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im in love with 2 friends and an x bf
latly i relized that my closest friend dana liked me back but she has a bf. so she dosent wanna think that way of me in that way. that kinda bums me out. but yet i got this friend i've know for about 4 years and well i've loves him since like grade 6. but i dont think he likes me back. he never gave me a streight out awnser. then there is my xbf brandyn who i broke it off with. its a really long story and i dont wanna talk about it. long story short i freaked out on him and i feel really bad for breaking it off. *sigh* her is my question. which one should i focuse my heart and love on? and please dont say flip a coin.
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Wow. Well honestly. You cant be in love with more than one person. & noone can tell you what you should or shouldnt do in this situation. You have to take a step back and look at all the people you think you might like. You have to really think about it and think who would you rather like to be with, who could you see yourself with for a while. who means more to you. etc. This isnt a decision that can be made based on others opinions, this is a decison that should be made between you and your heart.
ps : i wasnt lecturing you doll - sorry you took it that way.
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well i would say definetly go for the one youve known for 4 years because going out with ex's doesnt really work out very well most of the time.you could just try forgetting abu tboth of them and finding someone new!hope i helped XoXo
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Salem...what a cool name.
Have you considered someone totally new? Just a thought...:)
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usually ex's dont work well. try going for the 1 you knew for about 4 years.
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Salem...thats a pretty name. Mine is Johanna. But anyways, I think you should wait to see what happens. My advice would be to go with that friend you've known for four years. Get to know him a little better, spend some time with him. He might just be shy, so you should make the first move. Don't worry about being rejected by anyone, you'll find the right person. I don't really sugguest going back with your ex boyfriend because its kind of hard to pick things up again where you left off.
And ofcourse, you're still pretty young, so if things seem dull and confusing now, I'm sure everything will get better.
--Johanna
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go with your ex b/f because he has feelings for you n you have some for him so its a sure thing so your not left wondering jus explain to him you feel bad and still want him
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