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Honesty: My fiance doesn't want to talk about his mom...
ok here goes nothing.. ok me and my finance have been dater ang on an off for 3 yrs. and just last night i asked him about his daughter an wanted to search her on facebook but don't have one. ok now i asked him about the mom and that's when things changed.? he didn't want to tell me about her.and i was wondering whatsb up with this . i mean i don't know what to think . i jst knnow he's very nice to me and gives me the world . i just don't know what to think. please help . thank you delores i'm 43 female and he is 38 male i from the united states i am an american.
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Just say once and only once that whenever he's ready, to tell you when he wants to and that he can tell you anything and that you won't make fun of him or judge him and leave it at that. Don't bring it up again. That will just annoy him. When he tells you, and I'm sure he will at his own time, then there you go. I'm sure it's not so bad that he can't trust you with it I mean aren't you his fiancé? You should be able to tell each other everything anyways so just say that. And make sure you don't keep asking! Do NOT do that, horrible idea.
Good luck being patient lol
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I think there's not much you can do if he doesn't
want to tell you you can't force him to tell you
i wouldn't pry or try to get the information out of him i'm sure if he wanted to tell you he would maybe he doesn't want to tell you because there's something bad about the mom that he's ashamed of not proud of and he doesn't want you to know there could be many reasons which i'm unaware of like i said i would just let it go if
you continue to ask him he could become irritated
at the fact that you keep asking prying and it could lead to the both of you arguing which i'm
sure you don't want i would just let it go move on no use dwelling over it
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