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Hi my name is Jen - I am 33 and married; a graphic desinger, a big sister, movie lover, horse rider, and board game nerd.

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I had a huge choclate craving than i started to cry while eating the chocolate ice cream that was in the freazer. was wrong with me? i have been all grumpy latly and i'll say things i don't mean and i'll think about it later and i'll be "why did i say/do that" or "that was stupid"
nothing bad has recently happen to me! i what should i do?/?/?/?
please i'm so confused

Maybe it is just PMS. I get grumpy now and then too. Watch a sad movie, and have a good cry. I suggest "Steel Magnolias" or "Fried Green Tomatos."

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What is the best age for a girl and a guy to get married?

And what should be a good age difference?

When you are both able to support yourselves, and you both have similar plans for the future.

Age doesn't really matter, as long as what you want out of the marriage is the same.

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um but my dad aint his boss they are friends..and he was the one who had asked my father about exchanging aims.but he did ask about the age difference and he knows it...but i could send you the conversation about that if you want it so u get a better idea of things if you want...just send me an email thing or whatever its called on this thing one of the things he said in the conversation was..."WorkinIt234:(6:15:26 PM): and im 19 shes atleast 16 and im within 4 yrs so its legal and besides age doesnt matter shes cute." but if you want the rest to get a better idea of it just email me

Well if you think that he wants to be friends, then stop guessing and just ask him why he's not talking. COMMUNICATION is key to any relationship.

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i have no idea what to do. my boyfriends friend (Karly)was getting in the way i talked to her and set her striaght.(we r in a lone distance realtionship) and now one of the other girls (katie)that did like him drug her self and died on his porch. the other friend of his who was a guy which he was so closed the used to do everything together found out the girl kaitie (who drug herself) and took a guy and killed himself. i have no idea what to do about my boyfriend he is really depressed and he thinks it is his fault i dont know why he does. i am scared he is going to do soemthign stupid and hurt himself. and know him and his sister want me to email Karly and talk to her make her feel better , but i dont want to do this because she slept with my boyfriend 5 months ago while he was drunk.. some one please help me!if i email her what should i say?? i need to do something i cant sit her and listen to my boyfriend tell me "if i dont email u back.. u will no it is becuase i have died of sadness in my sleep. Me.. The boy who is sitting in a coner crying... the bastrd, remember me? " please help me!

For 14 year old girl, you are far to young to be mixed up with a guy with this many problems, or in a long distance relationship. How do you even find a way to see eachother? And I can't understand why you would still be with him after he cheated on you. Why put yourself through this misery?

You are upset right now because he is not giving you the attention you want. Well, at them moment he has a lot of problems to deal with, he can't give you attention. I think you should give him some space; end the relationship and let him figure things out. Clear your life of this drama.

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okay heres the story first my dad works at a big company and recently they hired a new kid whos only 19 so my dad and his started talking about me..about a week later we exchanged aim s/n and like when hes on he doesnt really talk its basically a "whats up" and then he stops talking. Does that mean he doesnt like me even just as a friend? also hes so shy everytime i see him when i go for my dad at lunch he just sits there smiling but doesnt talk whats his deal? but theres another question how can i spice up our conversations a little??? i rate high and even if your answer isnt that good ill still rate pretty good. thanks

He is being standoffish because he knows not to get involved with the bosses daughter(even just as friends). Also you are only 16, so you are a little young for him yet anyways. He was probably just being nice by exchanging aim s/n. I know I wouldn't be too eager to be friends with my bosses son.

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okay im going to the gyno to get on birth control pills! now will they be able to tell if you are pregnant or do you like have to ask for a test. im pretty sure im not pregnant so i wont ask i just want to know????

i need help fast thanks

They will ask if you have had sex, and if you are possibly pregnant; and if so they will want you to take a pregnancy test before prescribing birth control. But no, they can't tell just by looking at you. The test has to be ordered.

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I eat 3 meals a day and lately abou an hour after my meals I start to get really hungry.
I've tried eating bigger portions but it just made me feel bloated after, I've tryed halfing my portions and leaving half of it for when I do get hungry but it makes my hunger worse and I've tried ignoring it but it just doesn't seem to go away.

Is there anyway I can stop this?

Don't starve yourself.

It's better for you to eat lots of little meals throughout the day. I often have a bannana or granola bar before a small lunch. And then I have an afternoon snack of yougut, crakers, or carrot sticks. Then I have a decent sized dinner. Popsicles are also great to have on hand when hungry.

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how do u burn SONGS w/ software called ARES and no burner?? Please help....!! i give easy 5s
i just need to know what to have and some easy steps to follow! thank you so much!

Sorry, but you can't burn CDs withouth a CD burner, just like you can't play CDs without a CD player or dirve.

When you buy a bunner, it comes with software to burn CDs.

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i am going to disney world tonight. should i wear my baithing suit under my clothes? jus in case i get wet? or should i wear a blakc shirt? thats all i packed anyway.

Get wet? From what? The only water ride is Splash Mountain, and you don't get wet enough to need a suit. I advise that you not walk around in the heat with a swim suit. You'll get a yeast infection.

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hey! well i woke up this morning and there were tons of broken blood vessels all over my chin and down my throat! and i didn't put anything on my face or do anything, and it hurts like crap! does anyone know what caused it or how to make 'em go away? thanks! :)

The first thing I thought was you were choked in your sleep. LOL.

I don't think they are actually broken blood vessels, they are dilated blood vessels (spider vains). That's why you can see them.

They usually are hereditary, but can also be caused by stress, too much sun or heat, drinking alcohol, or even eating spicy foods. My aunt has them on her legs.

Unfortunatly they just don't dissapear. You need to see a dermatologist.

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Hey... Yesterday I woke up with a MAJOR hurt at three in the morning. It hurt so bad that I couldnt' sleep until nine, and I didn't go to soccer or cheerleading. I slept on and off all day and I barely moved because my right side hurt SO BAD. I figured it would go awake, but this morning it woke me again at six! I slept from about eight to eleven and I don't know why my side is hurting. It's like right below my rib cage to my hip and a lil' on my right side of my lower back. Anybody know what it may be or what I can do to help it. RATE HIGH

My inital guess is you my have an appendicitis; and if so should be treated immediately. I would suggest going to see your doctor.

Check this out:
http://digestive.niddk.nih.gov/ddiseases/pubs/appendicitis/

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ohkay, i have this huge problem.. last night i bought a bathing suit for the pool party im having tonight and i just realized there is some huge thing that says "WARNING tampering will break glass and cause ink to leak out" I paid for it nd everything but the lady didnt take it off! taking it back to the store cant be done so what do i do!!!!!

Well if there is no way you can get to the store before the party, then you are just going to have to find something else to wear.

If you are will to risk ruining your suit, find a heavy duty clippers from the garage and cut the pin of the security tag. As long as you don't bend it, the glass shouldn't break.

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my puppy keeps biting people! he's a two year old doberman pincher, and he's absolutely adorable! but he has this problem with biting. he's made all my friends terrified of him, and the elderly lady across the street had to have stitches (which i had to pay for) when brownie bit her face. (just her cheek) i love him to death, and he hasn't bitten me since he was 6 months old, but i don't know if i should keep him if he's going to attack everyone he meets!

A dog that can not be trusted should not be kept around. What if next time he attacks a child? It is not worth the risk.

Your lucky your neigbor didn't call animal control. They may have taken your dog away. I would talk to your vet about your dogs aggression to see if it is something he can be trained out of. Otherwise, (if it were me) I would put him down. An out of control animal is just a lawsuit waiting to happen.

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my bf is 19yrs old and im 15.could he be charged with rape if my parents turn him in?

I don't know if it would be a rape charge. But yes, he can be arrested for having sex with minor.

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my boyfriend is the type of guy to cheat on his girlfriend. so me and him both have myspace accounts.. we both know the passwords to eachothers and everything. today, i was curious to see who he's been talking to because i don't really trust him. i saw him saying stuff to a couple girls and i'm really pissed. i don't know what to say to him, because i know if he found out i went on his account, he'll be mad at me. so what do i do? i can't just keep this in, and i know that i shouldn't of went on his name but i want to know if he's doing stuff behind my back.. help!

If you are dating a guy that you know is likely to cheat, then you are just setting yourself up for dissapointment. How can you be mad, you knew this was coming. What do you expect?

You have 2 options to rid yourself of the problem.

One: Stop snooping around and just pretend to yourself that he doesn't cheat.

Or Two: Leave him and find a guy that wants to be with just you.

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i need lots of help i really really like this guy & he is taken - but he says he is confused he likes me too - we hang out - been together and now the girl friend is hearing things & i think she wants to talk to me - i really really like him we are a perfect couple - we were made for each other seriously - i asked him out but she jumped on it & took him & moved in with him - she was married to guy who was fighting the war in iraq & has the guys baby says she is divorcing him-what do i do ? when he is really happy with me- i have the worst luck with men! help

i'm a dreaming
carrie

If you were the "perfect couple" then he'd be with you and this other women would not even be a problem. At the moment you aren't even a couple, he is still with her! He says he is "confused," which means he doesn't want to make a decision. I think you are dreaming if you expect to find a happy relationship with this man. Don't settle for a guy that sorta likes you, but might be just as happy with someone else. Find a guy that WANTS to be with JUST YOU! To help with your "bad luck" with men, here's a tip: date single guys.

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If I am renewing my drivers permit in another state (I moved to Arizona and its expired now), do I just go to the DMV and renew it (meaning they'd just take a new picture of me, etc) or do I have to take the drivers permit test all over again? Ive already checked their website, and I cant find any information.

Well I know here in MN if your are a new resident you have to take the written test to recive a MN licenes. So I am guessing you will have to for your permit. Go to the DMV and find out.

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Ok, i'm going to a soccer camp, and it allows u an hour ansd a half for free time. since were not allowed to bring electronicts, i'm going to be so bored. I'm new on the soccer team that's hosting the camp, so what should i bring or do that can include some of the girls at the camp?

It's pretty sad when you get bored at summer camp. Between you and your friends, I am sure you will find plenty to do. But if you do happen to find yourself with nothing to do, play cards or a bord game. I always bring a deck of cards when traveling. Do a craft. When I was a girl at camp, we'd spend hours braiding and beading braclets. Or for your own entertainment, read a book. You can survive the summer without electronics. Maybe you will suprise yourself and have more fun without them!

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I go over to my friends house alot. Everytime I am over there we never do anything. She is self centered and very lazy she always acts like she knows everything about everything. I am fed up with her and her lazyness and know-it-all lies.

SOMEONE TIRED!!

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ok i have been looking all over the internet for a homemade recipe for a face mask that gets your skin glowing... well i was always gunna try them untill they start telling me these weird herbs that i never heard of or dotn know where to get them...so what is a recipe that has ingredients that i have at home or that i could just go to the store and buy...i want a glowing face!!!pleez help

Suprisingly, the best place I have found is Walmat. They have all kinds of face masks, and foot scrubs that come in little disposable pakets. They are only a $1 a piece. I get them all the time.

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