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It's gotten better but not really
Hi ok so I've posted a couple questions about this before only it's gotten better! Anyways so I used to have a thing with this guy I really fell for him we had classes together but never seemed to talk a lot then when we became close ( not as close in summer) he told me that he was going to a diffrebt school ever since mid february I haven't seen him which really helped me to get over him better! But I miss him and we haven't talked or texted and it's alright but I thunk I still like him because he allways pops into my mind when I do certain stuff and it brings up memories and makes me cry to myself. And its not that easy to text him anymore bc it seems he drifted and I still in my head want him back and I'm sometimes not happy and still when people yell for some odd reason he comes into my mind and I want to cry (yell as in getting mad and stuff) anyways Im still confused and I'm kinda a medium shy medium open when it comes to guys so it's not easy:/
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try texting him or even calling him (which means more than a silly text) and tell him how you feel. say you miss him and really wish he was here to comfort you.
if he seems disinterested, just move on. you said its getting better.. which means you're doing something right. just keep doing what you're doing and it will get better to the point where you dont even think about him.
time is all it takes. it took about 1 year for me to get over a really bad relationship. it took a lot of work but after that year, i felt new and improved :)
it really helps if you have a best friend or someone close who you can talk to about this. my best friend was there with me all the time and she really helped me get over him. try finding someone like that. if you dont have anyone like that, i'm always here to help! :)
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What happens when you text him? If he seems distracted or uninterested, just tell him you're thinking about him and hope he's doing well. See where that goes. If he doesn't answer or still seems uninterested, then you should move on. It's not easy trying to get over someone but it can be done.
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