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What is his deal??
I asked this guy from my work to go out with me and other friends, and we had a real good time. My friends left and it was just me and this guy for hours, I stayed forever at his house, we made out and other things..
He said he liked me.
I went out of town for a while. When I got back he totally just acted like we were strictly friends. I asked him bout it and he said he didn't want a girlfriend. He promised me though that he really did like me and thinks I'm cool.
So we are friends, we dint kiss, or have any sexual content, but he still asks me to hang with him just to hang out.
and i always catch him looking at me, or just touching me casually, all flirty like.
I dont get him. SO many times I have wanted to kiss him, but I'm scared to bc he made it clear...
I want to be more than friends. What should I do now?
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From what I gather, you two have rushed into things way too fast.
If he has completely told you that he doesn't want a relationship, then he means it. But there could rightly be someone else.
I think he could be afraid of what would come next if he actually committed to you.
Hang out, by all means, but you know what he said.
If you want a relationship with him, tell him when the time is right and you've hung out more (as friends...) so you can get to know him a little better. Also, you should tell him that you don't want to rush into a relationship (if/when you tell him you want something more).
Good luck! :)
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Uh, duh... you made out with him. Fun for him! I'm sure he *would* like to 'hang out' again and make out with a cute chick without having to deal with the relationship thing. If you're cool with just being a fun hook-up, then fine. But be warned, he has been totally up front with you about what he wants. Don't think you'll be "the one" that changes his mind. Take him at his word and go from there.
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( I stayed forever at his house, we made out and other things..)
I'm going to take a guess that he may feel that you two rushed things and wants to take things slow. Sounds to me like the guy wants to maintain a friendship and see where it goes or he could have a girlfriend you don't know about.
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