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Hey! So I recently bought a shirt that says free hugs because I thought it was cute and funny. I am now thinking that maybe it was a bad thing to do. Will people think it means something "naughty" if you know what I mean? Or take it in a "naughty" way. Like if you saw someone in the mall with it on or in public, would you think it makes them look kind of bad? So overall, would it be better to wear it around friends instead, or is it okay to wear it in public once in a while?
Thanks! :) xoxo (link)
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It won't look 'naughty' at all. It just makes people smile. But if you wear it in public, expect a few strangers to approach you for a hug. My friend has the shirt, and he had random people hugging him, and taking pictures.
So it's just something that makes people smile. No-one will take it sexually.
At least it's better than a t-shirt that has a squirrel on, and says "I want to play with your nuts".
So you could've done worse!
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This guy that I've been working at a restaurant with has FINALLY asked me out after months of flirting and a couple weeks of texting. We've both been dying to see Batman, so that's what we're going to do. Hes almost 20, as I'm still a senior in High school. He's the cool, laid back partier. He went to a large High school and from what I hear was very popular. I have partied before and am somewhat considered popular or well known in my small high school and the only negative thing about me is that im very self concious about my weight (im 5'7 and plus sized, but I'm deff not a whale) so anyways I am SUPER nervous about how this date will go! Can anyone give me their experience on a first date, or a movie date? This sounds so middle school-ish but what if he tries to kiss me? Haha thanks guys (link)
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Ahh, the first date! The key is to relax!
The good thing about seeing a movie, is that it's silent. You don't HAVE to try and make nervous small talk, and once you're done, you have something to talk about. So when you meet him, say hello (obviously), ask how his day has been, etc, etc.
He must think you're attractive, otherwise he wouldn't have asked you out. So there's no need to panic about that. If he didn't like you, he wouldn't have asked you out.
When watching the film, you'll notice some things before the kiss. These include:
1. Nervous shuffling about (he's trying to figure out when the best time is)
2. Looking at you. If you look back, and stare into each others' eyes, then you know what's coming.
3. The old "YAWN *stretch my arms* trick.
So he won't go in straight away trying to kiss you. So if you don't feel comfortable, then watch out for these signs, and don't kiss him. If you do want to kiss him, then go for it!
The key is to relax though. If you're all panicky, then something is likely to go wrong. Relax, enjoy the date, and enjoy the movie!
Good luck!
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I want to buy somehing but I don't want to get scammed and buy something of poor quality and not get my money back. I'm afraid maybe if I pay I won't get it or it won't be as good as it looked on the internet. What are the chances of gettin scammed on ebay or craigslist?
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I wouldn't use craigslist, especially for something expensive.
I use ebay, because it is much easier and safer. You can see a sellers feedback, to see how good they are. You can also get your money back easily if you do get scammed (if you pay by paypal).
So it really depends. You need to use your judgement. Obviously if someone is offering a grand piano for $1, it's a scam.
Keep in mind that products from China/Hong Kong generally will be a lower quality, but cheap. My friend ordered a bag from Hong Kong. It was only $4. She got it a month later, and you could tell it was cheaply made. But $4, what does one expect?
I'm sure there are plenty of quality sellers from other countries, but from experience, home sellers have best quality.
Good luck!
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Okay, I know this is way stupid, but long story short, I have a bunch of aunts, cousins, and friends who expected me to get married before my older sister Anna after a four year long relationship of hers ended. I have to admit that I wanted the same thing mainly because I get SICK of my parents only talking about Anna's wedding and my dad telling people how hard it was going to be to give Anna away. Last summer I told these other relatives that I was getting married, but didn't know when and some told me that wanted it to be before Anna did so my parents would have to talk about my wedding for a change. About a year ago Anna started dating a guy named Matthew who she believes is going to propose to her around Christmas, which is surely before my boyfriend and I will be ready. I thought I would have been bummed out if she got married before me, but I'm not. I love Matthew and he is the first decent boyfriend of my sister's that I feel is a good match for her. I hated the last guy she had a long term relationship with and thought she was going to marry and I'm super happy for her for finding a new, good guy who she loves and wants to start a life with. I'm excited for her to get married and even though a little part of me wishes I would have been first, the bigger part is glad that the pressure is off of me and I can get married when I'm ready now. The thing is, I know my family well enough to know that they'll try to pile the pressure on me more than ever know and I don't know if I can take it. I've been suffering from anxiety lately and can't take any more stess in my life. What can I tell my family? (link)
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You need to tell your family the truth. Families and weddings shouldn't be bound by politics of who is first and the such. They are about love.
If you rush into a marriage, it will never last. Like what if you sister rushed in with that jerk? They they would have been in a messy marriage with even messier divorces, etc.
Explain that you will get married when you are ready, and the stress doesn't help, but hinders the situation.
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I feel more pathetic and useless than I can tell you and I feel like the only thing I'm talented at is screwing up. I'm almost 25 years old and I live with my parents, I dropped out of college, I suck at my career, I screw up SO many things that I try including school, relationships, jobs, ect.. I suck as a person, a friend, a girlfriend, a sister, and sometimes a daughter and I don't feel pretty, skinny, smart, responsible, or talented enough for most people. I am going to do my best to get another job so that I can buy a car. I haven't had a car in two years because I'm too stupid and too much of a loser to have the money for one. I have had a terrible year because of scares with my health and the health of some loved ones. Everything has turned out fine, but a couple weeks ago, I had one stessful day after another and when I thought it was over, I was there when someone I love was injured and that night, I had an anxiety attack. I thought I was having a heart attack. I don't have the money for a counselor, so I tried online counseling, but the only counselor who bothered to email me back told me that I have a twisted way of looking at life and didn't help me. What can I do to get help? (link)
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Hello,
Firstly, if you ever need to speak, you can e-mail me on flare901@gmail.com
Now, you need to stop being so hard on yourself. Having a car, or being skinny is not what is most important in life.
Regarding work, it's hard for everyone. I've been unemployed for over a year. You just have to shake yourself off, get back up, and carry on moving forward.
You should learn about what happened in certain situations. Did your relationship end because of something you did? Did you lose your job because of a mistake you made? If it was genuinely your fault, then you need to learn from your mistakes. If it wasn't, then you shouldn't blame yourself.
Good luck though, and do email me if you need someone to talk to :)
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Ok, so I can get this verizon jetpack for 20 bucks a month and replace my internet at home. Thats what THEY say, but whats a 4g hotspot??? Does it work with my Desktop PC and my laptops? What is a cap? for 20 bucks a month itseems pretty cheap. HEP MEH! What am i buying? (link)
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A 4G Hotspot is somewhere you can use 4G.
A cap is usually a maximum on the amount of internet you can use. You should check this out, and ask your existing provider how much internet you currently use, so you don't go over (there is a charge if you do).
I'm not from the USA, and so I have no idea about Verizon, but here is a link to "PCMag" and they do a review of what you are talking about:
http://www.pcmag.com/article2/0,2817,2405428,00.asp
Hope I helped :)
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Hi I'm Female and I'm 16
Me and my boyfriend have sex regularly
We don't talk about it we just like do it
And I was reading a book about sex and there was pre ejaculation. I didn't understand it so please can someone explain it to me x thnx (link)
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This is fluid that is released by the penis, before and during sex/masturbation. It's role is to naturally lubricate the penis. It contains sperm, and so this can often lead to pregnancy, even if the man "pulls out" before ejaculation.
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i get so hollow whenever a big event I'm so into ends, like a trip, Euro, NBA and Olympics.. Especially, now that Michael Phelps is retiring..
How can i overcome this feeling.. i feel so meaningless now (link)
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The key is to keep yourself busy. If you enjoy watching sports, why not play sports? I want to pick up fencing and tennis after watching Wimbledon & the Olympics.
Or just do something else to keep yourself busy. Read a book, exercise, play sport, watch a movie, write something, etc, etc.
I feel the same sometimes. You just have to fill that void!
Good luck!
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Has anyone every worked with it? I am trying to make a mirror mask, meaning, a mask covered with a a reflective surface so that the viewer will be able to see their reflection in it. I looked it up online but I have never seen it in person. Is Reflective Mylar like looking into a mirror? Thanks (link)
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I don't think it's like looking in to a mirror: it looks sort of blurry? I THINK I saw this in a garden center once, and was staring at it, wondering what it was.
May I suggest popping down to your local garden center, or hardware store, etc, and checking it out?
Hope I helped :)
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Ok so I have been talk to this guy for about two weeks and I am head over hills for him!! But I don't know how to tell him that I am crazy in love with him without sounding crazy!! Because he always text me this really cute stuff about how he likes me!! PLEASE HELP ME I DON'T WHAT TO SAY!!! (link)
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Trust me, you don't love him. You can't fall in love with someone after 2 weeks of talking to them.
You just like this guy.
Don't tell him that you love him - it'll freak him out.
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Sorry for making this so long but please help :D
Basically my mother is alcoholic. I've tried helping her - didn't work. So it is up to her to stop drinking but she decided not to. I don't live with her. I actually live with my father in UK and she lives in Lithuanian with my 9 year old half-sister. But to me - my sister is my life! I know how much she's suffering because i grew up watching my mother destroying herself. I actually took care of my sister since she was a baby. She even started calling me mum and her teachers at a primary school said that i am just like her mum because our REAL mum NEVER went to see any of my or my sisters plays, she was never interested in our health or education, i made sure that my sister was healthy and got proper education by taking her to the doctors and helping her with homework and i was only 8! But hopefully you get the idea how irresponsible my mother is. So basically I want to move to Sweden when I'm 18 (in 2014) to study there. I don't speak Swedish which is why i am going to study Swedish language and culture at Malmo university (of course if i get in :D ) I don't have a place to live yet but my uncle travels a lot so he'll give me advice on how to find a place to live,a job etc. And also i found a website where people from Sweden are offering a room or a house to live in (basically rent). But basically i want to take my little sister with me. She will be 11 then. I would take full responsibility for her just like i did when i was younger. Please don't tell me that I'm young and stuff because i know that. I will basically sacrifice my future for hers. To me she is more important.
Basically the things that's really bothering me (and it should bother me ) is that i wouldn't know what to do once i get to Sweden. Because i don't speak Swedish it would be even harder for me to sign her up for school. That's what i am worried about. She's young so she'll learn Swedish really quickly by being around Swedes a lot. That's how i learned English. Also things like health, getting a doctor etc. I know this will probably sound really stupid and unrealistic but it would be AWESOME to know a Swede who speaks English and who i could live with for 2-3 months just to settle down and also to get help from him/her/them. I need a person who would help me with my sisters school, getting a doctor etc. basically showing me what to do once i get there.Would it be possible to find a nice person who lives in Sweden and who would be kind enough to help me? I would obviously pay the person for the room,food etc.If yes then how could i find somebody like this? Are there any websites where i could ask for help and where people wanting to help would contact me? Swedish and Lithuanian culture is not that different so things like food and a few celebrations are very very similar so it wouldn't be hard to get used to that stuff.
Can somebody give me some advice? Anything will help. Just please don't start criticising because i know it's gonna be EXTREMELY hard for me but i would do anything for my little sister. All i'm asking is advice on how to move there with her ( i know how to move there by myself but it's different when you have a child with you), how to settle down there, how to get her to school, getting a doctor, people who could help me once i get there etc.? We don't have family or friends who live in Sweden just so you know. Thank you!
I'm 16 now by the way. I'll be 18 when i move there. (link)
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To be honest, I think this may be illegal. I suggest seeking legal advice before you do anything.
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Hey, I am gay 16 year old guy and whenever a guy touches me I get a hard on, but when a grl touches me I don't. How do I keep that under control when we start kissing or holding hands or something small like that?? Cuz I do t wanna be out and kiss him then get a hard on all of a sudden! Help please! (link)
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You're going through a period in your life when your hormones are going through the roof. So any mild touch could give you an erection. It's puberty, and it's normal.
You can't really control it, but you can make it look less obvious. Wear baggy pants. Dark colours prevent making it obvious. Just try to manage it well.
Also, masturbation may make you less sensitive to such issues. This is a personal choice however.
Good luck.
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I know some might thing this is stupid, and reply "hell no", but should I get my parents an anniversary present if they're separated? They're not divorced, and I didn't think about it until now. I asked my mother if we have any special occasions in August, and she replied "my anniversary". She still thinks it's a special occasion even if her marriage sucks and my dad doesn't live with us. I asked her if I should still get her a present and she blushed and didn't answer. I have a feeling my parents would really appreciate it, but it's kinda weird. Really weird. I'm really confused here. Please help!!! (link)
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I say you don't get a gift. I mean, even if you would, would you buy them one thing and force them to be together? Or buy them two small things?
My advice is to just be there for them. Keep in mind that they may be feeling quite lonely, and thinking back to the 'good times'. Why don't you do something nice for them. Separately of course. Just make dinner, or ask if they want to go out for lunch. Do something separately for the both of them.
This way, they feel that they have company, and focus on the good (you), rather than what could have been.
Hope I helped. Good luck! :)
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My mom wears a bra size 36DDD so I always figured that I would get big boobs. Im 14 and I just found out that she had a boob job a few years after she had me. She wont tell me what size bra she wore before the boob job so how can I tell what bra size I will be? (link)
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There is no way to tell. Even if you figured out your mothers' size, it doesn't mean you will be the same, or similar.
Your best option is just to wait for nature to take it's course.
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Ok soo I'm 14 and I don't care what people are going to think . I want to lose weight. All my friends are really small and I want to be the same way. I can never go to te beach or pool because I'm too fat soo do u have to be overage to buy diet pills or can I get them now ???
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Why take diet pills? The chances are that you won't be able to get them because of your age, and even if you do get them, they don't work.
It's perfectly normal to want to lose weight. The only way to do this is exercise and eating a healthy diet. If you take diet pills to lose weight, it's taking the easy option. If they work, the second you stop taking them, you'll put the weight back on.
Losing weight is also good, because it's slow. This doesn't seem good, but if you lose weight too fast, you'll have excess skin dangling from your body from where the fat used to be. If you lose weight slowly, this won't occur.
So to lose weight, do plenty of exercise. Be active: walk, run, job, jump rope, take a bike ride, play sport. Balance this with a healthy diet: plenty of fresh fruit and vegetables, protein such as meat, chicken, fish, eggs etc. have some carbs such as wholewheat pasta, rice, etc. Keep fat to a minimum.
Cut out junk food, and snacking.
This is a long-term approach so you remain healthy for the rest of your life. It's the only way to lose weight sustainably.
Good luck
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There is this guy I work in the same building with. He really likes me, he's said so several times and he always comes by my shop to talk to me. I feel like he is everything that I need right now. He is a really nice guy, makes me laugh.. he actually has his life together.. good job, life goals, his own place, nice car, etc..... That is a plus for me because I am notorious for dating losers. We seem to have a lot in common and I believe that I would have a really great time with him.
So my problem is that I am not physically attracted to him. He is tall, which I do like.. but he is also bald (& I normally date men with longer hair.) He is also kind of chubby... It sounds bad that I pay this close attention to looks, but I can't help it. Also the way he dresses is not what I am attracted to either. He is a little older than me though, I am 22 and he is 28, but the age difference doesn't bother me either. Could an attraction grow do you think? I feel like it would benefit me to date someone that is different from the normal type of men that I date. The few times that I have went out with him have been really nice though. So idk.. (link)
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Well, normally I would advise you to go on a couple dates with him to test the waters? See how it goes, see if there is anything there.
But this is tough, because he has strong feelings for you, and you may end up hurting him bad.
It's natural for you to place a certain importance on looks...there's a difference between being totally vain, and just being human.
I'm not sure whether I want to tell you:
1. You won't all of a sudden become attracted to him physically. If you want something deeper than that, i.e. a relationship based on personality and feelings, then go for it.
2. Just test the waters. Go on a couple of dates, and if you still don't feel attracted to him, tell him easily and gently that you like him but want to just be friends.
You could of course become friends. Just do things as friends. It's the best of both world really. Make it clear to him that whatever you do (on the 'date') is just as friends. Then test the waters that way. If you don't feel attracted to him, stay friends. If you find yourself falling for him, go further!
Good luck! Let me know what you decide on? :)
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This is a response to your answer on my question. I'm the girl who's friend has valuable items of mine and won't give them back.
I want to reply to your answer, because frankly it pissed me off. What was the point of you responding? It did not help me at all and I like I said, the opinion of a stranger on my lifestyle is irrelevant. And the friend who has my items smokes weed as well, so no she isn't "trying to tell me something".
I obviously wrote in my answer that I didn't want criticism because I would just end up looking through all the responses and weeding (pun intended) out the ones I wasn't even going to bother reading because it told me to stop smoking.
Thanks but no thanks for your response. (link)
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If you want to reply to an answer, you can leave feedback. Click on the rating, then a text box will show for you to type.
Here is a link to your original question:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=607062
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What happens if too much manstupation is done for long years?
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Nothing happens.
It's perfectly normal, natural, and healthy.
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So knew this girl since middle school & i'm homosexual she isn't . i told her i like her and i think shes beautiful but all shes said was " awe thanks " . any advice ? (link)
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Well, unfortunately, it doesn't sound like she is interested.
If she was, she would have replied with something more, or make a move herself.
Unfortunately, these things happen. You just have to move on.
Good luck!
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Heya* I'm 13 F. Me and this boy started dating a week ago. And I really like him. I have never felt like this before. He is very loving abd caring. He doesn't want stuff like blow jobs or sex or stuff that makes me get naked. I want to know how to act when I meet him the firt time? Should I hug kiss what should I do???? Oh and he is 14. (link)
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I don't want to rain on your parade, but you're not in love. Here is why:
1. You can't love someone after 1 WEEK of dating them
2. You've only been dating him for a week...obviously he isn't going to ask for sexual favours. So don't let your guard down. Just because he doesn't make such a move in the first week doesn't mean he wont.
3. You're 13. 13 year olds don't know what love is.
4. You've not even met him.
You just like him.
How do you act? Just do what feels natural. When you see him, give him a short hug. But apart from that, just be yourself. Relax, and enjoy yourself.
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