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he finishs before me
so my andmy boyfriend have been dating for 7 months. we are having sex and its great ust one thing.... he always finishes before me... how can i fix that and are there anytricks to help me..
please and thank you
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Well, most women cannot orgasam from penetration alone. Try stimulating your clitoris, and otherwise experimenting to find out what works for you. Oral, foreplay, ect. :)
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Have a lot of foreplay. Talk to him about it in a non-critising manner because he may get a complex and not even be able to perform. And it isn't really his fault. You're obviously doing something right. Oral sex beforehand is good. I only orgasm in missionary position when my bf is grinding my clit with his pubic region. Yeah. But um, 30% of woman can never orgasm. Experiment with different things, different styles.. buy yourself a vibrator! Get him to use it on you before sex and make you orgasm, that way you may have multiple.. just have fun. understand your body and just have lots of sex to build up his stamina.
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sigh,,,,
haha! unfortunate for us, guys always tend to finish first...
Although, there are a few things that can be done... well, that he could do to you i should say...
But the big picture, try to get him to give you more stimulation...
Get him to stimulate multiple parts of your body at once...
Try new positions...
New places...
new excitement..
you know? ;-) haha!
hope this helps! =D
VB
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Try woman on top position. That way, you will get extra stimulation by grinding your clit against him. Also, when you feel him coming, or he starts to groan, you can stop and it'll slow him down a bit.
But if he does come before you still, tell him that he still has a job to do. Have him perform oral sex on you to get you off. That way he can use his mouth and his hands.
It would be good if you washed a bit first because you may taste like condom, and regular condoms don't taste good.
Make sure to tell him that he still has a job to do before you go wash up though, because he may fall asleep.
Hope this helps!
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Well. There isn't much you can do. Guys usually cum before girls can actually have an orgasim, it's just natural. When your having sex, and he's about to cum have him stop for a second so he can last a little longer. So before you have sex be like, "I want this to last long so when your about to cum just stop moving so you can hold it in" That way maybe you'll have time.
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