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I'm a new young mom who has a lot of things to say to whomever is willing to listen :). I promise not to judge you no matter how crazy you may think your questions are and I will give the best answer I possibly can!

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LET ME HOLD YOU
And Introduce you to my world
And Introduce you to the better side of life that you aint been seeing girl
Ima show you where its at
And Ima show you how to get it
All you got do is be wit it and
LET ME HOLD YOU


Who sings this? is it a song? what is it called? thank you

let me hold you by lil bow wow

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13/m. me and my girlfriend have been going out for two months now. but im a pagan which most people think is devil worship but thats really not the case. but the point is shes christian and i dont want her to think im a devil worshiper, cuz im not, and break up with me so should i tell her about my religion or keep it ro myself?? plz help me

yes, you should tell her. but just explain it to her that you dont worship the devil. if she really likes you then your diffrences shouldnt madder, right? well, i hope it helped. it woul be better to tell her then to have it get back to her from someone else right? ok if you want you can ask me anything else.

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is it bad that i am an independant person.. when ever i get a boyfriend i dotn like it when he spends any money on me because i dont like it when girls use guys to buy them shit. but anyways my best friend is makin a big deal about it and my boyfriend doesnt like the idea. he thinks i dont like him when i dont let him buy me anything.. can someone please either help me change my point of view on this?? or do you think it is a good or bad that i am independant?? thanks

OMG! IM THE SAME EXACT WAY! that is really werid...not that your independent but the fact that its just like how i feel...ok anyway lets get to the point. its not bad to be that way, your just born a leader i guess and you dont think you need a guy in your life to make you happy. that actually a REALLY good thing. the world needs more people like that.

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ok.. i am 14 yrs old and weight 110LBS.. i don't really know if thats average.. I think i am fat because my belly is kind of big and my breasts are small and my butt is huge.. Am i over weight or am i the right weight.. PLease help thanks

THAT IS A REALLY GOOD WEIGHT FOR YOUR AGE! if you dont belive me then go to www.am-i-fat.com and type in height, age, and weight. it will tell you if you are over weight or not. i hope it helped.

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is cyber sex WRONG?

in my opinion.....um...well, i wouldnt recomend it but i dont really see anything WRONG with it.

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can you get pregnet from butthole sex?

nope! unless you miss that is lol.

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ok i am going into 7th grade and i am worried if guys lik me cuz when i was in emementary skool everybody didn't lik me wat should i do?>

plzz help me

look, just be yourself. its better to be loved for who you are then for who your not. im going into the eighth grade so i just went through wat you are gonna go through. so listen up sista. just be friendly to everyone and be outgoing. talk to people. i your shy then just drop a question in my inbox and ill help you. trust me on this one i had like ...1 bf last year and this year i have dated 6 people and im in a reationship right now. so i have the answers hun! ok, well, hope it helped and rember wat it said.

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Who thinks that this site should be for helping people, not senslessly being jerks? Say I.

I! ill say it again...I! lol

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Can anyone help me on riding horses? Like what do I do to make him walk, trot or anything else? How do I stop him? I need answers in the next 1 and a half hours or so. I rate 5's for decent answers. HELP!!!

make a tisk sound or wistle to make them go or go faster. and pull the rains to make them stop or just say woooo.

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okay this guy his name is charlie! well people think he is known for wanting to get in girls pants and then breaking up with them. But, i have heard some stories about how he is really sweet to his girlfriends and is not like that. Well, i like him alot an he said he likes me! should i try it with him and if thats all he wants dump him or what?! i really want to try it i mean he calls me alot! and he acts like he likes me!and he takes care of me

ya give it ago! i mean, listen to your heart not rumers. but if the rumers become to be true just dump him. what do you have to loose? i mean really. i hope i helped.

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Ok well im a 17/f and me and my boyfriend have sexand everything but like 4 months ago his condom broke and we didnt know it and now im pregnant. Well i want to keep the baby and my parents are all for me and any choice i make about the baby. Well my boyfriend and me are decieding if we should keep the baby and he wants to help raise the child if we decide to keep it. well i dont know if i should keep the baby. you see i will be able too because i act very mature for my age, i already moved out of my house when i was 16 because of family issues and i already have 1 child( i was raped when i 14 and i didnt give her up for adoption) what should i do should i keep the baby or give it up?

i guess the real question is, can you give this baby the life it deseves? i mean do you have the money for another baby? do you know you bf is gonna get a GOOD job? well, ask yourslef that before you go and keep it. i mean you could always consider open adoption. which is you get to see your baby on visits and you get to choose who you want for its parents. but if you do keep the baby then you need to pull your act together. act more matrue or ask for a raise. i really hope you make the right desision.

leah

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ok ive never made out before and my friend just got on the phone with me and shes like yeah the kid chris you like is gonna come to the party and hes like i wanna make out with some one n shes like make out with raven(who is me) and hes like ok and i dont no how or like what to do but im NOT turing down this oppertunity

you shouldnt feel presured to make out with anyone, but if you feel you want to then just go for it. it kinda just comes naturaly, but just a tip...turn your head alittle bit so your nose doesnt get in the way. and dont tell him you dont know how to make out bc that way he wont know if you did something wrong or he did something wrong lol. well, good luck on that! and i really hope that helped.

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Okay well yesterday was my first day of a new school. I didnt know anyone but I met this guy and we kind of walked together and sat with each other at the schedule place. He's so cute and really cool, i dont have any classes with him...how do i get to know him? I dont have his number or intantmessanger.

talk to him, just ask him sruff like so what do you think of____ or something like that. then say hey maybe we could hang out sometime. that way he doesnt know really to think if its a date or just a friend thing. so that way he will know your interested but at the same time just get to know you. i hope i helped and good luck with the cute guy! lol later gater
-leah-

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i dont really kno if i hav black heads or not bc i dont know what they are...im not sure what they look like...just black?? idk pleass tell..

their alittle bit smaller than regular zits and they are black...nothing more to it!

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I am talking to my ex-boyfriend on sunday at church I am going to set down and just tell him how I feel.But I just talked to him the other day before we got off I said I love you to him and he said same to you what does that mean does he still love me? what do you think?

yes that means that he wants to say the same to you...get it? i hope you two are happy together!

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how do you get your boyfriend to stop cutting..? please help me..=(

o wow, that is one of the questions i asked here a while ago. my bf used to do it too. look take it from someone who has had a bf who does that and has done it herself. your bf is in a very depressing stage right now. you need to tell him you care about him and you would miss him if he was gone. tell him everyone feels down at times but he cant let it bring him down. but dont sound angery or dont use a firm voice (that only makes problems). just use a soft voice. tell him he really needs to talk to you. tell him that you really want him to stop bc you care about him. i really really really hope i helped you out. and good luck with your bf!

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Well, I have been VERY depressed lately about different things. My dad makes me really mad. I'm tired of being depressed. I can't get to sleep at night. I hate it. My best friend is wonderful and she tries to help me. But nothing works. EVER! I feel so bad because she tries her best. I love her so much for helping me. I'm just.. I don't know. I'm always sad. I need help. And I can't afford some REAL help, if you know what I mean. SO.. Does anyone have any advice?? I will rate 4s and 5s!!

aw, look, ok, forget about the rating thing bc im here to help you out. i used to be in the same situation. i mean, my friends all hated me, my dad left(he's back now), and my mom thought that we were gonna loose the house. so i know how you feel. its ok to be sad for awhile but just dont let anything bring you down! tell yourself that you are strong and you can do anything. if you feel down at all then go out and do something. go ride a bike or see a movie with your friend or just take a walk to just...well..think. if you get so mad you cant stand it anymore then just scream as loud as you can in your pillow. try to think of all of your blessings everyday. like take time to smell the flowers or call up one of your friends to have a good laugh. my dad and other things make me mad sometimes too but you cant let that get you depressed forever! well, i hope i helped and feel free to ask me anything else.

♥ leah ♥

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Well, what should I say to a guy while on the phone with him to make him like me?

Also, what are some things that guys say to you that means they like you, but we dont notice?

I'll rate 5's.

well, for your phone question, i say be yourself. you shouldnt have to act any diffrent to someone you like. let me put it to you this way...would you rather be hated for who you are or be loved for wat your not? well, its not worth it. if you be yourself then he should like you. dont try to be anything that your not! and for your other question, they usualy drop hints. like they will say something sweet to you or they will give you a sign that they are single. i hope this helped! feel free to ask me anything else. ♥ leah

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Well there is this kid we met this year and we went out together at one point but then we broke up and we were still friends. But now he hates me and won't talk to me and I have no idea why. What should I do I'll rate high! I'm female/13

you should really talk to him. tell him you really want to be friends and latly he seems as if he doesnt want to be friends with you. ask him why he hates you and remind him constantly that you guys are good friends and need to talk about things like this. i hope i helped!

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There is this kid I liked since the fourth grade and now i'm 13 and he is nice and we hang out together in school and stuff. But sometimes he doesn't want anything to do with me and tells me off then he'll be nice again. No matter what I do I can't stop liking him. What should I do about liking him and about our relationship?? I'll rate high!

Signed, Confused Cutie

ok now i know im gonna get some nasty feed back by saying this but it NEEDS to be said. y would you like someone that is mean to you? i think it is that you make yourself think you like him. wat ever you tell yourself your brain will beleive so tell yourself your over him. im sorry this sounds rude but hun there is so many fish in the sea and you should be looking for the right one..not wasting time with someone who doesnt care! hope this helped!

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