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ok well for some reason im extremely worried about getting pregnant. and i always think i am or i could be i let it interfere with alot of other things in my life...i even told my fiance that we shouldnt have sex until i get on birth control or wait til we get married but sonehow we always get in the moment and i cant help myself...i mean we dont use condom b/c i dont really like them even though i know we should and he pulls out everytime....but idk what to do to get over this...or to get it off my mind besides not having sex or using a condom...is it rare to get pregnant if he pulls out??? any advice?? (link)
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I don't know why people have it embedded in there heads that the pull out method is always going to work...It doesn't always work. This is how people get pregnant and have babies that they aren't ready for. All I can say is if you don't use a condom eventually your luck is gonna run out whether you want it too or not. I advise you to start using condoms or don't have sex at all
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my boyfriend of 2 years just moved to texas. i live in virginia. i need to find a way to be with him again but i dont know how. my parents are very strict and would probably not let me go to texas to stay with him, so if i were to buy a plaane ticket i would have to do it behind their backs somehow. if thats possible? or i was thinking of taking a train to visit but i dont know the cost or how long it would take. i want to be with him long term but i dont know how to be. his mom isnt as strict as mine and would let me stay with him but i just dont know how. my parents would never let me. please help, im desperate right now i need to see him so bad (link)
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Okay I have already answered this question before.
I told you, You need to be 18 to purchase a plane ticket there is NO way to get a plane ticket without an adults permission. If you want too take a train that is fine but again if you do it behind there backs you will or could be classified as a runaway not only that but you will sure be heading for a road of trouble. If he is in texas and you are in virginia...Then hell girl I say forget about it.
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so me and my bff made a promise to each other that we will wait till atleast after highschool to lose are virginity:)! Well I want to buy her and I a promise ring!that will make it like easier for us to keep I think! I just have no idea where to get them?any ideas where they have some at good prices?thanx:) (link)
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Walmart is a good place to look if you want to go cheap, Depending on what you are willing to spend sometimes Jcpenny has some really good sales too. If you just want any kind of ring then check out Claires.
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alright kitttys, im like 5'10 and i weigh 180ish is that over weight? i dont think i look so bad i like my legs but i NEEED to lose my love handles, i tryed doing side crunches and twists and shit but i never feel the burn on my sides no matter how many i do i just feel it on my tummy, which i also wanna tone a little but its not too bad. so can someone tell me some exersice that targets my sides and thats affective?! thank you! :] (link)
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Depends on your body structure. The average weight for someone 5'10 and female is between 170-200 pounds. I would say you are about average..If you want to work on the stomach you might want to try laying on your back and lifting your knees up to your chest and do this 3 times a week up to 20 minutes a day and you should start to notice a change.
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k so. some of my friends and sisters are on birth control and most my friends tell me its awesome it makes your periods lighter and it fills your body out like your curves and makes your boobs bigger, they lost a little weight and the pill basically makes you grow up. one of my sisters told me she got really sick and gained 10 pounds but then her body got used to it and it worked to make her periods better. im thinking about going on it because my periods fucking suck and the filling out your body and losing some weight sounds good too mee, plus i dont have too realllly worry about shit when i have sex. so whats the deal? do you only get sick if its a higher dose or something? i dont wanna gain weight cus i dont really like the weight i am now as it is. help please! (link)
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You said;"plus i dont have too realllly worry about shit when i have sex."
You ALWAYS need to worry about things when you have sex, Pill or not it is not 100% effective and there is always a chance of pregnancy the only thing the pill will do is help you from a higher chance of getting pregnant and it doesn't prevent STD. Birth control works different for everyone, I have never been on the pill but I have been on Depo, IUDs etc and I did not notice any weight loss at all infact I might of gained a little bit of weight. The pill is good if you have a heavy period and yes I've heard it does regulate it. No, it does NOT make your boobs bigger, The pills is a birth control not a breast implant. Also, it doesn't make you "grow up" either. It is good to have but remember there is always a chance something could go wrong so don't get it embedded in your head that it is a "incredible thing, I won't get pregnant and I will lose weight and grow up" it doesnt' work that way.
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how do you fix a broken eyeliner
like, when you try to roll it up, it won't
and its new (link)
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Pencil Sharpener
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What is the best attitude to take with a conceited player that will drive him crazy!??? i was thinking to just ignore him and pay attention to everyone else and he would hate it...but what are some other opinions on here? What do u guys think? (link)
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Why do you care to waste your time with someone who doesn't give a shit? Move on
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these girls say they are going to come kick my ass both of them dont know how to fight im not really worried about it but do you have any tips on fighting? (link)
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Do not do it, Fighting solves nothing and you will only get yourself into trouble and possibly have charges pressed against you. Do you really want a record...and do you really want to go to jail? If they say they are going to "kick you ass" pleaaaaaaaaaaase half of the time girls and guys are just all talk let them go walk it off they will get over it.
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Me and my gurlfriend had unprotected sex on friday, well durin 2 times durin intercourse i felt like somethin came out, as if i had came but i wasn't even ready to. Well yesterday my gurlfriend took th home pregnancy test and she turned out negative. Is the test effective since it was done 5 days after intercourse? Do u think that somethin really came out or was it just a feelin and if so can my gurlfriend get pregnant from it? (link)
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Just like Jack said there is no such thing as "protected" sex. Condom or not there is always a chance of pregnancy. Even the "pull out" metheod doesn't work half of the time and that is the reason why people have children today that were unexspected. If you want a more accurate test wait 2 weeks.
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I'm 24 and female and I lost my virginity to a guy that I fancy the pants off! It wasn't at all what i expected and I was drunk and so was he and it was just...well, not that great.
I saw him last night and had to speak to him beacuse I just don't know how to feel about the whole thing and his words went a little something like this: "Well I had fun it was a laugh" and I was like "pardon and what now?"...He actually doesn't give a shit about me and I can't believe I waited that long to lose my virginity and it ended up being with an absolute CUNT! I've cried constantly for the whole entire day and I can't eat cos I feel sick. How long does it take to get over this? I hate him. He's ruined everything :(
Thanks
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The fact that you have waited this long shows that you have a great amount of respect for yourself. However, The guy sounds like a loser who just wanted to get in your pants..and sometimes despite whether we think he is a great guy, honest, and the one we think we are going to be with forever..sometimes the truth comes out when you give yourself up in sexual terms. You are hurt due to his actions and words..but like Witty said below me it probably will bother you until you have passionate sex and no that does not mean go out and try and look for it too forget what has happened. What is done is done, Now you have to try and move on because you can't take it back. Trust me, There are times I wish I could take back my past but things happen for a reason even when we don't want them too. Life is a lesson and full of challenges we all learn from our mistakes. The more you dwell on feeling sorry for yourself the more you will feel like shit and it will keep on haunting you. I understand what you mean by "he has ruined everything" You were waiting for the moment too happen and you were saving yourself for the one you love but that can still happen. Yes, He took your virginity but no he can't take what the future still holds for you so don't let him get you. You deserve better and this guy is just an asshat.
-Bahaima22
24/F
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So, I am moving into an apartment in about a month and a half...I am excited, and a bit scared... because I have no idea on what to do first... haha. We have found the place, we just need to sign the papers and apply to get it, and viola! Its just after we sign the papers...what do you do first...buy stuff that you need? I need some help, haha. (link)
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I just moved into my first apartment almost a year ago. Here are a few tips..
1. If you need extra furniture a good place to look is a used furniture store such as "Consignment Goods" it was great came in handy concidering money was tight for me for awhile. There I bought a dinner table for 30 bucks and it is still going strong and it's wonderful.
2. Always try and have extra supplies in the house, Soap, Shampoo, Toilet paper, etc it really helps save money instead of running on low last minute.
3. Pay off all your bills before going shopping, Or your best bet..All money goes towards checking that are to be for paying bills and utilities and saving account is whatever eles.
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A month or so ago my best friend started hanging out with this girl, and they became really good friends. welll, ever since then they hang out all the time, and do almost everything together. I havent really hung out with my bff for a long time. and i miss her, i really do. i feel like i should tell her that i feel left out. i mean i dont care that she hangs out with the girl, i just wish she would include me in their plans sometimes..help! :(
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Talk to her, Tell her how you feel. Sometimes people forget that you can always have more than one best friend. I'm sure she will understand how you feel.
Bahaima22
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I'm 21 and my fiance is 28. I am 7 months pregnant. We have been together for almost 2 years. Our relationship to me has hit rock bottom but only for one reason....his ex wife and other son. Ever since the day me and my fiance have started dating i have had to deal with endless amounts of bullshit from his ex. Phone calls 2-3 o clock am calling saying what a crackhead I am how I'm such a whore. This went on for basically the first full year. Sometimes she would call pretending to be other women (she was never smart enough to block her number or atleast call from another number). Anywho I'm at the point where I don't feel like i should have to put up with this woman for the rest of my life honestly after 2 years she still hasn't let up when will she? he doesn't help the situation either. When they have to talk on the phone whether it be about custody or whatever he flirts! I told him....she's trying to get more and more money and hasn't let you see your son in 6 months plus she's been trying to sabatoge us since the day we met WHY THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOU SHOULD BE NICE????????? He says he aggrees but ends up doing it anyways. Basically I'm scared to leave his side cause I feel like he'll call her. I'm scared to go anywhere cause I feel like he'll drive and see her of course to see his son(but she's sneaky and a slut) When he's not with me I wonder if he calls her and what they talk about. Maybe its just me but thats how I feel. I Love him so much and we're having a child but I can't deal with this torture and hurt everyday. I want to leave him but i'm scared. (link)
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For one, You need a restraining order against her. Two, Block her number if you have too then call the phone company and see if it's possible you can change your number. This is clearly a stalking problem I don't know what her deal is but she is taking this waaaaaaaaaay too far. You are 7 months pregnant and any sort of stress can put you and your baby at risk. Don't leave him, This isn't his fault unless of course he is being unfaithful too you and he is allowing it all to happen. Your fiance needs to pick up the phone and firmly tell her to STOP calling no if,what,or buts about it. Yes, he might have son with her but he needs to handle that part on his own you can support him along with it and all but it is NOT your responsiblity to have to put up with this womans bulls***. Sit down with your fiance and talk to him, Tell him it needs to stop and it needs to stop now it has gone on long enough. Don't let her get too you, If you and your husband go to the police file a report even have the police contact her telling her to stop, block her number, change your number, filing a restraining order etc. Then I'm sure she will get the point and back off.
-BahaiMa22
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Ok i am 13 and i want to go in a chat room were i can just flirt with guys my age what chat rooms should i go to. (link)
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There is no chatroom, None that is safe anyway. As Step said below me the internet is flooded with creeps exspecially chatrooms. A simular exsperienced happened to me also when I was 15..I gave out my phone number and some old guy kept calling my house leaving messages and it ended up that I had to go the police on him and it was not fun at all. I NEVER did that again. If you want too meet a guy your age I highly suggest you try too look in person. If you look on the internet I also promise you they are never what they say they are.
BahaiMa22
24/f
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ok when i open up quicktime player a porn website just pops up and i am wondering how i can stop it plz help!! (link)
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Sounds like a virus, You could try to restore the computer.
Start-Program-PC help and tools-System Restore
If you restore it too an earlier date it is possible you could change it back to before you got the virus, However IS IS NOT RECOMMENDED doing everytime something popups. After doing this your computer should restart.
You also might want to see if your popup blocker is off by going to the internet-tools-pop up blocker
If you don't have a antivirus program I recommend downloading CCleaner it will delete any problems or temporary files in your computer. Also, Try clearing history once in a blue moon.
-Bahaima22
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Some background information before I start: I'm in high school. My boyfriend just graduated high school. We have a fairly strong relationship and plan on living together as soon as we both finish college. He's had one other serious girlfriend, who he dated for 3 years. He loved her but went too far one night with another friend of his. Though he was completely honest about it with her and they tried to repair their relationship, the damage was done, and they broke up. He met me soon after, and our relationship began.
Even though I know we truly love each other, I can't help but think that I'm only second best in his heart. He has conflicting feelings about his ex-girlfriend still, after all of this time with me. He says that he can't stand her anymore and wouldn't talk to her if he saw her, but it's clear to me that somewhere inside, he still loves her.
This is where the problem begins. They're going to college together. The chance that they would see each other is very high, and knowing the type of person my boyfriend is (the type who likes problems resolved and who can't forget problems), he would talk to her. I know he wouldn't plan to do anything with her and that if anything did happen, he would tell me straight away. But I'm scared that it will happen, and that he'll choose her over me. I would be truly heartbroken if I lost him.
I'm scared to talk to him about this because I'm afraid of the truth, hearing what I don't want to be true.
What do you make of this situation?
P.S. Sorry about the long post!
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Honestly, It sounds like your boyfriend isn't over his ex. Why would he still talk to her when he is with you? That sounds weird to me...There shouldn't be any reason at all that he would have contact with his exgirlfriend. If he truely moved on he wouldn't even bring her up. I would talk to him about it, Tell him that he needs to move on and focus on the relationship with you. If he keeps having contact with him anything could happen despite whether she is his exgirlfriend or not. Yes, He might be an honest kind of guy but when they screw things up they can also be very secretive. Let him know where he stands with you.
-BahaiMa22
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I was wondering how people can take a color pic, make it black and white, and have one thing left that is still color.
& anyone know of any photo editing softwares that i can download straight off the internet??
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Cameroid.com in order for this to work you would need to have a webcam.
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I like to rent t.v series' at the movie store. I need some suggestions on what to start next. My favorites are The Wire, Jericho, Weeds, My Name is Earl, The Deadliest Catch. so if anyone can suggest some that are like any of those that would be great thanks! (link)
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Lost
Prison Break
Bones
House
The Office
The Assistant
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i have this rash type with a couple zits on it between my breast, i think it's from the heat and the sweat gets caught in there. i've tried to wear bigger bras and sports bras too but it doesn't help. is there any home remedies i can rub on it. i've heard tooth paste on pimples/zits but i still have the rash going on. (link)
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Aloe, You also might want to try putting powder between your breast it will help prevent future rashes.
-BahaiMa22
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my bf and i just had a reaaaaaaaaally rough breakup. we havent spoken in about a week 1/2, and earlier i tried to IM him, making peace, i guess. and he never responded.
i know we probably wont get back together, but i couldnt stand it if we werent at least friends. how long should i give it before i just give up? i dont want to, but i know eventually ill have to. he doesnt seem to have any interest to even talk to me. not even through a computer. what should i do? (link)
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You said: " he doesnt seem to have any interest to even talk to me"
You two are not together anymore Let it go, It's been a week and a half now and he is grieving. Obviously if he hasn't tried to contact you in that amount of time he is trying to move on. If you contact him you are only making it worse for the both of you. Being friends isn't going to solve anything, It isn't going to make him rethink of dating you again, It's just going to hurt even more and bring back memories and make things worse. You need to let it go and move on..Don't sit there and wait for something to happen there are other people out there for you too.
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