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should i stay or go
Me and my boyfriend have been together for only 5 days and we just had our first fight.He seems to be the best thing I ever had but after that fight I'm thinking twice about it.W e have known eachother since third grade and since then we've been best friends.How the fight happened was when my friend wasd over my house sleeping over and we called him just to play around wit him. Then it seemed like he was flirting with my friend. I talked to him and said how I felt about it and he acted like he cared but he didn't because then he asked my friend for her number. She gave it to him thinking that there was nothing going on.I feel like I'm gettinbg in the way of them having a relationship and I'm affraid that I won't have him anymore.I don't want him feeling like he can get away with things easily but at the same time I don't want him thinking that I hold a grug. What do I do!!!! I am a girl and 14 years old.
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You need to talk to him about it. It's your relationship and no one can give you the right advice on what to do.
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First, Your boyfriend flirted with your friend. If your boyfriend respected you, He would have no reason to flirt around. Second, Your friend gave him her number knowing that he was YOUR boyfriend.
If your boyfriend flirts with other girls and ask them for there numbers he doesn't deserve you. 1) He wouldn't be trust worthy 2) Cheaters become Liars and 3) World war 3 of drama is just not worth getting into.
If your boyfriend chooses to cheat, Let him. As painful as it is too hear he'll learn the hard way because not many people want to stick around and be played. One thing you need to remember, He just wasn't good enough for you. There are always other guys out there and more will come but the boyfriend and the friend...Need to go. A true friend will not get in the way of your relationship. You explained to him already that you didn't like what he was doing, He acted like he cared but then went ahead and ask your friend for his number, Listen reality is dump him or let him dump you.
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