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Rude, UNRESPECTFUL, BOYS!
Ok well my house is less then half a block form my school and everyone's really nice so they dont' litter on my lawn or anything but recently these kids in my brother's class has been littering on our lawn on PURPOSE! THey wlak together in a group but only one litters.
He rips his snakcs and stuff and liek uses our door as an aiming target or something and keeps whipping sutff. I told him to fuck off but he won't! Did I mention he was in grade 5?
I need this to stop because I am sick of tired of picking everything up (so ant's don't come because I'm scared of ants) and my dad is like a grandpa now and I odn't want him to liek strain himself picking them up all the time and hurt his feelings (he's really senstive). I also don't want him to know because he'll probably go to our school and yell at the boy but loose cuz the boy will probably make fun of him and stuff.
I was thinking of phoning his house but do you think it's a good idea? The police already went to his house 5 times but his parents don't care so I don't want to be being yelled at them on the phone if I'm telling them and thye dont' care.
I could tell my brother to yell at him but their friends so..I don't even know if their even friends! They always like fight but mostly he always hit my brother so I'm not sure if my brother knows what the word FRIEND means or if it's a guy thing cuz guys fights sometimes but they're not really fighting.
Please help..I really want it to stop! My finger are like shaking to go beat him up but I'm known as a kind and nice girl in my school and I want to be a doctor when i grow up so i don't want anything to ruin my perfect records if they have one.
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Your options are:
1)_Scare him by: A) buying a snowman costume and waiting on your front lawn then chase him. B) wait with firecrackers. c) w/e else you can think of to scare him.
2)_Embarrass him in front of his group of friends. Make him look really bad in front of them then tell him (privately) that you will humilate him until he stops.
3) get a sweet squirt gun (self explanitory)
**warning, be careful, kids like this are likely to make up stories and get you in trouble, make sure you always have an aliby. (fairy tales of rape and such.)
****it would be easier to answer if we knew your age.
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Since he's in your brother's class and not yours, it's possible he got into a fight with your brother. Or he could be picking on your brother at school and had to find a way to pick on him when he's not in school. Or, he could be jealous of your brother because he got something that he wanted.
The next time you see him littering, you should tell him that littering is a crime, which it actually is, and that if he doesn't stop littering on your lawn, you're going to report him.
You should probably figure out why he's doing it first though, that way maybe you can fix the problem without the whole crime thing.
Ask your brother if the kid is picking on him at school or if he got into a fight with him lately. He probably wouldn't know if the kid was jealous or not though.
Hope this helps!
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This guy really doesn't sound like much of a friend to your brother at all. :/
I think to start with you should ask your brother if the guy really is his friend and if he would even listen to your brother. If he will then by all means it might be an idea to ask your brother to tell him to stop littering your lawn. If that doesn't work then I think the best thing you can do is file another complaint with the police and keep doing so until they take note and do something about it. If you have to by all means get evidence that it's him who's littering your lawn. Eventually the police will also have to take action.
It does seem, after 5 police visits already, that his parents just don't care. So it might be pointless in trying to call them to try resolve this that way but it is always worth a try and by all means something that may well be worth doing. I will say though don't be afraid to go out there and tell him to stop if you actually CATCH him in the act. If I caught someone doing that you can bet I would say something about it.
I will say though, don't beat him up. It would only work against you if he goes to the police afterwards. So don't get into a physical confrontation (unless you're having to defend yourself in which case you should notify the police asap). I can't really suggest anything else other than this for now. If you can tell me where you're from I can look more into it (UK or USA) because I think in the UK littering is an offence and if parents don't take an active role to prevent their kids littering they are the ones who can be fined/charged, but this is something I need to look into.
Just don't let this little annoying jerk get to you k. You're better than that. Also, I hold in high regard anyone who wants to go into medicine where they can help people. I wish you the best of luck in that. :]
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