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hey guys im Laura, um i love music...if it werent for rock n roll i wouldnt be alive right now.Guns n Roses is my all time favorite band,ask me any question about them and i can tell you the answer on the spot,garented. the part of my heart that isnt taken up by rock n roll, all goes to my AMAZING friends.i am single at the moment but if you know me at all, then you know that i wont be for very long.
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I am freakishly shy, and its a real real problem. I thought I was over it, but I went up to my new school, [it was just built so everyones new but I know like everyone there, kinda not really though] and I just couldnt act ike myself, I was so quiet, I barely said anything. I wanted to cry all night, even though I was with my friends! I guess its just akward because I switched schools 2 years ago and didnt get to see them that much so its really weird being around them yet not weird at the smae time. Im so worried about myself and what Im going to do once school comes. Please Help me
well your shy because when you meet someone new alls you can think about is saying the right things and wondering if your looking a certain way. to get over being shy you just have to stop caring about what other people think of you. and since everyone is new at the skool everyone is gunne b thinking the same exact things as you are.so dont worry about it and just have fun.hope i helped XoXo
I have a lot of friends but there's one problem with a lot of them: they think I'm gay. I used to not know why they thought that, but once I looked at what I like and stuff, I would probably think I was gay, too. Even with people I just meet, they ask, "Are you gay?" and I say no but sometimes they don't believe me. Let's say my name is Mike. Well one of my friends calls me Queer Mike. Everyone knows that he's just having fun but it hurts a lot. I told him that I'm not gay but he didn't stop calling me that. Everyone thinks I'm gay but I'm not! What should I do?
if someone calls you queer jus forget about it. you know that your not and thats all that matters.but you get a girlfriend.that would help alot.or you could also just get some new friends.hope i helped XoXo
my boyfriend cheated on me & my best guy friend gave me a shoulder to cry on. while i was venting to him, he just kissed me. why he did this i dont know, but Im just really confused. did he do it to make me feel better or because he likes me or what? i'm really confused.
i think he likes you and hes trying to give you a hint that he likes you. but it dpends on like, were guys making out or did he kiss u on the cheek or lips r what!?!?!tell me in my inbox r something and i can help you more.XoXo
does high school really suck? Should I be freaking out about it, or am I just overreacting?
i think your just over reacting. well the highskool in my skool district is really awsome. and EVERYONE i no says that in there freshman year they had the time of there lives!! and people from other skool districts have told me the same thing so im pretty sure your definetly just waaaaaaay over reacting.hope i helped XoXo
I just colored my hair and got it all over my face, neck, hands, arms, and just about everywhere in the house. I've tried using hairspray to take it out, but it's not doing much good. Any other ways?
weeeeeeeeeeell if its on your clothes its pretty much stained forever. take a hot shower and scrub the spots on your skin erally well that should get it out. and as for the walls....trying washing them with hot water and some dishsoap.hope i helpd XoXo
I have a friend and he is thinking of suicide..I try talk him out of it,but he won't listen. He has problems in school,family life,relationship problems. I don't want him leaving me. We have been best friends so long!
HELP!
WOW tell an adult RITE NOW either your parents or his parents or someone that can help him. he will probably get really mad at you but that doesnt matter because he will thank you later i promiss!!hope i helped!!! XoXo
latly i relized that my closest friend dana liked me back but she has a bf. so she dosent wanna think that way of me in that way. that kinda bums me out. but yet i got this friend i've know for about 4 years and well i've loves him since like grade 6. but i dont think he likes me back. he never gave me a streight out awnser. then there is my xbf brandyn who i broke it off with. its a really long story and i dont wanna talk about it. long story short i freaked out on him and i feel really bad for breaking it off. *sigh* her is my question. which one should i focuse my heart and love on? and please dont say flip a coin.
well i would say definetly go for the one youve known for 4 years because going out with ex's doesnt really work out very well most of the time.you could just try forgetting abu tboth of them and finding someone new!hope i helped XoXo
I'm re-doing my entire room & I've been looking for new beddings but I can't find anything. I want to try to find a bedding that has some red in it because red is my favorite color. I tried looking at JcPenneys, Target, Dillards, Sears, & Bed Bath & Beyond. If anyone knows any other sites, let me know. I'll rate high. Thanks =]
try going to famous barr.they have alot of really cute things like that. i got a tommy hilfigure blanket frum there thast red on one side and pink on the other.hope i helped XoXo
i hate myself i really do. when i look at myself i just want to end my life. i feel so ugly. and i have no friends. i never had a bf and no one ever liked me before. But that is not why i am crying. i stop caring about my uglyness. i was in my bestfriends house and she was talking to her mother about me. I guess they thought i wouldnt hear it. Her mother goes i know u feel sorry for her and all but now that you made new friends its time to let this one go. my friend goes yeah eww gosh i hate her. She smells bad and wow shes very ugly. my new friends dont like her and i just dont know how to leave her with out sounding me! wow i started to cry. that hurt so bad. the only perosn i loved and cared about hates me and never liked. she just used me!!
what do i do? how can i change for her? i need to be her friend
NO NO NO!!!! dont change for ANYONE!! you do NOT need to be this chicks friend. and your only ugly if you think of yourself as ugly.forget about that girl and find someone else to hang out with because that girl is just plain MEAN!!dont ever think about her agian!! hope i helped XoXo
im fourteen and going into the 9th grade. i dont think im ugly, not georgeous or anything, but not ugly. im not fat, but i could tone up a little. for some reason im always feeling insecure though. in school, i dont talk much in class && everyone says im really shy. now once i get to know people they'll tell you im the loudest person they know. i love to talk && gossip. but it takes me awhile to get to know people, i want to know how people act and what they like before i start talking about random things to avoid making them mad if they dont agree with me on something. well anyway, i just moved almost two years ago and i havent quite adjusted yet. ive made new friends but it seems people still see me as the new girl, and me being shy doesnt help at all. once in our developemental guidance class they asked my friend amy who she usually hangs out with, and she said me. than this kid matt says something about how we both never talk, than our friend kristen starts laughing and says we never shut up. i wish i could be more social with people i dont normally hang out with, and that way i could also make more friends. also, everyone thinks im a goody-good. which theres not anything wrong with, but im far from it and i dont want people to look at me like that. how can i learn to be comfortable around everyone?
you just need to be yourself.dont try to be like the people your trying to hang out with. most people dont want someone following them around trying to be just like them. so just be yourself and dont worry about saying something rong. just act like youve known them forever and there youre best friends.hope i helped XoXo
Money problems with the man that I love. He has steep child support that is deducted from his checks weekly. He works as a checker 40 hrs a week. I am supporting him and myself and my three boys. If he gets any money from his checks it is usually between 20 and 80 dollars depending on union dues and such. with what money he gets from his check, he fills up his truck with gas and gives me what is left. I make about 1200 a month, and we live in a small two bedroom duplex. My question is should I tuff it out, and stay with him? I know we will never live in a nice big house, drive nice vehicles, and have stuff. We will always have to scrimp and save. He treats me with respect, and loves me. Or should I move on and hope to find another man that will treat me as good that makes more money?
as long as you love him money shouldnt matter.becasue if you leave him and meet someone rich they might not treat you with the same respect as your luver now does. i think true love and respect could out-do wealth ANY day.hope i helped XoXo
i know what an orgasm is. .. but is it safe 2 have 1 when people are in ur house? do u wait 2 have the house empty? how loud iz it?
lol well i wouldnt have in front of just anyone.that might not be a good idea.and it just depends on the person for how loud it is.its ok to have one with people in the house as long as you can lock your door or something.hope i helped XoXo
ok sorry if this is long..
my parents have been getting on my last nerves lattely. i am the oldest in my family and so i got to put up witht hemm ebing soo over protect.. it iasnt because they care to much it is that they dont want me to have a life.. i can almost never leave the house.. if i want to go somewhere with a friend tot he mall my mom has to talk to there parents and make sure they are coming with us.. my best friend from new jersay came to vist and i havent seen her for 2 years and we qwanted to go and hang out at her place and just talk but no my mom wont let me.. my mom is always yellina t me when i dont do anything to her. she tells me to do something i do it with no questions asked.. i have a boyfriend who i love sooo much and i have been going out with him for almost a month now and i have only seen him ONCE. i effin hate this i want to run away from all of this my parents dont let em do anything and when i talk on the phone or i am on the computer all they do is complain. they want me sittin downstairs with them and i dont want to listen to the crap they have to say.. then pn top of all of that my mom says,"your the one whoi is going to kill me" because she isnt supposed to yell and she always yllin at me when i dont do anything to her.. i cant wait to turn 18 and leave and have my own life.. that is 4 more years from now (i am 14) everytime i try talking to my parents they NEVER listen to what i have to say.. they think they r living 20 years ago where u get engaged and then married and your parents choice who you marry.. i dont know what to do.. last night i was mindin my owm bussiness in my room laying down writing poem my dad walks in yells at me terlls me to go to sleep and turns of my light. school doesnt start until 2 weeks and he already yellin at me.. can someone please help me out?? i want to run away for a couple days to my best friends house and teach my parents that if they dont want to listen to what i have to say then i wont listen to what they have to say..
p.s.
i am plannin to let me boyfriend come over and meet my parents btu they are raciest and my boyfriend is black (carmel color) and i dont know what there reaction will be even though my boyfriend will make a good impression on them..
ok well i totally know how you feel. i have the same exact problum with my parents.they scream and yell at me for no reason all the time. well one day i just walked out of the house with some clothes and stuff and went to my friends house for like a week. they had no clue where i wuz and wen i came back they were all omg were soo sry it wont happen again things will change,but they never do.(i run away alot)so i wouldnt suggest going to your friends house without them knowing because if the cops get involved it gets really nasty.and that will just piss them off more.so maybe ask them if you can go live at a friends for a couple weeks because you need to get way for awhile.if you have AIM definetly IM me or write sumthin back in my inbox cuz this is really long.
Alright well Just a fiew minutes ago this guy asked meh out. And a fiew weeks ago I really wanted to go out with him till I did stuff with him ( i sorta reegret it ) and I felt like he used meh. But he was pestering meh and all this stuff. and he was like we can hang out Ill bring you to movies and take you out to eat and all that stuff.. So I finaly just said yes. But I have a feeling he is still using me and I dont want that. I want a real relationship. Im suposed to hang out with him tomorrow but i dont know what to do cause i know he is gona ask me to do stuff and he is gona be like well we are going out now. so he will use that as an excuse. And I dont want to do stuff cause I know it will be because he is using me and doesnt really like me! What do I do. HOw do I know if he really likes me at all or if its ALL just for sexual stuff?
Love maddie
Ps im 14/f
wow ok well it doesnt even seem like you like him at all.it sounds like the only reason you said yes wuz because he kept bothering you which isnt a reason to go out with someone. so i think you should tell him that you just wanna be friends or maybe you guys can fwb(friends with bennefits)if that would make him more happy.hope i helped XoXo
I'm planning a surprise birthday party for my nephew. He'll be 11 in a couple weeks. He's really into army stuff, so I'm using that for the theme. Does anyone know of any party games that fit a camouflage/army theme? I'm going to make the cake myself, so I could use some suggestions on how to decorate it. Thanks!
OOOO! for the cake you could buy some of those little green plastic army guys and put them on the cake!! that would b sooo cute!!also you can buy some cheap water guns and let them play with those and they can pretend there real army guns and pretend to shoot each other but they cant really get hurt with them.hope i helped XoXo
this guy i have been hanging out with said that he wanted us to be friends nothing more, but maybe in time we could be bf and gf. I was fine with that. i heard later (from a girl that i trust) that he had a girlfriend. I asked him and he denied it. i dont care that he has a gf...its just we have made out and done stuff together...now i feel like a slut. What should i do with this guy? forget about him or still be his "friend."
well i would still be his friend because you have no proof that he has a girlfriend.so if you end the friendship then you could just be ending it for no reason at all which i dont think would be a good thing.hope i helped XoXo
ok my bff asked me 2 ask her crush out. I said sure but the thing is i liked him last year and im not totally over him quite yet.
I really want my bff 2 b happy but i dont think that he likes her and im not so sure that he likes me either. and if he says no her heart will b broken. what do i say 2 the guy?
we hated each other(or at least he hated me i just played along. Maybe he did 2 i dont know) and i really really like him please help me im so nervous and i have 2 ask him out tomorow morning....... this is very important. ill rate a 5 2 any 1 who gives a full and good answer
thanx ♥
ok well first of all you gotta pick FRIENDS over GUYS everytime.no matter what the situation is.and i know thats really hard to always do but i think you need to try and forget about him and just ask him out for her. just say that your " "(your bff's name)wuz wondering if you wanted to go out with her. and if he says no then just say ok w.e and go on about your buisness.and try to make your bff feel better.tell her that hes not worth it.hope i helped XoXo
14/F
I love ballroom dance. It's a lot of fun to me and I thoroughly enjoy it. But this year, I'm going to have new teachers. The classes are split up by grade. My boyfriend and I were going to take it together, but he's older than I am, and we're not in the same class. My other friend is the same age as me, but started kindergarten before me, is also in a different class than I am. I don't want to do dance without a friend, because being alone scares me. It scares the living daylights out of me. My mom says I have to take the class, and I really like dance; but I'm afraid to do it alone. Being alone is my biggest fear. My parents said I could talk to the teachers, and perhaps they would accept me into the second class, but not to get my hopes up. Is there anything that you would reccomend me saying to the teachers? ... "Yeah, I'm terrified of doing stuff alone, so let me into the class." - No. I don't think that's gonna cut it. Any suggestions? Help me please. I really don't want to do this alone...
Thank you, in advance!
just tell the teacher that you have some issues with diog things by yourself and that it would make you feel much better if you could be in a class with one of your friends.but if that doesnt work try not to worry about being in it alone. im sure there will be other people in the class that are alone also and they will be just as scared as you are. you will meet lots of new people there and make friends really quick im sure.hope i helped XoXo
I've been invited to a party by a girl I don't know that well and I can't decide whether to go. One one hand, I know some people who are going, and it should be fun b/c theres no parents or anything.
On the other hand, she knows some kind of... rough people, and it could turn nasty. She is always going on about how many people they beat up etc. Also she is telling everyone to bring someone, and in our neighbourhood if the local chavs (hooligans, yobs, call them what you want) might well gatecrash and beat people up.
So what do you think?
i think you should definetly go but make sure someone you know knows where your at all the time.also if you have a cell phone bring and keep it with you os if anything serious starts to happen you can call someone for help at anytime.hope i helped XoXo
can you get sick from the heat? like throwing up? thanks
yah if you get dehydrated you can start throwing up or even pass out.just make sure you bring a waterbottle or drink lots and lots of water wenever you go outside for a long time in the heat.hope i helped XoXo