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Best Friends Forever
A month or so ago my best friend started hanging out with this girl, and they became really good friends. welll, ever since then they hang out all the time, and do almost everything together. I havent really hung out with my bff for a long time. and i miss her, i really do. i feel like i should tell her that i feel left out. i mean i dont care that she hangs out with the girl, i just wish she would include me in their plans sometimes..help! :(
16/f
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Talk to her.
I've been in this situation, and it sucks. Keeping quiet won't make it any better though (I found that out first hand). And eventually, it will be too late and you'll hold it all in for a long time and then it will all just come out (Again, I found that out first hand...)
So, like I said, talk to your friend about it. Maybe plan something for all three of you? Like a movie day or manicures or something? Just let them know that you want to be included. But don't be pushy with it, let them have their time, and then have your time with your friend, and also have time where all three of you are together, know what I mean?
Good luck :)
-Laura (17-f)
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If you miss your best friend, tell her. Sometimes people change and so do who they hang out with. She might not know that this is really upsetting you, so you should just talk to her. Communication is key, and without it, nothing will get solved. And if she doesn't include you in her plans, it may be because she thinks you'll be mad that she has more than one best friend. Try and call her, and ask her to hang out, just you and her, and then explain yo her how you're feeling, and that you want to get your friendship back on track.
Hope I helped ! good luck and it'll all work out in the end :] if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.
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You need to get a NEW best friend! SHE had no problem with getting a new best friend, show her YOU MEAN BUSINESS and get a new one too. That way, she'll be jealous, she'll come crawling back to you, and you'll have 2 NEW BEST FRIENDS!!!!!
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Talk to her, Tell her how you feel. Sometimes people forget that you can always have more than one best friend. I'm sure she will understand how you feel.
Bahaima22
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