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FIGHTING
these girls say they are going to come kick my ass both of them dont know how to fight im not really worried about it but do you have any tips on fighting?
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As long as the reading on their power levels are under 9000, you'll be alright.
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don't do it. fighting is stupid and a huge waste of time.
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Do not do it, Fighting solves nothing and you will only get yourself into trouble and possibly have charges pressed against you. Do you really want a record...and do you really want to go to jail? If they say they are going to "kick you ass" pleaaaaaaaaaaase half of the time girls and guys are just all talk let them go walk it off they will get over it.
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I honestly wouldn't fight them. Lots of girls talk shit but never end up doing anything about it. These girls sound like the type where they'll talk shit, and then when they get their ass beat, they'll turn it all around & you say you were the one harassing them.
You'll get in trouble, and it's not worth it when these girls are just talking anyways. Just let them talk their shit. :) It gets old anyways.
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DON'T DO IT.
You'll only end up in one of two situations:
1. Getting in a huge amount of trouble (likely)
2. Regretting it AND getting in trouble (highly likely!)
Just stay away from them and tell an adult if you really donlt feel safe because trust me, it's not worth it to fight them.
-Laura (17-f)
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things about fighting:
to avoid legal reprecussions, only use enough force to neutralize the threat. If you go after them with a force multiplier (IE: brass knuckles, bar stools, baseball bat) when they hit the ground, its time to stop hitting them. use your environment, but remember; only use a tool if you can handle having it taken from you and used against you. best bet is to plink them upside the head with a rock, then leave. works pretty well. but if you feel you're in mortal danger, go for the ears (pull down and forward and they'll come off), and the eyes. eyes are really the best way to kill somebody, but its really bloody awful. even hardcore killers don't do it much. don't be excessive, you will go to jail.
-gunner
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Honestly most girls are all talk. And most of the fights that ive been in and seen are stupid, hair pulling and scratching and just stupid stuff. You honestly just have to deck them, straight in the jaw. They most likely wont be expecting it, and most likely they wont bother you again.
When you make a fist keep you thumb on the side and keep your knuckles tight. usually when you make a fist your fists are sideways with your thumb facing your face. well when you go to hit her keep your hand just like that until your about to hit her and then put your fist straight to where your wrist is up. I hope this makes sense.
And if your worried about being strong enough, dont even worry. Thats when addrenalline kicks in and i promise when you hit it will hurt.
Hope i helped =]
Good Luck!
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I find that I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you have received and may continue to receive from others.
My advice on fighting is to walk away. Nothing is gained from fighting, in the end someone ends up hurt and someone ends up talking to the police. That scenario is the lucky outcome. Recently a 14 year old boy in Maryland was stalked by three boys who wanted to fight him. The reason for the fight has not been discovered. The 14 year old boy is dead and his three attackers are charged as adults, even though they are juveniles, with First Degree Murder and are awaiting trial.
Won’t happen, can’t happen in your case. That is exactly what the lawyers are saying for the three boys charged with murder. It was not their intent to kill the 14 year old boy. What happened was during the fight the boy fell against the curb and hit his head and died. One boy is dead and three other lives are ruined. Even if the lawyers are successful in getting the charges reduced to second degree murder or manslaughter these three boys are looking at many years in prison. For what to prove who is the toughest bully?
Am I trying to scare you? You bet I am, as well as enlighten you as to what the possible outcome of what a simple fight can turn into. I’ll give you another scenario: A man walks into a bar to meet his girlfriend. He sees another man chatting her up at the bar. The man walks over and pushes the other man off the bar stool. The man falls to the floor and hits his head on the foot railing and cuts his head open and is unconscious. He is taken to the hospital where doctors revive him and then inject pain killers around the cut so they can stitch him up. Unknown to the doctors the man is allergic to the pain killers and dies. Who killed him the doctors or the man that pushed him of the bar stool?
You would think it would be the doctor who gave him the pain killer, it is not. It is the man that pushed him off the bar stool, for if he had not pushed him, the man would not have fallen and ended up in the hospital where the doctor could treat him with the wrong medication.
With the Justice system treating children today more and more as adults, a simple little fight can turn out to be much more than that. My advice is to tell your parents what is going on with these two girls and let them handle it. If they feel it requires involving the police so be it. It is better that you be safe than you be sorry. If you do not understand what I have just said ask your parents what I mean.
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My only tip about fighting is not to do it. Yeah, I know, typical answer. But really, it's totally pointless. Even if you can kick there ass, you're probably going to get in trouble if you do it. My friend got in a fight and hardly hurt the other girl and she got thrown in jail, then juvy for a week and a half.
Really, you don't need to talk it out either. When people have a problem with me like that, I say, "Okay. You don't like me. I don't like you. I think we've reached an agreement. Goodbye now."
You don't have to respond to them. If they're sending you e-mails, calling you, or telling other people they're going to fight you; just ignore them. Once they see that you're not going to act like a 12 year old, they'll probably feel a bit stupid for even trying it.
If they keep harassing you, one call to the cops will stop them dead in their tracks, guaranteed. I'm sure you don't want to get the cops involved, so unless they're continuously bothering you, just ignore them.
P.S. if they do come to your house or something, stay inside and call the police. They're guaranteed a trip to jail/juvy for coming on your property to fight you. If they jump you, protect your face/head.
-Darby
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