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This is a response to your answer on my question.


Question Posted Thursday August 2 2012, 12:30 pm

This is a response to your answer on my question. I'm the girl who's friend has valuable items of mine and won't give them back.

I want to reply to your answer, because frankly it pissed me off. What was the point of you responding? It did not help me at all and I like I said, the opinion of a stranger on my lifestyle is irrelevant. And the friend who has my items smokes weed as well, so no she isn't "trying to tell me something".

I obviously wrote in my answer that I didn't want criticism because I would just end up looking through all the responses and weeding (pun intended) out the ones I wasn't even going to bother reading because it told me to stop smoking.

Thanks but no thanks for your response.


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adviceman49 answered Friday August 3 2012, 11:26 am:
I was able, thanks to flare, to read your original question as it was not one I chose to answer when it first appeared.

Since the items you seek to have returned cannot be reported stolen, for obvious reasons, then taking desperate measures to get them back may be in order. To do so though should not be done in away that would put her or you in a position of having her parents in the position of becoming knowledgeable of either of you smoking weed. Your thoughts of just showing up on her door step and asking to retrieve your things, does lead to this happening.

What you might want to do is to pick a time when you know she is home and show up unexpectedly. You have a greater chance of getting your things back this way then if she is not home. If she is not home when you stop by just excuse yourself to her parents and try again another day or at another time.

Now as to today's message. We generally do not support illegal activities. Smoking weed for the moment is an illegal activity. At the moment I am on the fence as to whether or not weed should be legalized for any reason. I have never used drugs of any type that have not been prescribed by my doctor so I don't know the whys of why people do so.

As a firefighter first responder I have seen the far side of drug use all to often. Yes weed is a drug. Part of me feels that if legalized and decriminalized there might be less of it used as it will be removed from the criminal element pushing it. My biggest concern is that even if legalized there is still the possibility, even weed, can be abused.

Maybe you can enlighten me for I do have a hand in the drafting of legislation, in my state, for possible legalization for medical benefit.

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orphans answered Friday August 3 2012, 10:14 am:
If you want to reply to an answer, you can leave feedback. Click on the rating, then a text box will show for you to type.

Here is a link to your original question:

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Xenolan answered Thursday August 2 2012, 5:42 pm:
you know, if you want to reply to someone's answer, you can give them a rating and reply in that manner. Don't clutter up the board with your ranting. And if you try to rate me low on this response, I'll report you to the moderators and have you banned.

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