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Getting over first relationship
I know they say getting over one's first relationship is the hardest but it can definitely be done. Why do I feel that the only true way to get over a relationship is to find someone else? Even if it's not love in the beginning, it might be later. Though it is so wrong, why does it seem so right?
My ex broke it off with me because we lacked communication issues from the start. I had trust issues with him, as well. Being my first relationship, and not his, I was very picky about the way things were but I always thought honesty was the best policy. I am also going to move cities away from my home soon enough as well. What should I do? Sometimes I miss him like crazy and other times, I'm alright. We don't really talk as much, at all, or anything. I tried occupying my mind but sometimes, the pain keeps coming back.
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I won't say it is very easy getting over someone. But at long as you maintain a positive outlook you won't really get depressed. Keep telling yourself that it wasn't going to work out anyway. And think about the faults because of which you guys broke up.
And to avoid thinking about him occupy yourself with something .. Something that will keep you busy for most part of the day.
And dating someone else is not a solution at all. How can you give your best into another relashionship when you're not over the first?
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It's tough. Your first relationship is kind of your standard so to speak. However, it's possible as long as you stay positive and try to move on. Going on dates with other guys can really be a lot of fun. You can't dwell on him.
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I was so upset when me and my boyfriend broke up. I also thought finding someone new would help, I dont think its a problem to start dating someone new it will help you feel a little better probably not completly better but it might help. If it doesnt work out then keep searching for someone that you like better. Maybe try talking to your ex if you miss him alot, dont talk to him to much, maybe just ask him how hes doing, if your ment to be you will end up back together at some point.
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