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A confusing relationship
Well there is this kid we met this year and we went out together at one point but then we broke up and we were still friends. But now he hates me and won't talk to me and I have no idea why. What should I do I'll rate high! I'm female/13
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I think you should ask him whats up but in person so he can't just leave. He might not hate you he just still likes you and if he talks to you he will like you even more.. I hoped i helped..
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Hi there,
Well it could be for many reasons. It pretty hard for a person to be friend again after they broke up. For some reason when you guys were friend and changed into more serious relationship, things just changed. Of course it does work out for some cases. And if this is your case I suggest, move on. He's not last guy friend you will ever met in this world.
But...hold it right there.
If this isn't your case, if you guys already cool and become friend and out of a thin air he just acts all weird and mad at you. Something might be upsetting him? It could possibly be something you said, or it could be just him need sometimes alone. One day just talk to him when he's alone ask him what was wrong and if he's cool to talk about then that's good. But most guy isn't that way. So you just have to let him be for a while and tell me that its cool if he wants to talk about anything. You'll be there.
Tell me how its going. Take care.
-Patty-
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well what you should do is talk to him ask him if he is mad at you and if he wont talk to you maby he doesn't have any thing to say so you should go up to him and start a conversation with him and maby yall can gain a relationship as friends again He is probally still mad about the break up so if he wont say any thing let him get over it and let him chill out well if you have any questions you can write me in my inbox
hope I helped
Polly
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Well maybe you should go up to him and ask what you did wrong and say that whatever it was you're sorry and that why didn't he tell yuo what you did before then just like leave you alone and dump you and not talk to you.
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I think you should confront him face to face. Tell him what's on your mind. Ask him why he is acting the way that he is acting.
Tell him that you want to be his friend but if he is just finding reasons to gight with you, you guys HAVE to talk about this. Tell him that you want him to be your friend and as a friend, you're asking him to tell you what is bothering him.
At times, kids your age go through some things that devastate them. Like parents divorcing, relative/family member passing away, or fights with their parents or siblings. These things can possibly cause them to take their anger out on people that they aren't even angry AT! This COULD be a possibility.
Most of the time, kids are going through a lot at your age and need someone to be there for them. That's where YOU come in. Ask him what's bothering him. Ask him if it's you that's bothering him. If it is, ask him what you did wrong to make him so angry.
This should get you through to him.
You know you can email me at x_pink_x109@yahoo.com if you need any help with advice or JUST want to talk! You can also drop one in my inbox!
Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Kayla ♥
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Don't come to the conclusion he hates you just yet. Find out why he isn't talking to you and see if you can't fix it. A friend is a terrible thing to lose and if you can find out why he isn't talking to you, then fix so you can keep being friends.
Hope I helped and things get better.
-Ryan
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You need to ask him why. He may not tell you and he may not have any real good reason. If he is around the same age as you he is probably just a little immature yet. Immature boys act a little strange sometimes. Give it a little time and whatever it is will probably get better. :)
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awww.. im very sure he doesnt hate you. theres a reason he's acting like this. as for now i say give him some space because if he doesnt want to talk to you right now. respect that and leave him alone. after a while try to start talking to him again. tell him exactly what you told me. tell him how YOU feel and he should come around. i bet the whole thing is a misunderstanding. friendships after relationships usually dont run smoothly. so just let him know you want to be there for him and that you care about him very much. i bet that should do it. good luck sweetie = )
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There has to be a reason he isn't talking to you. I highly doubt that he hates you, and highly suggest asking him what's up, or having a friend do the same!
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you should really talk to him. tell him you really want to be friends and latly he seems as if he doesnt want to be friends with you. ask him why he hates you and remind him constantly that you guys are good friends and need to talk about things like this. i hope i helped!
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