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Dreams are making me cry my eyes out??


Question Posted Saturday March 12 2011, 10:01 am

Okay, im 18/f and I have a boyfriend thats 17/m. We've been together for almost four months, and he has broke up with me once for mixed emotions; three days later we got back together.

For the past two nights I have been having nightmares. Literally. I wake up tossing and turning, and sometimes even balling my eyes out. They are always about Riley (my boyfriend) cheating on me with his ex; but last night, i had one where he was on my bed, with my bestfriend, and she was but naked and they were making out; than I broke up with him; and he seemed not to care. I woke up balling my eyes out again. These dreams feel so real, and the leave me with an icky feeling inside all day. Everytime I wake up, I hope the dream will just stop, but when i go back to bed, the dream starts where it stopped, and I can't sleep at all.

I don't know why I'm having these dreams. I know my boyfriend would never cheat on me. My mom hates seeing me like this, and she thinks its my concious telling me he is; but she really doesn't think he would either. Please help me. I'm tired of crying :/


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Additional info, added Saturday March 12 2011, 10:02 am:
Please tell me what my dreams mean, or how I can stop them; pleasee. <3.

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ashleyrguadalupe answered Friday March 18 2011, 9:53 pm:
Your dreams are your thoughts subconciuosly
In your mind deep in there you got a feeling and thats why these dreams are coming out!
If you really belive hes not cheating then remind your self always about the good things tin the relationship! Think about good things get the bad things out. Theres spanish remedies dont know if you belive but you could go to a botanica and they can give u something to put next to your bed ...
I was having the same prob with my daughters father. They said it was because other girls were hating me and thats what happens with jealousy...

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britZ67 answered Friday March 18 2011, 1:43 pm:
Dreams are either gonna tell you your worst fears. strongest desires, and what your hiding inside, therefore will try and guide you

Your dreams could mean that you are terribly afraid of him cheating, so they pick your closest friend to throw in there to make that fear even worse.

Or if that is not your fear, maybe they are trying to tell you something, maybe he is cheating. Dreams are really smart, but can be deceiving (fears) because they are connected to your intuition. When I was getting over a break up I dreamed of my ex with this blonde headed girl, and a couple weeks later, he is with this blonde headed girl. I am not psychic but I trust my gut and my thoughts.

Soo if you suspect him of cheating then confront him about it, he may or not be but do not freak out or jump to conclusions

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xomegaroni answered Friday March 18 2011, 11:25 am:
Dreams are just that, dreams. Make sure you're relaxed and in a good mood beforehand and they should go away.

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asksharon156 answered Monday March 14 2011, 1:29 am:
The same exact thing happened to me, me and my bf broke up and then got back together and every few days i would have a dream he broke up with me and would wake up crying. It was terrible. I realized it would happen the nights that i wouldnt talk to him before i went to bed. It still happens alot of the times if i dont talk to him. It means that you are scared hes going to break up with you or cheat on you. Maybe talk to your boyfriend about your fear and it might help you feel better, Unless you think your boyfriend wouldnt want to know about your dreams. I told mine, but he just thinks im crazy.

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