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What is a good bigger buttocks workout? Are there lots of ways to make your butt bigger or just a workout? How long does it take to make your bottom noticably larger?
Squats. You can Google it for directions.
how can you tell if a guy likes you?
All guys are different. However, usually if a guy pays attention to you and treats you a bit different then other girls, he might like you that way.
I haven't had my period in 2-3 months now. I would've taken a pregnancy test sooner, but I've never even had sex. In fact, the closest I've come to having sex is my boyfriend cumming on my ass in the shower. So there's really no way I should be pregnant.
I'm on Loestrin24Fe; it's NOT the pill that only gives you a period 4x a year. I've been on it since last June. For the first six months, my period slowly did become lighter and shorter, but it plateaued at about 2 days long. Now a couple months back, I got a *little* bit of spotting for a day, and ever since then, I have not had my period. Is this normal or should I see a doctor?
See a Gynecologist. Everyone is different and it's hard to say what's normal for you or not.
14/f, friend is 15/f
I love my best friend to death. We never used to fight, but lately we have been having little heated arguments, nothing serious but a big fight could easily happen. I have to be careful what I say because she overreacts and gets really mad about nothing but it's not her fault because there are family issues. I know friends fight and usually break up eventually but I don't want it to end, especially with a fight. Please help! What should I do? Thank you!
Also I always try to stop the arguments but she just says too late or idc. Sometimes it's her fault sometimes it's mine. We always make up but still.
You should give each other some space. Sometimes when friends fight a lot it's because they are always around each other and it gets old for the both of you. Give each other some space and see what happens from there. You might miss each other and realize that fighting is stupid. You might not miss each other at all and realize it's better if you just weren't friends.
Basically, I want to read a book i came across on the internet (www.scribd.com). It's an interesting book about Occult sciences and spirituality. I found that the author of the book died 23 years ago and the publisher has stopped printing new copies of the book and the publisher lives in a city far-off from my home. But i also found that some old copies are available in my city too. But the problem is that i do not want to read a hard copy as i will feel extremely awkward and embarassed if people around me found out that i read such books (occult sciences) as it is considered to be superstition, taboo or a scary science. The ebook can be downloaded for free from the internet but i don't know if it will be ethical to download it as i do not know whether the book is in public domain or not. I don't mind paying for the ebook but a paid downloadable copy is not available. So my dilemma is whether i should download the book and read it without checking its copyright status ?
Is the website legitimate? You should see under the "contact us" or "about us" information.
I met this guy about 3 years ago. When we met we couldn't be more opposite. I was the gorgeous nerd, straight A's big family, with really strict parents. He was the extremely athletic, big muscled, Straight C wrestler. With a small family. With basically no guidelines. But one day we got to talking and we instantly connected. Shortly after that we started dating. And it was GREAT! We dated for about 2 months then summer came. We had a long summer romance that ended with a tragic break up. When we got back to school the next year. I tried to stay away from him to avoid getting heart broken but I couldn't keep my distance. He ended up asking me out again and I said yes. This time things were different. He couldn't hold a relationship for more than a month. So he kept dumping me then a month later wanting me back. I couldn't resist. We dated on and off the whole year. When summer came I was relived. I didn't contact him that whole summer. When summer was over he had changed so much. Got into smoking, not only cigarettes but pot aswell. Drank occasionally and lost his virginity. I tried to stay away like my mom told me to but I couldn't. We are helplessly in-love. Its kind of like a romeo and Juliet situation, with our families hating eachother and all. But anyways, One day that year he came up and kissed me, told me how much he loved/missed me. and just like that I was back to him. recently we split.. AGAIN! I don't know whats wrong with me. If someone knows something I can do to keep myself away from him that would be GREAT! Please help me ): PLEASE):
It's going to be hard to stay away from him if you sincerely don't want to. You need to realize what it is about him that you love. Is it because he's nice and good to you? Is it because he's attractive and you get along? If he changed that much, then maybe you don't love him anymore. Maybe you just love the idea of him. What that means is you did love him before and you're holding on to that. You're not realizing what he turned into might not be something you want to pursue. Regardless, your family is just trying to help you. However, it is ultimately your decision if you go back to him or not. If it was more heartbreaking then anything else, you should try to move on.
You should go out on dates with other people. It will give you an idea of who is out there and show you that there are really good guys out there.
I was raped/molested. What type of lawyer would I need to contact about that?
You need to go through the police first. They will help you set that up.
Hi ok so I've posted a couple questions about this before only it's gotten better! Anyways so I used to have a thing with this guy I really fell for him we had classes together but never seemed to talk a lot then when we became close ( not as close in summer) he told me that he was going to a diffrebt school ever since mid february I haven't seen him which really helped me to get over him better! But I miss him and we haven't talked or texted and it's alright but I thunk I still like him because he allways pops into my mind when I do certain stuff and it brings up memories and makes me cry to myself. And its not that easy to text him anymore bc it seems he drifted and I still in my head want him back and I'm sometimes not happy and still when people yell for some odd reason he comes into my mind and I want to cry (yell as in getting mad and stuff) anyways Im still confused and I'm kinda a medium shy medium open when it comes to guys so it's not easy:/
What happens when you text him? If he seems distracted or uninterested, just tell him you're thinking about him and hope he's doing well. See where that goes. If he doesn't answer or still seems uninterested, then you should move on. It's not easy trying to get over someone but it can be done.
Is the National Youth Leadership Forum on Medicine a scam? I got an email today saying I was nominated, but then googled it and people are saying it is a scam. It says its only the top 1% of high school students, and I'm only a freshman so I'm confused how I got accepted and the upperclassmen didn't?
Check out the website and talk with counselors at your school. They should know the legitimacy of it.
Hey what is a good down load system similar to "vuze" but is not "limewire". "Limewire" carries to many viruses and I can not get "Vuze" to work. Please and thank you.
I can't suggest any websites. However, make sure you don't get any viruses from downloading music. You need a really good antivirus program. It could really mess up your computer.
I recently went on to lostzombies.com just to check it out. and i was continuously mad fun of and had a lot of rude remarks about being gay, which im not, and about my mother. Now I did say a little bit back, in defense, however the admin chewed me out and nothing was done about those who made really personal rude remarks. I think this website should be shutdown. Immediately.
You can't shut down websites. However, there is a thing called cyber bullying and it really isn't tolerated. If you feel that that's the case, stay away from it. Don't listen to what people on the internet have to say about you.
Okay, im 18/f and I have a boyfriend thats 17/m. We've been together for almost four months, and he has broke up with me once for mixed emotions; three days later we got back together.
For the past two nights I have been having nightmares. Literally. I wake up tossing and turning, and sometimes even balling my eyes out. They are always about Riley (my boyfriend) cheating on me with his ex; but last night, i had one where he was on my bed, with my bestfriend, and she was but naked and they were making out; than I broke up with him; and he seemed not to care. I woke up balling my eyes out again. These dreams feel so real, and the leave me with an icky feeling inside all day. Everytime I wake up, I hope the dream will just stop, but when i go back to bed, the dream starts where it stopped, and I can't sleep at all.
I don't know why I'm having these dreams. I know my boyfriend would never cheat on me. My mom hates seeing me like this, and she thinks its my concious telling me he is; but she really doesn't think he would either. Please help me. I'm tired of crying :/
Dreams are just that, dreams. Make sure you're relaxed and in a good mood beforehand and they should go away.
okay so my best friend broke up with this chick awhile back for some unknown reason. And ive been spending time with her geting to know her. And when my relationship fail I started to have feeling for her. But I think my best friend might be rethinking his break up with her. What should I do? I really like this gal. But I dont want to hurt my best friends feelings.
Talk to your best friend about it. Do you value your friendship with him more than a potential relationship with her? What happens if you two break up? There's a lot of things to think about. if you value his friendship, you should find someone else. There's always other girls.
I am SO sorry its so long bear with me!
ok so its almost mine and my bfs one year anniversary, and for his gift I wrote down 365 reasons why i love him. i got 52 sheets of paper (52 weeks in a year) and wrote 7 reasons down on each sheet. then I did some insane origami and folded all 52 pages into paper hearts. i put ALOT of work into it, and im ver proud of myself.
The only problem; now I have no idea how to present them to him. i want to give them to him all at once, and i dont wanna just put them in a plastic bag and say "here". If I had my way, i would get a really fancy box to put them all in. Like the ones that you see at the furniture tore. but the thing is, the second i went to a furniture store, no one knew what the crap I was talking about. im not dead set on a fancy box, I just want a cute container just for the sake of presentation. all I need is to know what to put these hearts in, and where i can find said container.
I REALLY appreciate reading my stupidly long question!
You should try thrift stores like Good Will or Salvation Army. You'd be surprised at all the neat stuff they have.
I know they say getting over one's first relationship is the hardest but it can definitely be done. Why do I feel that the only true way to get over a relationship is to find someone else? Even if it's not love in the beginning, it might be later. Though it is so wrong, why does it seem so right?
My ex broke it off with me because we lacked communication issues from the start. I had trust issues with him, as well. Being my first relationship, and not his, I was very picky about the way things were but I always thought honesty was the best policy. I am also going to move cities away from my home soon enough as well. What should I do? Sometimes I miss him like crazy and other times, I'm alright. We don't really talk as much, at all, or anything. I tried occupying my mind but sometimes, the pain keeps coming back.
It's tough. Your first relationship is kind of your standard so to speak. However, it's possible as long as you stay positive and try to move on. Going on dates with other guys can really be a lot of fun. You can't dwell on him.
14/f
I don't do happy endings. For 12 years I've been exposed to all sad, depressing stories and movies. If a story makes me cry, I know there's a lot of emotion in there, and I like being able to write a story that brings a tear to someone's eye. Thing is, I'm still learning. I'm currently working on a story where a small child finds and befriends an ancient monster. In the end he dies. How can I really cram some emotion in this without making it seem overdone or exaggerated? All answerers, thank you!
~Also. Sorry if this is in the wrong category.
The saddest stories to read are ones that come from the author's heart. Write about something you're passionate about and it should go well.
I like this guy, he likes me,hes engaged, and im his "sancha" i want to stop wat we have, but yet another part of me wants to keep wat we have going. I dnt kno if i should break away or keep doing wat were doin.
his fiancee lives in another state, hes in the marine corp nd is stationed in my city. he tells me tht she is cheating on him too, because she has tld him, but he hasnt tld her about me. Anyone wanna help me, im confused.
Fiance? You shouldn't be involved with a guy who has a fiance. Sure, he might end it with her to be with you. But what if you're his fiance and he's doing the same thing with someone else? You need to be with someone you trust. I don't think you can trust someone with a fiance.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for only 5 days and we just had our first fight.He seems to be the best thing I ever had but after that fight I'm thinking twice about it.W e have known eachother since third grade and since then we've been best friends.How the fight happened was when my friend wasd over my house sleeping over and we called him just to play around wit him. Then it seemed like he was flirting with my friend. I talked to him and said how I felt about it and he acted like he cared but he didn't because then he asked my friend for her number. She gave it to him thinking that there was nothing going on.I feel like I'm gettinbg in the way of them having a relationship and I'm affraid that I won't have him anymore.I don't want him feeling like he can get away with things easily but at the same time I don't want him thinking that I hold a grug. What do I do!!!! I am a girl and 14 years old.
You need to talk to him about it. It's your relationship and no one can give you the right advice on what to do.
I have shoulder-length hair, and I really want it to grow out. But my hair tends to sort of hit a plateau, where it seems to stop growing, and it's almost at that length. Is there anyway I can stimilate growth to make my hair grow faster, and to grow past the point it usually stops?
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Your-Hair-Grow-Faster
That's a pretty good article that can show you how.
Does andrew like me
That's something you need to ask Andrew. Don't be shy about it. It's good to know if a guy likes you or not so you're not stuck wondering. If he says yes, make sure to ask him out.