my opinion havin sex frm a yung end turns you in to dem gals dat boiz jus like to have sex wid n den leave...dun do it wait a while...im 17 n i aint propa had sex yet cum close but aint dun da real fing..truss i fink its sooo ova rated..if hes forcin you den he obviously dun care bout you
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dear u,
I think you should do what you think is best in m opinion i think your a little to young. You should talk it over with your boyfriend maybe he'll understand
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please please dont make the same mistake that so many other gurls do your 13 you dont need sex right now and if your boyfriend pressing you end it with him because hes not respecting you respect yourself wait until your ready you havent even got your period and there are so many complications that come afterwards and you need to be ready emotionally as well and remeber once you loose it your never get it back so think wisely good luck i hope i helped
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i'm not going to lecture you & tell you to not have sex, but you are too young. especially if you've never had your period.
your period signifies that you are a young lady & are ready to have a baby, and that your body is preparing for sex, if you have sex when your body hasn't even been through that change, then you will more than likely mess up your own cycle & your hormones.
it just doesn't seem like such a good idea. there are so many regrets & so many tears that a 13 year old shouldn't have to go through, you're young, enjoy life while you can, don't try to be older than you are by having sex. it only complicates things.
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Honey, you're way too young. I won't reveal my age, but my bestfriend is your age. Her boyfriend dated her for 1 month. Then they had sex because he "wanted to". Two days after, he started being mean to her. He called her a whore "just kidding" (yeah right) and started hitting her. On new years eve, he went to hang out with the girl who has always liked him. He made out with her twice, some other girl like 6 times and then called my friend and dumped her. That stuff never would have happened, if she listened to me, and didn't have sex with him.
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obviously your not ready for it. so you should tell your boyfriend that he has to wait because you are not ready, if he says he will leave you, he wasn't much of a boyfriend anyway. i don't want to be mean but you have a whole life a head of you. If would happen to get pregnant the baby would ruin your life and i don't believe in abortion. not saying your domb enough to get pregnant, but think to yourself:
a> does he have money to support you and a baby plus himself.
b> Is he commited enough.
c> If he wants to have sex at 13 yrs. old he will leave you afterword.
Good Luck, I hope I helped you if i offended you in anyway i am sorry.
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Your really young, having sex may sound fun but on young teen girls it's a handful. It may not be the right choice and you could regret it. You should really wait until your not afraid, because if you are it could come back to haunt you. And it is really dangerous to have sex when you haven't had your period. You can still get pregnant, yeah i know people say "you can't get pregnant your first time" or "you can't get pregnant you haven't had your period." BUT THATS NOT TRUE. It happens, you might be getting your period soon and you may be ovulating and if you have sex when your ovulating its a higher chance you might get pregnant, so please take this to caution and don't do it just because you boyfriend wants to. For all you know he might be afraid too and not ready, and if he really loves you he'll respect your decision and wait.
Hope I Helped, let me know =]
-J.R.
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okay.
1. your 13. you should wait.
2. if you havn't had your period yet. you definitly SHOULD NOT have sex. it could really screw you up.
3. just wait until you know your ready. you should've have sex just because your boyfriend wants to. chances are, you won't be with him forever (since your thirteen), and when u actually do want to have sex, you want to at least have that feeling like your going to be with him forever.
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The key word you mentioned more than once is"afraid". If you are afraid of having sex you are not ready yet. Tell him you love him but you just aren't ready physically or emotionally yet. If he persists with trying to get you to do this get rid of him as he's showing he cares about himself and not you or your wishes.
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heyy ur only 13!! and plus your scared so why should you do it? to please him? Just tell him that your not ready and if he makes a big scene out of it then you know hes not a true boyfriend. Believe me, there are plenty of risks in having sex. (getting pregnant, getting an STD etc) You should wait untill your not afraid and you understand the consequences. Tell him straight up that your not ready. I'm 13 too and i was thinking of having sex but after i learned all the consequences i decided that i will wait untill im older. Hopefully you will make the right decesion too:-)
-Krazy
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I went through this, my boyfriend wanted me too to, when I was 13. Don't do it, if your scared. You're not ready then. My one friend did it with her boyfriend, when she was 13.. & she didn't want to lose him thats why.. but she ended up losing him anyways. My boyfriend ended up respecting me for not doing it however..I don't know if your boyfriend will or won't.. but if he doesn't, he isn't worth your time.
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then you're not ready, which means you shouldn't do it. tell your boyfriend that and if he doesn't understand hes just looking for some ass. don't let him pressure you to do something you're not ready for. hope i helpeddd
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