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What do you think i should do
Basically i had this best friend who i was really close to, we use to hang out every weekend, but 2010 i had a really bad year had a close family death and dunno i had so much angry and sadness and i just took it out on her all the time i slapped her on the face when i was drunk which i am ashamed of,i have argue issues where i have trouble controlling my anger and she would always forgive me until one time where she couldnt and refuses to, i have told her i am sorry and that i cant lose her, and i just cry all the time now, and i really am sorry cause im just full of guilt and its affecting everything home life, my learning at school which im doing a levels, and even though we still friends, and i respect her for allowing this, i just miss her so much and i feel like i have lost myself, and she doesnt see i really am trying i just feel like a failure in life, but i really do love and care about her, but she doesnt care about me anymore and its killing me literally :( i need to talk to her tomorrow and i dont no what to say, would appreciate the advice
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
speak from your heart. say whats on your mind. be honest with her.
if she's a loyal friend, she will come back because she cares about you.
if she doesn't come back, well then that sucks. life sucks. life's unfair. be sure to learn your lesson from it. maybe you shouldn't treat your friends like shit. there's a reason why she doesn't trust you anymore. learn from it.
i'm sorry i'm sounding so harsh, but its the truth. you really need to learn how to take the reigns on your life. nobody can control your life except YOU. you control it. whatever is happening right now, you need to control it. you cant just hand over your life to someone else and expect them to make it better.
the only thing she can do is be there for you and help you with some advice. but she can't take over your life and transform it..
if she's not a loyal friend, then she's not worth your tears and troubles. you can find other friends who will actually respect you. but remember this.. in order for them to respect you.. YOU need to respect THEM too.
i hope i helped and i'm here if you need someone to talk to.
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Appologize to her again, tell her that you were having a really hard time that year and you took your anger out on her. Tell her that you miss her and just explain how you feel.
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