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Dealing with my emotions
Ok well when you're sad they say you should like tell someone and stuff but when i tell my best friends it seems liek it doens't matter much to them or they don't really feel any sympathy or they're not good at like cheering up.
And I can't jsut write all my feelings on this site and stuff you know, what can i do?
I feel so down and not even my best friends know how I'm feeling. And every part of my house is occupied so i can't even try to phone the kids help line thingy that I've always wondered what it's like.
Is there a site where you write all your feelings and people write stuff for you? I dunno I just feel so weak! I always need my spirit to be up and people to cheer me up. I'm sick of it!
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OMG...I have the same problem! My friends also aren't good listeners! Do you have anyone else you can talk to??? Like a family member or good reletive...Also, when you feel sad, just cry it out..you'll feel way better after...or try writing out your feelings on paper. If you need anyone else to talk to, email me at stefana3@hotmail.com or you could ask me a question in my inbox...I hope my advice helped!:)
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This is the time in your life that you need to grow independent and realize that even your best friends won't always understand and be their for you because no one is perfect. I used to feel the same way, and i would get so angry at my friends, and they would get so angry at me for always being depressed and whiney, and stuff like that. I've learned to organize my thoughts in a journal, and work on the things about my character that i need to change to become a deeper and better person. I used to feel so weak too, and cry ALL the time. But ever since ive been upbeat about changing myself for the better, ive become alot more confident and way more happier. Ive learned that people will not always be their to help you because not everyone knows what you are feeling and thats okay. If their are specific problems you are dealing with, write them down, and insted of dreading the problems and having them way you down, look at them as something you can work on yourself. Be confident and dont let it bring you down, insted concer the problems and just GROW! yuo will become alot stronger, really. i really hope i made since but i know how you feel and i hope you can really have some personal growth. If you ever need anything just ask really, ill be more than happy to help! :)
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im me whenever you need to talk honest i hate it when my best friend is like that, im me xoashhx33
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I feel for you, i really do. I would say write in a journal. Mine helped me through the rough times. Another thing i did was write letters to people who have let me down or even to people who have simply just influenced my life in any way. The people i wrote to never got their letters but it felt awesome writing exactly what i felt. Its a good way to understand your feelings too, because what you think you're feeling may not actually be what you are truely feeling. You can email me if you like, my address is xxkkatieexx@hotmail.com. I am ALWAYS willing to listen and give advice on anything.
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My best advise would be to get a journal. Pour your heart into it... go for walks... listen to music while you do it... feel the wind in your face, playing with your hair...
Thats what i used to do. And it worked wonders for me. I don't know if it will be the same with you. As for the phone line, use your cell phone... go outside while you make the call if you have no privacy inside your home. And the same goes for if you don't have a cell, and have a portable phone... hope this helps a bit =)
Just remember, at least one person close to you is more than willing to hear you out =) regardless of where and when =)
VB
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I'm not going to say that I know how you feel because even though I go through the same thing and I was even diagnosed with depression two years ago, I don't know exactly how you feel.
I hate it when people tell you they know how you feel. I mean, they may have gone through something similar, or even exactly the same thing, but people feel differently about different things.
My friends kind of blow me off all the time when I'm trying to tell them something important. It's like they think it's stupid for me to feel that way about something. I mean, they think it's stupid, but it's major for me. I don't know how to really explain how I'm feeling out loud because it always seems like they're just listening so they can have a chance to talk.
I don't really know a way to absolutely cheer you up, but if you don't have someone to talk to, I'm always here. I would have loved to have someone to talk to that actually listened instead of just waiting for their turn to talk about all their problems. If you ever need help, you can always email me or im me. My email and im screen name is on my column if you ever decide to use them.
Please reach out if you need it.
I don't know you, but I will listen to you anytime you need me to.
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well maybe you feel like you cant trust anyone with all of this but maybe i can help. ive been through depression and close to suicide and i got myself out of it. now i can really appreciate my life and i really want to help you. talk to me if you need anything ill be here for you i promise. =]
SAM
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