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I just recently (2 weeks ago?) lost my virginity,
and now I've been noticing my..er.. smell.. more. (16/f btw) is that normal?
Also, when my boyfriend and I have sex, sometimes he doesnt actually go inside me? Is that something that he'll just figure out how to do on his own or should I help out? (link)
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About your smell, yes that's normal. Since you started having sex, your vagina is producing more discharge to help clean it.
As for your boyfriend not being able to find your vagina, I say just reach down, grab his penis, and guide it to you.
Hope this helps!
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okay. me and this kid have a history. we've dated on and off. but he's the only guy im fully comfortable with.
he asked me if id have sex with him.
and i want to .. bad.
but at the same time. this is gonna seem weird. but i get really bad ingrown hairs and their red and gross. i dont want him to think i have some weird disguisting disease .. i'm not sure how to go about it. i've avoided all stuff like this so i dont have to tell anyone. its embarassing and ugly.
so its either dont do stuff. or do it like udner blankets wit the lights off. i dont know .. (link)
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About the ingrown hairs, you should go to the doctor, to see if they're infected. That could possibly be why they're all red. He can give you something, either a cream or an antibiotic, to help you with that. But other than that, you should buy a new razor, or use Nair for bikini line, or go get waxed by a professional. They can pluck out the ingrowns when they're finished with the wax
Hope this helps!
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I know this sounds stupid, but are their any foods that you can eat to get bigger boobs. Or anything besides boob job or sumthing else surgically. I really want to keep my stomache small but have bigger boobs.
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I've heard that carrots enhance your bustline, but I haven't actually seen scientific evidence of it.
The only thing that I can think of to enhance your bustline is artificial hormones. They will help a bit, but I'm not sure where you would get them.
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how many times is the average teenage girl supposed to pee? (link)
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Well, I don't know an average number, but I go about eight to ten times a day. All my friends go different amounts though. One of my friends goes about every twenty minutes, literally. Every time we go to a movie or something together, she goes about four times before we leave. I know you didn't ask about my friends' urinating habits, but that's all I could do to help.
Hope it did.
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Ok well when you're sad they say you should like tell someone and stuff but when i tell my best friends it seems liek it doens't matter much to them or they don't really feel any sympathy or they're not good at like cheering up.
And I can't jsut write all my feelings on this site and stuff you know, what can i do?
I feel so down and not even my best friends know how I'm feeling. And every part of my house is occupied so i can't even try to phone the kids help line thingy that I've always wondered what it's like.
Is there a site where you write all your feelings and people write stuff for you? I dunno I just feel so weak! I always need my spirit to be up and people to cheer me up. I'm sick of it! (link)
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I'm not going to say that I know how you feel because even though I go through the same thing and I was even diagnosed with depression two years ago, I don't know exactly how you feel.
I hate it when people tell you they know how you feel. I mean, they may have gone through something similar, or even exactly the same thing, but people feel differently about different things.
My friends kind of blow me off all the time when I'm trying to tell them something important. It's like they think it's stupid for me to feel that way about something. I mean, they think it's stupid, but it's major for me. I don't know how to really explain how I'm feeling out loud because it always seems like they're just listening so they can have a chance to talk.
I don't really know a way to absolutely cheer you up, but if you don't have someone to talk to, I'm always here. I would have loved to have someone to talk to that actually listened instead of just waiting for their turn to talk about all their problems. If you ever need help, you can always email me or im me. My email and im screen name is on my column if you ever decide to use them.
Please reach out if you need it.
I don't know you, but I will listen to you anytime you need me to.
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so my andmy boyfriend have been dating for 7 months. we are having sex and its great ust one thing.... he always finishes before me... how can i fix that and are there anytricks to help me..
please and thank you (link)
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Try woman on top position. That way, you will get extra stimulation by grinding your clit against him. Also, when you feel him coming, or he starts to groan, you can stop and it'll slow him down a bit.
But if he does come before you still, tell him that he still has a job to do. Have him perform oral sex on you to get you off. That way he can use his mouth and his hands.
It would be good if you washed a bit first because you may taste like condom, and regular condoms don't taste good.
Make sure to tell him that he still has a job to do before you go wash up though, because he may fall asleep.
Hope this helps!
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i only have a week of school left and i need to figugure out a way to get the guy i like(who likes me back) to ask me out on a date. because once summer comes we wontr be able to hang and I CANT ASK HIM MY SELF!!!!!PLEASE HELP (link)
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Simple. Don't wait for him to ask you out, ask him out instead. You know he likes you, so it's a sure thing that he'll say yes, so you don't have to worry about rejection.
Ask him to hang out at the arcade and go for pizza or ice cream.
Or get tickets to something he loves, like a sports event or a band he really likes and ask him if he wants to go with you because you can't find someone else who wants to go.
ASK HIM or I will be forced to bawk at you!
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Ok well my house is less then half a block form my school and everyone's really nice so they dont' litter on my lawn or anything but recently these kids in my brother's class has been littering on our lawn on PURPOSE! THey wlak together in a group but only one litters.
He rips his snakcs and stuff and liek uses our door as an aiming target or something and keeps whipping sutff. I told him to fuck off but he won't! Did I mention he was in grade 5?
I need this to stop because I am sick of tired of picking everything up (so ant's don't come because I'm scared of ants) and my dad is like a grandpa now and I odn't want him to liek strain himself picking them up all the time and hurt his feelings (he's really senstive). I also don't want him to know because he'll probably go to our school and yell at the boy but loose cuz the boy will probably make fun of him and stuff.
I was thinking of phoning his house but do you think it's a good idea? The police already went to his house 5 times but his parents don't care so I don't want to be being yelled at them on the phone if I'm telling them and thye dont' care.
I could tell my brother to yell at him but their friends so..I don't even know if their even friends! They always like fight but mostly he always hit my brother so I'm not sure if my brother knows what the word FRIEND means or if it's a guy thing cuz guys fights sometimes but they're not really fighting.
Please help..I really want it to stop! My finger are like shaking to go beat him up but I'm known as a kind and nice girl in my school and I want to be a doctor when i grow up so i don't want anything to ruin my perfect records if they have one. (link)
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Since he's in your brother's class and not yours, it's possible he got into a fight with your brother. Or he could be picking on your brother at school and had to find a way to pick on him when he's not in school. Or, he could be jealous of your brother because he got something that he wanted.
The next time you see him littering, you should tell him that littering is a crime, which it actually is, and that if he doesn't stop littering on your lawn, you're going to report him.
You should probably figure out why he's doing it first though, that way maybe you can fix the problem without the whole crime thing.
Ask your brother if the kid is picking on him at school or if he got into a fight with him lately. He probably wouldn't know if the kid was jealous or not though.
Hope this helps!
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i like this guy alot and am pretty sure that he likes me. we dont talk very much, but when we do its great. so for the past three days he has come up to me and talked to me and flirted and all. on the third day we got in an arguement becuz i couldnt let him into the classroom where we hang out cause the teacher was gone.i guess he thought that since we had this "thing"i was going to let him in. But I couldnt. and he was really pissed. so that night my friend talked to him on myspace and he ws being an ass. then after i left him a message saying that i am sorry that he got offended and not to take it personally he sent my friend a message saying he wasnt mad anymore. now we havent talked in awhile and i know he isnt going to come up to me. Does that mean i go up to him and start a convo????? pleeze help soon !!!thanx (link)
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He may think that you're not putting as much effort into the blossoming relationship, so he could be testing you to see if you will put in effort to see him as well.
He doesn't want to always be the one to make the move, so yes, you should go up to talk to him.
He might even think you're mad at him for something because you didn't let him into the classroom and that might be why he acted angry.
I'm not saying either of these are certain, because I don't know every single detail, but if you like him and you want to make something of this, you have to put in equal effort.
So, go up and talk to him. Just walk up and smile and say something like 'Hey, I thought you weren't mad at me anymore' or 'Hey, long time, no talk, what's been going on in your life?'
Hope it works out for you guys!
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I'm unsure if I want to go to university or not. I do want to get a good job and everything and get a degree, but it's a long time to spend there if you're not really that into higher education. Plus it's seriously expensive and I don't want to move too far away from home.
I've thought about taking a gap year, working to get some money saved up and then either doing a part time Business Management course or something, but I'd be 20 by the time I decided to go. Arghh dunno what to do.
I know not going to uni isn't the end of the world, but I'm so confused! (link)
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Well, the basic classes are the same at every college or university. So you can always think about going to university while you get your basic credits at your state school.
The tuition will also be less, because the state usually gives a decrease for incoming students that live in the same state. You could also get financial aide or small scholarships.
There are a lot of scholarships offered for winners of writing or art contests. You can search them on the internet for your state. A lot of scholarships are offered all over the US.
If you decide to go this route, you won't be in class as long, and you wouldn't have to go every day if you didn't want to, so you can also get a job. This way, you can save money while you get your basic credits and if you do decide to go to university, you can transfer the credits.
Even if you don't decide to go to university, you can take classes in Business Management at your state school.
I hope you can decide, and don't worry, you'll figure it all out when the pressure is put off.
Just make sure you don't have someone pressuring you to do one or the other or you won't be able to decide.
Hope this helps you!
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Well, to say the last, I am interested in this guy. He is a grade lower than me, but that shouldn't matter, right? He's really mature.
Anyways, back when I was 9 and he was 8, we were best friends. We were best friends for 2-3 years. After that, we lost contact with each other.
In 2006, we discovered that we attended the same church, but of course, things are different now, as I am 17 and he is 16.
Obviously, we're all grown up now. And, I think that he is attracted to me, as I am to him. Unfortunately, I can't even talk to him.
The only time I see him is on Wednesday, at biblestudy/choir practice.
I get there early, but he is not there. Then, when everything officially starts, there is a division, meaning, the people in choir go off (that would be me) to practice. So then, I don't see him. Sometimes choir runs over, so I can't go to where everyone else is.
And, my parents are strict, and make me leave biblestudy/choir practice before its even over.
I want to talk to him before he loses interests, but there is literally no time. What should I do?
(also, I've checked myspace, facebook etc--he does not have one. I really don't want this to get out, so I can't ask anyone, because the kids can be really immature sometimes) (link)
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When he comes in, since you get there early, wave him over to sit by you before choir leaves to practice. If you can't whisper, take a pen with you and a mini notebook and write little notes in that to get things started and get you started talking again.
If you want, before you leave for choir, write your phone number on the paper and also write something like 'so we can actually talk sometime' or 'I'd really like to talk to you sometime'.
You can also put your email address or IM screen name and just write the same thing.
Make sure if you tell him your IM screen name that you also slip in the fact that you will 'be on tonight' or whenever you're usually on.
This way, you can start the flow of conversation and start up your friendship again. You can also be brave and invite him to hang out on Saturday. Ask him to go to the arcade. That way, if you get a little stuck on conversation, since you haven't seen each other in a while, the games will give you something to do between the silences, if there happen to be any.
I hope this works out for you, and if it doesn't, then you can curse me. But I'd appreciate it if you didn't put a curse ON me.
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my boyfriend and i had anal sex and i kind of pooped a little....it was on the condom and he was like "you pooped". i was so embarrased but does that happen often. (link)
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When his penis is inside your anus, it kind of feels like you need to make a bowel movement, so when you're using your inner muscles to help move him out, it may help push a little poop out. You shouldn't be embarassed, it's natural for this to occur when having anal sex. It shouldn't bother him, he wanted to do it, he knows that you poop, he knows that he put his penis where you poop, so if he has a problem with it then he shouldn't be doing it.
Hope this helps!
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my boyfriend and i have been having sex for about a month now. We use condoms and i don't want to get on birth control pills because my parents may be able to tell. is there anything else i could do to prevent pregnancy (link)
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I don't think your parents will be able to tell if you're on birth control pills, but if they found out, you could always tell them that you wanted to go on them because you read in a health journal (or a magazine, online, etc.) that they help regulate your period, releive harsh cramps, etc.
You could use spermicide with the condoms, you can get it at the drugstore also.
There's also the diaphragm, you insert it into your vagina prior to sex, then take it out afterwards.
You could also get the 'patch'. But I've read somewhere that it caused some kind of ovarian tumor or something but you'd have to look that up for sure.
Here is a website that you could go to if you need more information.
http://www.metrokc.gov/health/famplan/birthcontrol/gallery.htm
But to be sure what kind of birth control is the best for you, go see your doctor. Or, if you wouldn't like to go to your doctor, you could find a free clinic near your neighborhood.
They will give you a prescription if that's what you choose, or they will help steer you in the right direction of what you should use if you don't need a prescription. If you choose a method of internal birth control,such as the diaphragm, the doctor, may need to fit you for it.
Google 'alternative birth control methods' and read up. You may decide what you want to use before you even go to the doctor. It will make it much easier.
Hope this helps!
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Ok so this guy and I have had sex like three or four times before. Once we had sex in the back of his car and the condom broke, that was like three days after my period stopped. Then we had sex unprotected in his dorm and then in the middle of having that he slipped on a condom. I haven't had my period yet and it's beed a month since I've had my last period. Actually to be exact I haven't had my period since April 14, 2007 and today is May 23, 2007. Could I be pregnant? Also can you have your period and be pregnant still? BTW I am 17 yrs old. (link)
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Okay, well first I just have to say
Duh.
Of course you could be pregnant.
The first time, his semen could have leaked out when the condom broke.
The second time, his preseminal fluid could have impregnated you before he slipped the condom on.
Not only could you be pregnant, you could also have an STD. You need to get checked for both.
I know you're probably thinking you couldn't possibly have an STD because he said he didn't have one (if you even asked him), but if he's that casual with you (i.e. having unprotected sex), then how do you know he's not being that casual with another or even four other girls?
The fact is, you should have made sure he was wearing a condom before he entered you. If he wasn't, you should have told him to put one on or you were walking.
I really hope this goes in your favor, but it is very possible that you are, in fact, pregnant.
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i'm not a porn freak or anything, but everyone watches internet porn once in a while (i hope). i'm 15/f, and i was just wondering if girls enjoy cuming more than men...i mean, you see the girls squirming and moaning, and you hardly ever see the guy flinch. Is it that guys are more in control of themselves or something. i'd really appreciate ur thoughts (link)
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Mostly men watch porn, and they like to see and hear the women.
The women are paid to act like it's the best sex of their lives so the guys watching it can get off.
Most of the time, in porn movies, the girl doesn't get off at all, they just 'fake it'.
If a girl is actually having an orgasm, they aren't really able to talk normally, it just sounds like a sort of jibberish and the fierce moans and groans in porn are forced. So if a girl is moaning that loud but not actually kind of 'shaking' or shuddering, then she's not having an orgasm.
Basically, porn is fake, they're paid to be doing what they're doing.
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the only time i've been involved in stuff with guys was once when i got fingered. and he wasnt very nice and i've been avoiding this stuff.
but the guy i've really liked, and dated on and off for 10 months wants me to sleep with him. and for once im not nervous. so i want to ..
but i have NO idea what im doing. i know the general gist of it, but like what do i do if im just the girl taht like sits there and gets nothing from it, or what if its no good for him .. i need a little guidance cause i don't know anything about sex. i've never had it or anything.
what's your first time like .. bad? scarey, totally unpleasurable ..
help please!!!
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Okay, I could try to explain everything, but the truth is that it is different for everyone.
Try going to this site, it explains everything in great detail, from emotions, to the physical.
http://www.scarleteen.com
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My boyfriend and I had sex. I noticed however, the condom was a tad bit to big. I'm almost positive we'll have sex again, but I want him to have a condom that fits right. How should I tell him he needs a smaller condom without making him feel bad about himself, or his.. um.. size ? Also, how do you buy a box of condoms that are the right size ? It's not like you can try them on.. haha =)
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There is a size chart on the back of the box.
Check to see what size he bought, then go buy a box of the same brand, but one size smaller.
You can either carry them with you and just say you've got this one the next time you have sex, or you can open the box and switch it with the one he has. He probably won't even notice the difference.
The next time you need to buy condoms, go with him to make sure he gets the right size.
Truthfully, he may not have even checked the size chart. He may have just picked up a box and figured they were probably all the same.
But if the subject of the size does come up and he feels insecure, tell him that it doesn't matter how big he is because he knows how to please you.
The fact is, if he doesn't wear the right size condom, the risk of you getting pregnant is ultimately higher. Tell him to think about that the next time he insists that he 'needs' the bigger size.
Hope this helps!
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ok so i was having sex with my boyfriend and i was already having an amazing orgasm but then we both thought it would be fun to add my back massager into the mix, when he put it on my clit i squirted so hard it was like i peed. was it pee or was it vaginal fluid...it shot out of my body as if i had been tickled too much and pissed my pants but it didnt feel like it came from my urethra. so what was it? (link)
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This is what we call 'female ejaculation'.
Very few women do this, but it is possible.
But, even if a woman doesn't normally do this, if her 'g spot' is being stimulated, even more vaginal fluid collects in the spongy part of her vagina and 'floods' out when she has an orgasm.
If you haven't had an 'ejaculation' before but had orgasms, your boyfriend probably hit your g spot.
Hope this helps!
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my boyfriend doesnt want to cum in my vagina so i dont get pregnant, but what can he do to finish? (link)
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If you're not using a condom, you could become pregnant without him coming inside of you anyway because of his preseminal fluid, which also contain sperm.
If you use a condom and apply it the correct way, it doesn't matter if he comes inside of you because the condom will catch it. Just make sure it's the right size or it could tear or slip off.
Hope this helps!
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Me and my boyfriend have a very serious relationship.What i want to know is a very intimate question.I've heared that sucking out sperms during oral sex is fattning and it'll make you put on weight. is this fact true or a myth? Also Is drinking sperms unhealthy? (link)
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To tell you the truth, you would have to drink about thirty buckets of semen to actually gain weight.
Go here to get all the facts:
http://www.dontspitswallow.com/cum_nutrition.shtml
hope this helps!
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