Hey there. I'm 18, and my birthday is January 8th, 1988. I have brown hair, blue eyes, and I'm short.
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ok..well me and my bf have been going out for 5 months and we want to take it further..we have made out and felt eachother up..but he wants to finger me and i want to give him a hand job..i'm a little nervous about it though and i was wondering if anyone had any advice?? (link)
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um, use pressure, but not a lot of pressure ... wait till he's aroused enough that precum has come out ... go up and down at a speed he enjoys. Also, touch/grab/massage his balls ... that will make him go crazy. Hun, don't be nervous. It's completly natural and he wants it and you want it. What could be better. lol
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My best friend and I are like sisters. We've been through everything together. Last night though we were at our other friends house. We talked about school and stuff but then out of no where, my best friend said that she has had sex with her boyfriend of 2 years. It came to a shock to me cause first of all she is only 14 and then second she didnt use protection. My other friend though said it was no big deal since she has been dating him for 2 years. I dont know what to say to my best friend. i really need some help cause i don't want anythin bad to happen to her. (link)
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tell her to use some fucking protection!!!! omg .... just ask her if she really wants a kid at 14
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Ok, whats 1st, 2nd, and 3rd base. I mean I know what they are but I forgot which ones which, help? lol (link)
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1st base - making out/boob grabbing ...
2nd base - fingering/handjob
3rd base - oral sex (blowjobs, eating out)
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hey yall i need some help (16/f/single) well i was with my bff yesterday..and we invited over her bf and his friend who i kinda like!..well my friend and her bf were makign out...and i was talking too the other guy and well he put his hand on my leg no big deal then he was rubbing it you know it was comfortable..well i told him i liked him and he said he liked me! it was great lol then he fingered me...while we were making out...then he asked me out i said ya...then i ono what came over me i took his hand and wa\lked upstairs and we had sex..greaaaat sex...i was on the pill anyways and we used a condom...but am i a slut and was that a bad thing?? im not pregnant or anything...sry that was long..please tell me! PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS IS IMPORTANT TOO ME!!! (link)
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Thank god you used a condom as well as birth control. Well, if you like him then your not a slut. Sex is a natural thing, and it should never be seen as a bad thing. UYnless it was rape or something. but anyways, your not a slut, you did what you wanted to do.
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well my n my bf have been going out for 3 years now...16/f btw...well weve gone too 3rd base...well once i was giving him head and he pulled down my pants we did 69 and the dorr knob was turning and his parents were there so we QUICKLY stopped and then pulled our pants up n sat there his mom was like hey guys...she said adam youre pants are unzipped! i was like oh crap she didnt think anything i hope...well i was wondering how do we prevent getting caught...should we do it in the car or got oo a ahotel maybe? MODS DONT DELETE!!! you dont understand i need help (link)
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Well, when you know you guys will have the house to yourself for a while, do it then ..., a car or motel room are also great places if you don't want to get caught.
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What does 69 mean?? and what does it mean to be 'wet'? (link)
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69 is 2 people giving oral to each other at the same time. one person lays on top of the other person with their privates in each other faces, basically. And to be wet, is to be horny, or ready for sex.
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One nyte i was with this guy, nathan who i knew a long time and we ended up going down on eachother and doing "69". We are just really good friends. Then three days later me and this guy went over to one of my other good friends' house and i gave the other guy head because i was pressured into it and he kept asking me to do it but i kept refusing. After about 3 hours i finally agreed to so he would get off my case. Well Nathan went off with my friend and pleasured her..after i did this i felt really regretful and felt horrible. Do you think that i'm now a slut? (link)
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no, i don't think you are. First of all, i think that you should call the cops, or talk to a guidance counculer or something, because if the dude is forcing you to giv him head ... that is a problem. Just next time, don't do it. Just leave. Don't stick around until he forces you to.
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I know this is going to be long, so sorry. But I will rate you high even if you answer!!
Well, I have a feeling that I could be a lesbian. And it's really difficult and I know that I'm going to have to wait and see if I actually am. The thing is I feel so much more comfortable around girls, and I actually have my eye on this one girl from my school. But the thought of getting married to a girl and not a guy makes me feel sick. And I just get this feeling when I'm around guys like Wow i'm so embarassed/nervous, But then I get this feeling like ohh YAY i'm so glad im here when I'm with girls. It's just everytime I like a guy, I only like him for like a week. Is there a chance I could be lesbian, or do you think it's just a phase? Please help!!
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No, i don't think you are. If the thought of marrying a girl instead of a guy makes you sick ... and a ot of girls go through this faze. It's just right now, girls are always there for you, when i guy isn't. Look, if you really, wanna know, experiment with it.
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my boyfriend... who i HAVENT talked to in like 3 weeks... seems to be ignoring me becuz he knoes im wantin to dump him... so what do i do sinc ei can never get in touch with him? Do i call and leave him a message breaking up with him? (link)
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Do it in person. There is nothing worse then breaking up with someone over the phone, or sending a message ... catch up with him one day and do it in person.
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does anyone know cute sites to get stuff on like backrounds or pictures?glittery stuff or such as? (link)
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hye, you can go to my site ... http://snowwalker69.tripod.com
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what does eating butt taste like? (link)
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hey, i tried the birth control pill and it made me have really bad heart problemz from it..and well, my heart is getting better now after about a year from those damn thingz!!!!
but my question is...do any of yuz kno any good birth control methods like the patch, or anything lyk that that is healthy and that you can use if you smoke cigarettes?? (link)
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It's extremly unhealthy to take any type of birth control and smoke. It'll increase your chances of blood clots, heart disease and cancers by a lot. I had to quit smoking in order to go on my birth control.
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When after having sex and if the sperm ejaculated in, what kind of pills are good to take to avoid prenancy from happening? (link)
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Well, you can take the morning after pill, and you can take that up to 3 days after you've had sex ... also, taking birth control the day after will not help at all. That is a myth.
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hey i wrote on here b4 about my momz b/f with hep c and how i hate him and everything..well, the follow up on that is that today she just informed me that were moving in with him in a few weekz!! i have to change school and go thru the whole shit..shez trying to bribe me to move in...and i dono wut tah do!! plz i need help fast!!
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Hey Hun. Well, first of all, DON'T MOVE IN WITH HIM!!!! Don't take your mom's bribes or anything like that. Move in with a friend if anyone will tkae you in, or another family member. Just because your mom is putting herself through hell, doesn't mean she has to drag you and your sister through all the shit too. Refuse. Flat out refuse to move in with him. Just because she is your mom doesn't give her the right to force you to move in with some creep of a guy. hope I helped. ttyl
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ok me and my boyfreind have been going out for over 2 months now and we are truely in lovewe both think. and he promised he would marry me.. but then he was just on vacation like 1 week ago and when he got back i told him that i would nevr break up with him no matr what and then he tells me when he was on vacation some girl started puttin her hands down his pants and gave him a handjob.. and then he asked her out when she was done with the handjob and he sayd ok (not saying yes or no)..and then later they were on the couch and she was all over him and hes like what are you doing and shes like ur my boyfriend and hes like no im fucking not and then she called him when he got back but he just hungup on him... I SO NEED HELP! really really i do !!! i rate really really high!! ~thanks~ (link)
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Hun, I hate to be brutal, but your man cheated on you. If he let some other girl give him a handjob, that is cheating. And if she asked him out and he said ok, that is technically saying, yeah, but i want more action first. If he didn't cheat, he wouldn't have let her go down his pants, and he would have said no. You might love him, but i don't think he is ready for that commitment.
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My friend is going crazy because she tried to have mad hot lezibian sex with what should i do??? Help...should i do it or not the next time i see her?
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if you want to, go for it, or if you are confused about your sexuality, experiment. but if you are uncomofortable with it, then don't do it. DO whatever you feel comfortable in doing
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A new girl at our skool is 17, engaged, and has a baby. Shes still a freshman cause she was expelled from her old skool her freshman year. Everyone makes fun of her cause she has a kid and is a 17 year old freshman. She doesnt let it bother her, but it bothers me. Shes a good friend of mine now, and I want to be able to stop some of the stuff. Is there any good ways to make ppl just shut up about it?
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This adivce is going to suck. lol. But if I was you, and anybody started talking shit about my friend who has probley had a really stressful life, i'd tell them to shut the fuck up! I mean, it's none of their buisness, and really, in all truth, it's normal to go to a high school, and there be teenagers with children, and a possible husband/wife.
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ok well, me nd my mom fite constantly and i dont no what 2 do! its liek she never wants 2 help me out at all, if she drives me 2 my friends house one day i'll b hearing about it 4 the next 2 weeks. my friends parents always offer 2 drive me places ebcuase my mom wont, it makes me so upset that i have 2 ask other peoples moms 4 rides when my own mom wont. and my dad works alot but he'll drive me 2 my friends and stuff more then my mom will and he works ALOT more than her. and its usmmer so i have 2 stay home with my sister until 3 when my mom gets home but then shes always like im 2 tired blabalbal. i just dont no it may make me sound kinda selfsish but im reelie not its jsu like my omm never wnats 2 help me at all. i dont no what 2 do, and i get so upset sow e end up yelling at each other and i get in even more trouble, please help. (link)
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My mom and me are totally the same way. I mean, she moved us out here into the boonies .. and it is sooo boring. And my family life is shitty, and i get real depressed about it sometimes ... so I know how you feel. I always ask my dad for drives everywhere, but with both of my parents, i'll hear about it for weeks on end. I really don't know what to say on this. Our mom's sound alike, which means they are irrational and mean and "tired" all the time. lol. So you can't sit them down and talk to them. lol. But anyways, your not alone hun!!!!
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My mom got engaged to this guy after 7 years of them being together. But, i HATE him and so do all my sisters. He's cheated on her MANY times and she even walked in on him and another girl about a week ago!! She hasn't cried more than she has the day she walked in on him and the other girl. He knows he can get her back though, so he walks all over her! And, she's soooo weak when it comes to guys. She's become soo depressed and right now, shes in Virginia for vacation with him! She's coming back today. And ive tried talking to her many times about this as well as all my 5 sisters. She just won't listen. I want her to leave him. He's causing her nothing but harm! Also, to top it all off, he has an STD, Hepatitis C. And, he got it from another girl while cheating on my mom!!! And, she STILL won't leave him!!
What do i do?? please help...i rate high.
Thanks so much.. (link)
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what a sick basturd!!! I mean, ehat kind of man would do that? You are probley close to your mom, and your sisters .. but your mom sees comfort when she's with him. Knowing she has someone to be with after you all move out comforts her. but with him cheating on her all the time, and with him having an STD, she's going to ruin her life. You must talk to your mom again ... all of your sister and you team up against her and try to talk some sense to her. Personnally, I would freak out at this guy. I would!!! But anyways, if talking to your mom doesn't work, make an appointment with your doctor. She could give your family some advice on therapy for the family, and perhaps talking some sense to your mom. She's putting her life on the line being with him!!!!
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ok i have like this guy for over a year now and i really like him but hes kinda popular and i am on the lower side of the social chain but hes been single for some time now how do i ask him out and also how can i make it so that nobody likess make fun of me or ihm for it ?!?!?! (link)
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Hey there. Well, I would first get to know him real well .. then I'd ask him out. Who cares about popularity. It's all corporate bull anyways. If anyone makes fun of either one of you guys, fuck em. You shouldn't care about anyone's opinion about you relashinships. If you were suppossed to, then no one would be with the one you truly love.
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