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Hey, welcome to ask sharon. Im sharon im 19 years old. Im here to give you advice on anything you need help with. Im not an expert but i will do my best to help you out!Start Asking!
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Okay so my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. His parents seem cool and everything but whenever he does something minor, like bad grade or didn't take out the trash they punish him by taking away his net privleges and therefore can't talk to me. IDK why this aggravates me because I guess I should be used to it. I know its the way they raise there kid but I'm frustrated, idk if its at them or him or myself, I just don't know anymore. All and any advice is great appreciates, thank you!
My boyfriends parents use to turn of his internet and i hated it because i couldnt talk to him. It was like they were punishing me too! I hated it, but theres really nothing you can do, i dont think they would be to happy if you told them how to raise there son. I know its frustating. Maybe tell your boyfriend to stop getting in trouble so you can talk! haha
Okay... I am doing this for the very first time but nevertheless probably my last try at self help..this is 26 female.
I am the edge of insanity.. i am in a very troubled relationship.. married for 5 years now.. My husband doesn't earns a penny, doesn't allows me to go and fetch for myself, hes got a loan of 500000$, no child. hes constantly fighting, he rendered me homeless on 3 counts, but then took me back. right now m homeless again, living in motels of the money loaned from friends. I'm planning to divorce him, but he wont let me go. I have given him enough chances. but i am not sure what i should do next. suicide seems the most appropriate. PLZ help. ANYONE!
I would divorce him he is not making life any better for you. You need to get out of this and get your self a job and start fresh. Talk to your friends about it, have them help you get a job and a place to live. And no suicide is never the option. You will be so much happier if you get out of this marriage and start fresh!
i just dyed my hair recently, if i go swimming tomorrow will the red turn green or a different colour?
It shouldnt turn a differnt color
I know this Guy who ive Known for about 15 years now.
He was around alot during my Childhood years.!
Hes not to much older then iam.
He's a really good friend who i tell everything to.
He told me he wanted to be with me & that he was in love with me.
I dont know what to do!
If you think your into him too then tell him that.
If your not into him, tell him you think of him more as a friend, and you dont want to lose your friendship.
If your not sure how you feel, maybe try going on a date and see what happens.
Basically i had this best friend who i was really close to, we use to hang out every weekend, but 2010 i had a really bad year had a close family death and dunno i had so much angry and sadness and i just took it out on her all the time i slapped her on the face when i was drunk which i am ashamed of,i have argue issues where i have trouble controlling my anger and she would always forgive me until one time where she couldnt and refuses to, i have told her i am sorry and that i cant lose her, and i just cry all the time now, and i really am sorry cause im just full of guilt and its affecting everything home life, my learning at school which im doing a levels, and even though we still friends, and i respect her for allowing this, i just miss her so much and i feel like i have lost myself, and she doesnt see i really am trying i just feel like a failure in life, but i really do love and care about her, but she doesnt care about me anymore and its killing me literally :( i need to talk to her tomorrow and i dont no what to say, would appreciate the advice
Appologize to her again, tell her that you were having a really hard time that year and you took your anger out on her. Tell her that you miss her and just explain how you feel.
So I have a big chest and I dont lkikeflanting it so much so I wear things that are tastful and right for my age. I do wear vnecks and that type of thing. And jeans almost every day and convers or my toms. But the subject that I dress like an old lady came up the other day. I like wearing elegant tops in soft colors, and vintage jewelry and such and alot of my stuff I buy new from stores like express or lucca.
My friends are kinda goth dressing, like black and skater clothes. So Im not sure if I need new clothes or new friends. Cause everyone else I ask say I look fashion forward. But I dont know if they are being nice.
Dont worry what your friends think, its sounds like you dress very well. Wear what you want to wear, if your friends dont like it, then you need new friends.
Okay, im 18/f and I have a boyfriend thats 17/m. We've been together for almost four months, and he has broke up with me once for mixed emotions; three days later we got back together.
For the past two nights I have been having nightmares. Literally. I wake up tossing and turning, and sometimes even balling my eyes out. They are always about Riley (my boyfriend) cheating on me with his ex; but last night, i had one where he was on my bed, with my bestfriend, and she was but naked and they were making out; than I broke up with him; and he seemed not to care. I woke up balling my eyes out again. These dreams feel so real, and the leave me with an icky feeling inside all day. Everytime I wake up, I hope the dream will just stop, but when i go back to bed, the dream starts where it stopped, and I can't sleep at all.
I don't know why I'm having these dreams. I know my boyfriend would never cheat on me. My mom hates seeing me like this, and she thinks its my concious telling me he is; but she really doesn't think he would either. Please help me. I'm tired of crying :/
The same exact thing happened to me, me and my bf broke up and then got back together and every few days i would have a dream he broke up with me and would wake up crying. It was terrible. I realized it would happen the nights that i wouldnt talk to him before i went to bed. It still happens alot of the times if i dont talk to him. It means that you are scared hes going to break up with you or cheat on you. Maybe talk to your boyfriend about your fear and it might help you feel better, Unless you think your boyfriend wouldnt want to know about your dreams. I told mine, but he just thinks im crazy.
I heard that if i get braces and i eat somthing exremly hard i can break the metal braket is that true?
yes that is true, also anything sticky can break it
So I've been taking birth control for a while now, and I never use condoms with my boyfriend. I forgot to take them for over a week and had a lot of sex. I started to get symptoms after a while, and I worried. Then on about what should have been the last day of my period; I bled, but only a little.
Could I still be pregnant?
yes you can be, you can still bleed a little bit and be pregnant. Not taking birth control for a week is not good, its very possibe you are pregnant, i suggest getting a test. For future reference make sure you take your pills everyday or you will get pregnant. If you miss one by accident use a condom if you want to have sex that day.
In 10th grade, I had just started dating my high school sweetheart. On a school trip, I noticed this other girl who I had heard about but never met. I knew right away that there was something about her that I had never seen before. I put it out of my mind though, being completely infatuated with my girlfriend at the time. Later that year, during the school musical, I got to know the girl from the trip (for clarity's sake, let's call her Jen). We got to know each other pretty well. I had some small feelings for her, but she was dating someone and I was dating someone. We continued to talk throughout high school. Then I graduated and went to college. She's two years younger than me, so she was still in high school. after the first semester of college, my girlfriend broke up with me. The first thing I thought about was Jen and how I could now possibly be with her, but by the time she broke up with her boyfriend, I had a new girlfriend. This has been the cycle ever since. We've grown apart now, but I still think about her all the time. There was only one two month period where both of us were single. She called me and asked me to stop by a mutual friends house to say hi. I did and we sat on the couch together and she would just stare right into my eyes while I was talking and all of her friends were trying to get us alone. I ended up leaving soon, but she texted me for the rest of the night talking about watching the stars and wishing I was there. That was a year and a half ago. After that, we were never that close again. We still say hi occasionally, but nothing meaningful. I'm going to see her soon and I can't get her out of my head. Did she have feelings for me? Was she just overly flirtatious? Was it all in my head? And, most importantly, if it wasn't in my head, could she possibly still feel the same? What should I do? It might sound crazy, but I really feel like I need to take a shot at this. Any advice?
You guys both seem to like each other. I say take a shot at it. Or else you will never know if you guys would have been good together or not.
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 9 months. We’ve been engaged for 4 months. We’re both 19. All we do if fight (for about 7 months it’s been nothing really but fighting). He always says how he thinks my feelings have dropped for him. He says I’ve changed. He acts like he doesn’t trust me anymore. He always has me swear on our relationship that I’m being honest. We both have bad jealousy, trust, and anger issues. He has broken up with me twice now, once since we got engaged because I talked to a guy. Every time I know it’s because he's mad, but how can I convince him I never lie to him, I’m the same just more open and I haven't lost feelings for him? This is killing our relationship and if things don’t change soon I don’t know if we are going to make it.
Continue to try to work out your relationship, talk about your trust issues and other things. Maybe once you talk about it, things will get better. If nothing changes then i dont think its a good idea to get married to this guy unless you can stop fighting. Otherwise your going to have a very unhappy marriage.
My boyfriend and i have been together for about eight months. One of my friend chelsea decided to tell all the girls at lunch how much cuter her boyfriend is compared to my boyfriend. Chelsea and I are both seniors in highschool. When i found this out I was furious. My hands were shaking and i wanted so much to say something to her about that. The reason why this also made me so angry is because i'm the one that hooked her and her boyfriend up. I was friends with her boyfriend before. I don't know what to think about this. Am i doing the right thing by ignoring her? i plan to not talk to her and keep my distance because i don't need to have friends like her around. another detail about the story is that the same week she had been complaining to me about how some girl was making fun of her boyfriend. We were both talking about how wrong that was, but then she turns around and does the same thing to me. she told the whole group not to tell me what she had said about my boyfriend being ugly.
She may just be getting her anger out because someone mad fun of her boyfriend it may not mean anything, so try talking to her about it and tell her how it made you feel. If she doesnt care then maybe she isnt the best person to be hanging around, friends shouldnt be telling you your boyfriends ugly.
I know they say getting over one's first relationship is the hardest but it can definitely be done. Why do I feel that the only true way to get over a relationship is to find someone else? Even if it's not love in the beginning, it might be later. Though it is so wrong, why does it seem so right?
My ex broke it off with me because we lacked communication issues from the start. I had trust issues with him, as well. Being my first relationship, and not his, I was very picky about the way things were but I always thought honesty was the best policy. I am also going to move cities away from my home soon enough as well. What should I do? Sometimes I miss him like crazy and other times, I'm alright. We don't really talk as much, at all, or anything. I tried occupying my mind but sometimes, the pain keeps coming back.
I was so upset when me and my boyfriend broke up. I also thought finding someone new would help, I dont think its a problem to start dating someone new it will help you feel a little better probably not completly better but it might help. If it doesnt work out then keep searching for someone that you like better. Maybe try talking to your ex if you miss him alot, dont talk to him to much, maybe just ask him how hes doing, if your ment to be you will end up back together at some point.
I liked this boy and I fell pretty quickly, but he's so cool and popular I thought I wouldn't have a chance. I sopke to him a bit and hes so nice and friendly. He smokes weed and things and got me to try a cigarette, but that wasnt his fault I only did it so I wouldnt look daft.I regret it now, hes a bit of a player and I know he'd not be whats good for me and it might not even last long. i found out he used to like this girl at school or still does and we went to a party and he spent the whole time talking to another girl. I try and get his attention or text him and I spent a bit of time with him at the party talking and hugging and stuff, but hes just not trying like texting me, like I do him so I dont think he's that interested, any advice? Thinking I'll see him makes me smile and Someone said when I left the room once he was just staring at me and went quiet, what should I do?, I think I'd get over him but its not the point hes all bad and what should I do?
Your right i think he is a bit of a player, since he was talking to other girls when you were at a party. Also the fact that he is into drugs isnt the best thing, and i wouldnt want him to pressure you into doing it to. I know its hard to get over guys but i think its for the best.