One nyte i was with this guy, nathan who i knew a long time and we ended up going down on eachother and doing "69". We are just really good friends. Then three days later me and this guy went over to one of my other good friends' house and i gave the other guy head because i was pressured into it and he kept asking me to do it but i kept refusing. After about 3 hours i finally agreed to so he would get off my case. Well Nathan went off with my friend and pleasured her..after i did this i felt really regretful and felt horrible. Do you think that i'm now a slut?
moltueffers00 answered Monday August 23 2004, 12:53 pm: thats totally not slutty. you are just exploring, but the part about being pressured into giving the other guy head, doesn't make you're a slut either. but next time a guy is asking you to do something, tell him off. tell him that you're more then just a sexual pleaser because if you keep saying yes, then guys will think that is all you're good for. so tell the guy that you arenn't going to do whatever it is he wants and don't back down.
russianspy1234 answered Monday August 23 2004, 12:33 pm: eh your not a slut. friends with benifits are ok, but if the guy pressured you into it its not a good thing. noth9ing wrong with what you did with nathan but if you keep letting people pressure you into giving them head, then tell me where you live. jk but seriously dont let people pressure you into doing stuff you dont want to do especialy not sexual stuff. [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
xlostangelx answered Monday August 23 2004, 8:45 am: well...ummm..by doint 69 with Nathan wuznt that bad cuz yu've known eachother a long time .. but the 3 day later head part is a little disturbing .. even if yu were pressured into it, others may view yu as a slut .. in my opinion, it was a bad idea to do those things just 3 days after eachother ... but if yu dont have a boyfriend or anything then yu shuld be fine..just watch out for yur rep and dont EVER do thingz yu dont wana do!! if they want yu to pleasure them and if yu dont want to, just simply say "no im not a slut ..dont treat me lyk one" and stick to that!!! yu wuld be more respected if yu said no ...and if they get mad at yu for saying no, then oh well cuz at least yu wuldnt have a rep of being a slut yu kno??
and it sounds to me like this kid Nathan is a player .. so just stay friends with him and dont do nething else with him ..especially since he just got with one of yur friends a few days after yu did!!!!
i'd be careful and its not too late to change this around and say no from now on ..
ImFallinInLove77 answered Monday August 23 2004, 6:42 am: Actually no i don't think that ur a slut....it was done because of pressure....technically it wasn't ur fault...and just to let you know a "slut" is a young mother so unless you have a child or are pregnant ur not a "slut".Anyways hope i helped. (Rate Me)
Sunshine answered Monday August 23 2004, 3:34 am: You made some decisions that weren't good, but that doesn't make you a slut. Just don't let bad decisions become a habit. You should never do something that you don't feel comfortable with, just because you are pressured in to it.
On3-Sh3xii-Gl answered Sunday August 22 2004, 11:13 pm: Whoa well i've kno exactly how you feel..I dunt consider you a slut you didnt want to do it but u should of had sense not to do it..when a guy pressures you into doin sumthen you dont want to get away 4rm him or tell him your going to tell your parents or police..hope i was some help [ On3-Sh3xii-Gl's advice column | Ask On3-Sh3xii-Gl A Question ]
snowwalker69 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:28 pm: no, i don't think you are. First of all, i think that you should call the cops, or talk to a guidance counculer or something, because if the dude is forcing you to giv him head ... that is a problem. Just next time, don't do it. Just leave. Don't stick around until he forces you to. [ snowwalker69's advice column | Ask snowwalker69 A Question ]
spoiledx3shortii answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:21 pm: By the sound of it you arent.. but i dont know.. if you do regret it and don't want to do it again then i would think your prolly not.. but if you are excited about it and want to do it again.. then i think you just might be..
hope i helped!
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LilMia811 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:18 pm: if you regret it, then you are not a slut. now, if you were all bragging about it like "yeah i sucked his jaun, and his jaun too" then you would be a slut. and dont ever let anyone pressure you into doing something you dont want to. no means no, and if a guy cant respect that and tries to push or force you to do it the fuckin hit him in the nuts or spit in his face. fuck that shit, dont ever let anyone disrespect you or make you disrespect yourself like that. but dont feel bad, just let all this be a less on to you, and make some better choices in the future. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
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