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Should I go to this party or not?


Question Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 1:13 pm

I've been invited to a party by a girl I don't know that well and I can't decide whether to go. One one hand, I know some people who are going, and it should be fun b/c theres no parents or anything.
On the other hand, she knows some kind of... rough people, and it could turn nasty. She is always going on about how many people they beat up etc. Also she is telling everyone to bring someone, and in our neighbourhood if the local chavs (hooligans, yobs, call them what you want) might well gatecrash and beat people up.
So what do you think?


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VainTaraLynn answered Friday August 12 2005, 10:03 pm:
Regardless whether it will be fun or not, I honestly dont think you should go. Because if something serious happens and the police get called, you could be guilty by association, even if you didnt do anything, and it isnt really worth that risk. Awesome party or not.

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shutupnkissme98 answered Thursday August 11 2005, 7:53 pm:
i think you should definetly go but make sure someone you know knows where your at all the time.also if you have a cell phone bring and keep it with you os if anything serious starts to happen you can call someone for help at anytime.hope i helped XoXo

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BANGiiNGLAM0UR answered Thursday August 11 2005, 4:51 pm:
well, i think you should go; 1) because it might offend her and 2) you know people there so it should`nt be to bad. all you haveta do is worry about people getting into fights. when you see somthing going on i would just leave. just make sure your with your friends at all times and dont talk to random ppl you dont know especially if they are rough. hope i helped.

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Loz4Dan4Eva answered Thursday August 11 2005, 6:02 am:
DON'T GO!!!!!! This may very well end up nasty, because if you go to a party where there's people who beat people up all the time then it's always trouble. And if there's chavs around then its gonna make it even worse when they gatecrash. Also even though it may seem like fun if there's no parents around then once you all start drinking alcohol (if ya do) then everyone may turn violent. JUST PLEASE DON'T GO!!!!!!!!!!

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icey0990 answered Thursday August 11 2005, 12:08 am:
hmm..there are going to be lots more parties in the future, so i would do something else. it def wouldnt be cool if they decide to pick on you or one of your buddies..things could turn ugly..cops and parents get involved..not worth it.
i would do something else that night..just my thoughts i hope i helped
-meliss

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karenR answered Thursday August 11 2005, 12:00 am:
I think you should pass. That is just my opinion but who knows what will be going on there. If a fight breaks out and the cops get called everyone there is in trouble. Your parents may not let you go to other parties in the future and that would be no fun at all. Stick to the party's you know to be pretty safe. I know things can happen at any party but the odds are pretty good this one will be trouble. Just isn't worth all the trouble you could get in. :)

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SocialSuicidex3 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 11:09 pm:
I would deffinatly go. But that's just me.
Uhm, can you drive? No anyone that can drive?
ps--Chavs are nasty gross.

--Social Suicide

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jazabelle answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 7:38 pm:
Why don't you take a friend you trust with you? If it starts to turn nasty, leave.

But if you really don't feel comfortable, then stay in. Better safe than sorry.

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cookierat123 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 2:32 pm:
i think you should go. you never know what could happen. life is short so live it, dont just sit around and watch it pass by. if something like that happens then just call your mom or you dad or whoever to come pick you up. you cant get in to trouble for that can you? well, i hope i helped.

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XoxBroKeNxoX answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 2:02 pm:
Going to the party is a bad idea.
I learned the hard way.
If you wanna take a risk of going, which i do not recomend, BRING A FRIEND, and one that is prude haha. One that doesnt drink/smoke/sexually active and all that.
Good luck.

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thinkpink03 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 2:02 pm:
If you dont really know her then dont go. I mean, the people you know that are going you can always hang out with, it doesnt have to be that time. Plus, its a good choice because you wont be in the middle of that stuff if it happens.
♥ thinkpink

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t0xicParadiSe answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 1:55 pm:
if you really dont want to go and be there
then dont
i honestly woudnt go but thats my opinion

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_sarahxoxo answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 1:35 pm:
Don't go to the party.

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