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hey guys im Laura, um i love music...if it werent for rock n roll i wouldnt be alive right now.Guns n Roses is my all time favorite band,ask me any question about them and i can tell you the answer on the spot,garented. the part of my heart that isnt taken up by rock n roll, all goes to my AMAZING friends.i am single at the moment but if you know me at all, then you know that i wont be for very long.

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well me and my friend went to this concert, and then we met up with some other friends..and one of them i happen to like..so we sat next to each other..and he was all cuddly toward me..and my friend said he was acting like he liked me..so we started talking after the concert through email..and he said mabye we should hang out sometime..i want to tell him how much i like him..but im just not sure if he likes me..i dont know how to take it to the next step...help please..

talk to him and let him know that you like him and might be interested in taking the relationship to the next level. if he says hes not ready for that (which i dont he will) just say thats ok but i dont want this to change anythin. like tell make sure he knows you still want to hang out and be friends.hope i helped XoXo

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I'm 35 yrs old, met a great person after a bad relationship, for four good years of ups n downs we stuck it through. the fifth yr we had a child, we got much closer, our child help us realized that even though we were sruggling in our relationship we needed to care for him together till the end. Unfortunately the next 31/2 three yrs it went downhill, even counseling did not work, I loved her enough to continue but she needed out. So it happend, we went our separate ways, but our child came first in everything. I fell in love with a wonderful woman that has three children, 6,10 and 15 yrs of age. She is wonderful, but we do have our differences. Been seeing her 1 yr now allthough its not perfect between us, we both agree we are in love and should make a future together. We both tried to end and let go several times but gave in to our feelings for each other each time. Right about now my X wants me back, she is the biggest hearted person I have ever met, and her intentions, as far as I'm concerned, will always be wonderful. Realizing she was wrong she found that all she needed was time to clear her mind, knowing that it could be to late for us, she asked me to be a family again, which is what I wanted all the time. I don't think can get used to the feeling of me living a future with good children and knowing my own child is without me. But I realy love this other person and its hard to be with out her. I love my X dearly but its not the same any more, she needs me more than ever now and my heart is aunxiuos and willing to be there for anything she needs, my 5yr old also needs me by his side it kills me to think of life for us both without each other, and me giving time and attention to others. My god tells me to come home and take the pain and leave the one I truely love and hurt her as well, and my heart can't stop thinking about my true found love. I cry when I think of it. My child, his mom and there need for me, my mind is so messed up because and my heart longs for the woman I love. It's time to make a decision and I can't. Either way I loose. Can someone try and help please, WHAT CAN I DO?

either way someone is going to get hurt and thats just a fact. but i wouldnt go back to your ex. simple because my parents got divorced soon aftr i wuz born and a couple years later got remarried and then divorced again after 1 year of constant fighting. thinking of your child he will always be your son no matter who your wife is. and as long as you dont let your relationship with this new love get in the way of your relationship with your son he will always love you because you are his father.i think you need to tell your ex wife that youve moved on from her and i know thats extremly hard but somtimes everyone has to do things they dont want to.hope i helped XoXo

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my dad has never told me he's loved me until last week when we were on the phone. I said it first, but i am glad he said it back. it is awkward to say it again. My question is...is it normal for dads not to say he loves his daughtor and should i keep on saying i love him when i see him or talk to him on the phone?

i think you should definetly keeo telling him that you love him. that might mak ehim realize that you want him to say it back. hope i helped XoXo

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I just had sex for first time, and both my inner labias have swelled up about 5x their normal size. Will the swelling go down, or should I be worried?

its normal that usually happens after you lose your virginity dont worry about it unless it doesnt go down after a couple of days.hope i helped XoXo

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ok i know its all unlikely your pregnent from a guy having some jizz on his hands then fingering you...but has anyone heard of a particular case where this did happen? or can someone find a story about this happening to somoeone online for me? thank you so much!

it could happen but its VERY unlikly that you would get pregnant from that.hope i helped XoXo

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I was thinking about pledging for a sorority when i go to college this fall...I was wondering what kind of stuff they do and how they work. thanks!

soroitys are like clubs. but the leaders of them usually make you do certain things to get in. if you get in the different sororitys do different types of things depending on which one your in.hope i helped XoXo

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i have a problem thats been getting to me for the past couple months. i cant be alone. like if im home by myself and not talking to any1, i have problems like i get worked up and upset and im not exactly sure what to do about it. i have asthma and do get panic attacks so thats basically why its a problem. my bf has been trying to help me, and when he talks to me i feel 1000x better, but he cant talk to me all the time and i totally understand that. any advice id greatly appreciate and i'll definately rate you.

thanks

call a friend or talk to someone online.if there isnt anyone on takl to some bots! there always helpful! ...slightly annoying but still helpful!lol but if your still having problems i would definetly see a docter and get some medication for it.hope i helped XoXo

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k well my brother (he's 10) hasn't been home much for the summer cause he's been traveling with my dad and stuff.. but now he's back home and i can't even stand to be in the same room with him!! he drives me insane, like we fight constantly. and the worst part is that my mom always takes his side because he's younger than i am. and he says stuff that really ticks me off! like he says that i don't do anything around the house or take the dog out and crap like that and i've the one who has been home for the whole summer! i try to explain to him but he just doesn't get it in his puny fricken brain!! ugh is there anything i can do to chillll out?!

tell him that if he stays at least 15 feet away from you at all times for the next week you will give him a relly big surprize. then if he does it give him some candy or sumthing.and if you feel like your just gunna explode and really hurt him take a walk or go take a pillow outside and beat the drap out of it until u feel better. that always works for me! :) lol hope i helped XoXo

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sorry this is so long but please take the time to read it. my best friend...lets call her Alyssa, she has been my best friend for about 2 years. we've had our fights and everything like a normal friendship. right? haha. but the past winter, we didnt hang out at all because her dad started to hate me. so she wasnt allowed to hang out with me. once he found me, my brother, and her walking home from school together and he got so pissed. he was yelling at her so loudly outside, in front of all the neighbors. so we never let him see us hang out together. but hes in the army or something and he leaves home for a long period of time (like a month and a half) and then her mom started hating me for no reason. and so we never were allowed to chill out together. and we live half a block away. BUT now, her mom likes me..and her dad is gone but they dont tell him that alyssa is allowed to come over to my house now. her mom lets alyssa come to my house everyday now! haha. but maybe not everyday. but im wondering..isnt this wrong? i mean, her dad thinks that his daughter is staying home but shes actually haning out with me. is that wrong? alyssa is so cool and i really want to keep being her best friend. (im not a lezbian and im not bi)

yah it is sorta rong but thats really alyssa's mothers problem. i mean its her husband after all. just dont worry about it because it isnt your problem.hope you and alyssa can keep being bff's.hope i helped XoXo

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When I am about to do a backflip I get nervous and fear falling on my back or head... do you know of a good place to practice... is grass sutible.. please repond..
Thank you

if you have a trampoline or know someone that dose thats probably the best place. its easy to flips on them and it helps you learn. also it doesnt really hurt if you fall cuz its just a trampoline.

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okay yeah i have a bad temper or w/e... but i started liking My Chemical Romance before the became more popular then all these people i know start saying "oh my gosh! my chemical romane is the best band ever i love them!" and the know helena from trl... thats the only song they know. i know about 15 songs of theres. and i loved hot topic since years ago, and these people are like "oh my gosh how could you go in there? that store is for creeps and blah blah blah" and i'm like no... and they carry a lot of cool band shirts and stuff! i mean? and they say the love MCR and they wouldn't even take one step into a hot topic even for $10 to get one of their shirts?? is this a poser? i kinda dunno if this is the true definition or w/e...

well im not really sure about those people but they pertty much sound like posers to me. a poser is just someone whos trying to be someone they arent or like someone they really dont just because its "kool".everyone has a different opinion about what a poser is exactly.hope i helped XoXo

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My brother is away for the week and i'm normally allowed to stay up to 11 and my brother makes sure i go to bed. So i'm staying up later (a lot later) and i'm eating a lot at night. i'm afraid that i'm going to gain a lot of weight because i'm not going to be able to work it off. i don't want to throw it up because 1.that's just nasty 2.it's unhealthy 3.if i try it i might continue and become bulimic. could someone help me on what to do?

go out for a run everyday.just take a jog for 30 minutes or so about once a day. youll be able to work it off doing that.hoped i helped XoXo

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my best friend is like fading away from me. she just never calls me anymore. she used to call me every day. now whenever she calls she asks for my sister. i dont know why shes mad at me but i thnk it may be because im not a vegetarian. as stupid as it sounds i think so. any way she is a vegetarian and she believes in it very strongly and i told her that i wasnt a vegetarian any more and she was like "WHAT!" and hasnt really called me and actually talked to me since. and in her profile it used to say my name is Sarah (not real name) but my best friend Anna (me, not real name) calls me spanky. but now it says my name is Sarah but my friends call me Ess. she doesnt talk to me when my sister invites her over. i dont know what happened shes just mad at me all of the sudden. what an i do to get her back

talk to her. call her and tell her that you guys need to talk.let her know that you really miss her and still want to be bff's with her.and i think its stupid that shes mad at you over not being a veggie.and if she wont accept and appolgie then shes not worth it.because veggie or not if she wuz really your bff she forgive you.hope i helped XoXo

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ok well me and my ex-bf got back together this is the 3rd time we have gone out we always broke up for like 2-3 months and we got back together..and hes always with his friends he barly calls me just when hes at home..but hes NEVER home and when he is his friends are there..i want 2 talk 2 him just me and him..i think hes going to cheat on me i dont know what to do!! heLp me please !!!

well it seems like this guy isnt worth your time. i know its hard to just forget about certain people like that but this guy honestly doesnt seem like hes worth it.if he relly liked you he would call you and talk to you no matter if his friends wer over or not.i think its time to move on.hope i helped XoXo

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I want to lose about 20 lbs. Does any one have any tips on how to do this? I've tried dieting, excercise, and having smaller portions but none of them have worked for me.

have you tried doing them all at the same time?? because usually if eat smaller portions and eat healthier and excercise alot you should b able to lose 20 pounds pretty fast.hope i helped XoXo

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the guy i like was at this party with me and my other friends the other day and we were all hanging out cuz hes my reelly good friend and my friend had never met him before but she knew i liked him and all, but she now likes him and ive known for alot longer than she has. so today he was all "its too soon" and so that made me reelly happpy, but then i felt bad b/c shes my friend and all and i dont want to lose a friend over a guy.Any ideas about what i should do?

tell your friend that this guy really means alot to you and that you really like him alot. im sure she will understand and back off him.hope i helped XoXo

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ok heres the situation..my parents said i can only get a cat if i can find a place for the litter box so my puppy wont get into it when nobodys home. i cant think of anyplace to put it, any suggestions?

yuo could put the litter box in a closet or in the bathroom or any room really with a baby-gate in front of the door. the puppy wont b able to get in but the cat will b able to jump over the gate easily.hope i helped XoXo

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im gonna have a presentation in front of class.. im kinda shy and i was wondering what i can do to overcume my shyness and not be so afraid

when your presenting think of sumthing really funny that will take your mind of the presentation and make you laugh.like....imagine your teacher in a speedo/bikini!! lol that always works for me!hope i helped XoXo

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hey i have a question. does anyone know of any programs to download music that would work for windows XP without having to have administrator's privileges? i cant seem to find any and my dad put a password on his windows account so i cant get on there and download one. anyone know of any?

go to www.limewire.com and download limewire. it works relly well for downloading any music you want.hope i helped XoXo

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i just had sex for the first time last night, and now i have a clear, odorless, jelly-like discharge comming out. is this normal?

yep its normal and its actually very healthy! lol yah so dont worry about it its good for you!.hope i helped XoXo

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