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I like two dudes; offered to hook my BFF up with him. Why?
I recently asked a question about liking two guys, who are friends..and not knowing which one to like more, to go for..
One of the guys was outspoken, popular and wanted, the other one was more good looking, but more shy, and not as charming. (don't worry, I don't judge by looks, just reminding you of the two guys)
Lets call the outspoken one #1 and the shy one #2
Okey, so recap; the first time I met them I hepled them study for like 30 minutes, alright?
Now I met guy #2 at the library the other day, and he was like "HEY, what's up? The test went pretty good actually.." and we talked for like two minutes. And I was like "wow he seems to want to get to know me" BUT 1 hour or so later, he was walking with his friends, and I nodded and said "hi" (he definitely saw it) but he totally ignored it!! wtf?!
So I was like "whatever, if he doesn't want to get to know me, I don't want to get to know him" I didn't let it get to me.
But like, a while later,I could tell he wanted to come talk to me, he was definitely staring at me, and kind of walking slowly past me..you know?
gaah, guys can be so confusing.
And now, to guy #1, when I smile at him at school, I guess he sortof smiles back..but not really. And the other day on my way home from school, I smiled at him when I saw him, and he smiled back, and then he stopped me and said "hold on, my test went great! Thnk you so much, I got a perfect score!" I was like "Really?That's awsome" congratulations, I'm happy for you" and then we both just kept walking our separte ways..
So I don't know, it seems like at the same time, they both want to get to know me, but still..they don't?
Could it have something to do with my appearence? Like they both want to get to know me because I have a good personlaity, but maybe i not pretty or popular enough?
Though, people usually tell me I'm pretty..but maybe I'm just not pretty ENOUGH?
I don't know, now to my last question, sorry this was so long, haha..
I told my friend that I had gotten to know these guys (not that im interested in them though) and she was like; ohhh they're hot! esp. guy #1" I was like "haha, yeah, want me to hook you up with him?" WHY DID I SAY THAT??? I WANT HIM! I've done this before too!! Liked a guy, and then told my friend that I'd hook them up..
I don't get it!? I guess there's something wrong with me :(
would you please help me?
What should I do about all this?
And what do you think about everything?
Like, which one likes me? And why are they acting like that? Which one should I go for? I can't explain to my friend - seriously CAN'T! So what do I do with that? Howcome I offered to hook them up? ANSWERS please =)
Thank you for reading this even though it's soo long! :)
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I think you hooked your friend with guy #1 because you saw her happy and excited about him. Maybe you should go for the guy #2. Well in my opinion, I think they just want to be your friends.
Snowi
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ok how do you know they wanna go out with you?? maybe the only like you as a friend.. I SUGGEST to talk to them get to know them more and become close friends before deciding if they like you like that and if they want to go out with you. about your friend tell her you really cant ask him right now because you barely know him and they dont even know each other.
♥ Steph
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