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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

i know this is kinda random, but what are the bases. like 1st 2nd 2rd & homerun. well, i know what a homerun is lol but what about the other ones. just wonderinn lol

1) kissing
2) makin out/touchin
3) foreplay/finguring eatin out, giving head
4) sex
♥ Steph

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would it be weird to talk to your dead grandmother portait about things? cause i know a friend that does it and it helps her or something

no because when you talk to things that cant answer you can get the most out of it becuae they acan never talk back.
=)
♥ Steph

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okay my friend she's 15 and she really likes her boyfriend and stuff and she talked to his friends and they said that he is only dating her for 2 reason: to make out with her and to make someone else jealous. I would try to help her more but i don't know what to do. She then asked him if it was true and he got mad. If you guys read this answer asap i need your help as soon as possible. If your a "guy" then i'd love to hear your advice to thanx :)

i just thought of an idea of what could prove if it is a lie or if it is ture. ask your friedn to do this. let them do whatever they usual do together but tell her NOT to kiss him or make out with him. ask her if at any point there is where there is a girl and he always trys to be all over at that moment but once that girl is gone then he stops? if that is ture thewn what his friends said was true. otherwise just leave it alone. if ur friend doesnt want to believ you then let it be your friend and since you tryed helping her and it didnt work all you can do is help her back up when she falls.
♥ Steph

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Ok, this guy asked me to a school dance. But, he is fat, and he is a real nerd. He was the first to ask me. Im afraid that people will laugh at me for going with him. I really want to go because it will be fun and we get to go to six flags afterwards. What should I do? Go to the dance with the fat nerd... or stay home?

well you got to choice one give the guy a chance or 2 lie to him and say ur goin with someone else and try findin a guy. could u possible go with your friends?? hope this helps.
♥ Steph

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i have to take a poll for school. just answer honestly and NO personal info will be given out. okay are you guys either a. a republican or b. a democrat? if you answer one of those 2 you automatically get a 5. yay

democrat.

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okay so my best friend has been seeing this guy, well shes been kind of ignoring me.. and then she made out with him last night for the first time, and she didnt tell me first..she told all my other friends.. who are her friends too, and they ended up telling me.. i dont know i got really mad about this and can u please tell me if im over reacting? bc i think she blew me off the other night to go hang out with him too.. plz help

that sucks that she blew you off but maybe she is having a hard time right now. it could be posisble her bf doesnt really like and some how convinced her that she shouldnt be talkign to you. my advice to you is try talking to her about it. if she blows u off then leave her allow true friends dont do that.
♥ Steph

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I think I've caught something nasty - where do I go to get it checked out?

PLANNED PARETHOOD!. sorry i was there like last week and i never knew how great it was.. i think you should call them up and talk to them and make an appointment. so yea hope this helps.
♥ Steph

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I recently asked a question about liking two guys, who are friends..and not knowing which one to like more, to go for..


One of the guys was outspoken, popular and wanted, the other one was more good looking, but more shy, and not as charming. (don't worry, I don't judge by looks, just reminding you of the two guys)
Lets call the outspoken one #1 and the shy one #2

Okey, so recap; the first time I met them I hepled them study for like 30 minutes, alright?

Now I met guy #2 at the library the other day, and he was like "HEY, what's up? The test went pretty good actually.." and we talked for like two minutes. And I was like "wow he seems to want to get to know me" BUT 1 hour or so later, he was walking with his friends, and I nodded and said "hi" (he definitely saw it) but he totally ignored it!! wtf?!

So I was like "whatever, if he doesn't want to get to know me, I don't want to get to know him" I didn't let it get to me.

But like, a while later,I could tell he wanted to come talk to me, he was definitely staring at me, and kind of walking slowly past me..you know?

gaah, guys can be so confusing.

And now, to guy #1, when I smile at him at school, I guess he sortof smiles back..but not really. And the other day on my way home from school, I smiled at him when I saw him, and he smiled back, and then he stopped me and said "hold on, my test went great! Thnk you so much, I got a perfect score!" I was like "Really?That's awsome" congratulations, I'm happy for you" and then we both just kept walking our separte ways..

So I don't know, it seems like at the same time, they both want to get to know me, but still..they don't?

Could it have something to do with my appearence? Like they both want to get to know me because I have a good personlaity, but maybe i not pretty or popular enough?
Though, people usually tell me I'm pretty..but maybe I'm just not pretty ENOUGH?

I don't know, now to my last question, sorry this was so long, haha..

I told my friend that I had gotten to know these guys (not that im interested in them though) and she was like; ohhh they're hot! esp. guy #1" I was like "haha, yeah, want me to hook you up with him?" WHY DID I SAY THAT??? I WANT HIM! I've done this before too!! Liked a guy, and then told my friend that I'd hook them up..

I don't get it!? I guess there's something wrong with me :(

would you please help me?
What should I do about all this?
And what do you think about everything?
Like, which one likes me? And why are they acting like that? Which one should I go for? I can't explain to my friend - seriously CAN'T! So what do I do with that? Howcome I offered to hook them up? ANSWERS please =)

Thank you for reading this even though it's soo long! :)

ok how do you know they wanna go out with you?? maybe the only like you as a friend.. I SUGGEST to talk to them get to know them more and become close friends before deciding if they like you like that and if they want to go out with you. about your friend tell her you really cant ask him right now because you barely know him and they dont even know each other.
♥ Steph

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hey .. i have an advice column and im trying to upload a picture but everytime i do it says it's too big .. anyone know how to fix that?
thanks !

go to either tinypic.com, http://www.imageshack.us/ or go to photobucket.com and upload your picture there and resize it. hope this helps.
♥ Steph

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I've been going out with my boyfriend for about two months, and I love him, and he says he loves me. I pretty much let him do just about whatever he wants to me, like not sexual just like boyfriend girlfriend type stuff I guess. But he told one of my best friends that it sometimes takes the fun out of it. So should I like sometimes stop him or what?

Also what kinda stuff can I do to make him happier and be more involved in the relationship. I mean I hold his hand, hug him, let him hold me, that kinda stuff but what else can I do?

things to turn him basically is what you want to know. touch him. Tease him, flirt with him, like do little things like grab his ass and run and be like you cant get me. dont act to girly girly that ruins the fun for guys. they girls that can have fun and not be so worried about breaking a nail. hope thi helps.
♥ Steph

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What's the difference between being 'High' and being 'Stoned'?

stoned means weed and high means other kinds of drugs. but they are used the same way.
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I'm gonna make this short and simple. Hopefully the answer is simple too. Is it possible to get pregnant from being fingered if the guy has cum(even dried) on his hands/fingers?

Rates 5 to all

yes it is possioble but not likely. it depends on how long ago he cummed adn it it was on his finger. sperm travels fast.
♥ Steph

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hey i got a myspace today and i was wondering where to go to put the url for the layout in?

the about me section

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Okay, So Friday is 8th grade graudation. Evreyone including me is dressing FORMAL ( we have to b ) and i have a pretty dress and so on and so forth. My questin is: how do i do my hair!?? My hair is atleast 6 inches past my shoulders. IO can curl uit or straighten it. PLEASE HELP! give me pictures because my mom mom is great at doing hair too so what i cant do im sure she could. please help and hurray times running out.


p.s. im 14

http://www.catwalk-queen.net/prom_01.jpg


http://www.just-hairstyles.com/formal/o15.jpg

http://www.just-hairstyles.com/formal/o88.jpg

a lil thing to add to them. make it have up and half down and with hair that is done make striaght and put some curlys in it.
♥ Steph

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how do you cover the smell of smoke?? like get it out of your hair w/o washing it like 50 times

perfume. body spray, hope this helps.
♥ Steph

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my boyfriend and i had dry sex, though im just the only one having my undies. i just want to ask if i can get pregnant doing dry sex. also, accidentally, mine and his came into contact but it was very quick. there was no penetration. can i get pregnant by that? im really confused and i really dont know what to do. please help me. thank you so much.

if at all he climaxed on you then there is a chance otherwise no you cant be pregnant
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does masturbation make u get pimples?

nope there is no possible way to get pimples from masterbastion.
♥ Steph

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My best friend just told a huge secret of mine. Do I have the right to be angry?

The secret wasn't that big of a deal but it kinda meant a lot to me.

Thanks in advanced!

yes i would be to
♥ Steph

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What is the best brand of wax strips to buy for a bikini wax? I don't want the wax-in-a-tub stuff that you put in the microwave. I just want to know about the strips that you put on your skin and peel off! I've heard that Veet has them.

i use nair wax strips. you warm it up with ur hadn pill it and use it. hope this helps.
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Well, there is this boy,X.I like him a lot.I am 16 and he is 16 too.We used to hug and kiss each other all the time.But, he is the hondsome one and i was ignoring him all the time.Afterwards, my best boy-friend kissed me(lips) i don't know why he did it!And now nothind is like before.In front of me X pays attention at other girls and me at other boys and i asked him"do you like your ex?"and he told me"a little bit why?".I told him that she likes him but now he doesn't talk to her.Not even"hi".When i am thinking all these have happened i cry and i just cannot stop.Generally i am really possitive thinking etc but now, i don't know what is happening to me.I think he has understood that i like him...What should i do now?Ignore him?I am not the type of girl that goes where the one she likes is or askes a boy out etc...Please help me!I don't know what is going on to me but i am not like before.I am happy and after one second i want to cry!

i think you should talk to x about this. tell him how you feel . it is betetr to saw something that you will regret then not saying soemthing and regret it. if you best guy friend that kissed you is what caused the probably i would tell x that the kiss meant nothing. hope this helps you out. and cheer up. =)
♥ Steph

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