ok..well me and my bf have been going out for 5 months and we want to take it further..we have made out and felt eachother up..but he wants to finger me and i want to give him a hand job..i'm a little nervous about it though and i was wondering if anyone had any advice??
xo_dream answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 11:23 pm: Just relax + enjoy! If you're worrying about it the whole time, it's not going to be *any* fun. Just let it happen. [ xo_dream's advice column | Ask xo_dream A Question ]
snowwalker69 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:40 pm: um, use pressure, but not a lot of pressure ... wait till he's aroused enough that precum has come out ... go up and down at a speed he enjoys. Also, touch/grab/massage his balls ... that will make him go crazy. Hun, don't be nervous. It's completly natural and he wants it and you want it. What could be better. lol [ snowwalker69's advice column | Ask snowwalker69 A Question ]
xOchErrytWistOx answered Sunday August 22 2004, 4:01 pm: Well, first of all, the hand job should be no problem, juss use a little lube to make it more pleasant for your guy. he'll probably tell you how he likes it (fast, slow, any special movements). Then, when he fingers you, make sure you shave first, and then relax and enjoy it. If you dont feel ready to do this, then don't do it. Do what you feel comfortable with.
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beatlovedown answered Sunday August 22 2004, 12:33 pm: Well i tried going online and finding some steps for you and heres what i came up with::
If you go there, they tell you step by step what you should do, and things like that. If you're nervous because you're not sure whether to do it or not, best answer is then...WAIT! DON'T DO IT YET! But if you're nervous because you're not sure of what to do...visit the site it gives great steps! You'll do fine. =)
Mackenzie answered Sunday August 22 2004, 8:36 am: Maybe if you have to ask this... you'Re not Ready?? But if you wanna go foR it, I can't stop you. And those things aRe Really no big deal; you'll see.. it's Easy Peesy! Just don't Really think about it.. go with the flow.. you'll catch on shoRtly!! I wish you the best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 3:30 am: How old are you? if your like around my age.. dont u think your kind of young? but i guess u could do w/e your lil heart desires just dont become de-virgintized... as i like to put it [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
italianbabe0692 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 2:33 am: it sounds like you too are serious about eachother im not gona preach to u like ur mother and tell you your too young ...your ready when you feel your ready and you will know your ready if when it happends you feel comfterable... just dont do it if u feel any pressure at all to be not "prude" follow your insticts im sure they'll lead u the right way [ italianbabe0692's advice column | Ask italianbabe0692 A Question ]
o6o_tinkerbell_o9o answered Sunday August 22 2004, 12:10 am: hey.. if you feel comfortable doing it, then do it.. if you don't then just wait until the time is right.. just don't do anything you don't want to..
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