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Q: im starting high school in aug. for the first time , and im sooooooooooo freaked out b/c i hav so many bad memorys from my middle school . im afraid its guna b worse . can anyone help me at alll
Just be calm and be nice towards everyone and dont yell back at someone if they are yelling at you-trix

Q: Hey*
I wrote in here on the 23rd... About my friend that hasnt tlked to me in a while and it seemed lyk she was just using me fro a guy I have be with! Her and her boyfriend broke up so there is no pressure there. I called her and asked her what was going on and she said she was jsut grounded and I didnt believe her but her mom told me she really was. Well, she says we are still friends and now she is ungrounded and we are hangin out. Thanks everybody fro ur help!!!

.:* Erika *:.
thats good to hear-trix

Q: ok im just curious...if your pregnant...will you bleed at all? and if so how long after do you bleed?
nope

Q: k my mom let me get my belly pierced in june and shes still hidin it frum my dad bc he sed no....i already hav 4 in each ear and i wanna get my tongue done s0o0 bad!! my mom already sed no more piercings...but i want it reallllll bad...im thinking of goin behind her back and doing it...but HOW SHOULD I HIDE IT?/ any ideas??? does it hurt?? how much does it cost?? does ne 1 no ne where they will pierce it with a parent there??? PLZ HELP!!!
The clamp hurts the worst-trix

Q: hay ok well i put music on my advice column and it wont play! is it the site im useing or is it im doing it wrong??? plezz help me give me more sites and walk me thru the steps plez ill rate!
it wont.. to many questions about it so we cant do it right now and its also down for those who already had music-trix

Q: There is this guy that i had met online. We have been talking for quite a while now and we both like each other a lot. One day we want to meet each other, but I'm not quite sure if it's safe to do so. But like I said we like each other a lot and we love talking to each other.
wait till you are older like such as 18 or 19..-trix

Q: volleyball tryouts are this week and im really scared i wont make it. I think about it non-stop and it gets me even more nervous and upset.
How do i stop this!?!
HELP
just practice with friends cuz practice makes near perfect.. and then you may not be so nervous-trix

Q: Should i let my friend come up my shirt..? hes always like bringing my boobs up.. were not goin out but we flirt a rly lot.. Hes always hinting.. He really wants to.. Shuld i let him!? plz help i have no idea wut to do
(( im 13 ))
Uh.. if you want to.. just hope you dont get the name slut.. i mean alot of people have but just dont let every guy that walks across you do that.. and he may figure that sense you let him do that.. then he can do more with you so you may just want to keep that lil much in your mind-trix

Q: ok . heres my deal , im going into high school on aug. 23 , and i really want to get a boyfriend for the first time cuz ive never dated b4 . im getting braces to which might turn a guy off . how can i get a boyfriend evn tho braces r a total turn off
Get cool colors.. thats a way to style them up and be funny, flirty, nice, outgoing, and friendly-♥Trix♥

Q: Hey! does anybody have any good activites to do with kids..ages..4 and 6??? im babysitting n lil n i want to do something fun!!!XOXO
watch movies bike ride go to the park.. anything really.. those young of kids are easy to entertain .. well most of them-trix

Q: when i was like 1 year old i had this friend and he was like my best freind ever. well we moved and i never saw him. i am 14 now (girl) and i get to see him soon. I really want to make a good impression...so what do i do?
Just be yourself thats the number one thing-trix

Q: hey do you have any ideas on how to lose weight fast over summer?
south beach diet-trix

Q: Well me and my boyfriend have been goin out for 3 months starting tewday...and i have this problem with cutting ( my wrist ) and i havn*t told hym untill yesterday....and he got really mad at me and said i either have tew stop cutting or i have tew brake up with me cuz e doesnt wanna risk losing someone he really loves......but i think he is just running away from the problem.....wat dew u think he is doing
he cares-trix

Q: all my friends think my one guy friend is gay and i think so too..but he deny's it when we say nething about it..what do i do ??
believe him.. i have a friend like that but i dont think he is gay and we dont mention it to him cuz we dont care!!-trix

Q: I am 4'9" and I weigh 93 pounds... I have very muscular legs and arms,(i dont mean to brag but i am telling the truth so i will get good advice) but my stomach is a little poochy. I haven't gone through "puberty" yet, and i know that I will get taller and thin out a little bit, but for now, what are some ideas to lose the pooch? (plus inner thighs, and lateral obliques) Thanks!
crunches go to www.BMIscale.com and see if you are underweight or whatever but according to that your government approved!! so your just fine!-trix

Q: can u get pregnant if u hav sex on your period??
yes sir re-trix

Q: ok me and my friend have been friends for a while and stuff but anyways. ever since i took her to youth group at my church everybody seems to liek her more now then they do me... they are all her friends instead of mine!!and im really hooked on my bf and whenevr i talk about him she gets mad but i dont get mad when she talks about guys thats shes not even going out with.. what do i do? do i take a break from her? help!
Well just talk to her about it.. dont just take a break that makes it sound like your going out with her.. kaleigh took a "break" from our friendship and that was her call and after that it was never the same.. so think about it-trix

Q: im always stuck in the middle between my two best friends if one of them goes to hang out w/ the another friend the other gets mad they always seem to fight and im sick of it and its always bugging me they always have good times when they arent fighting but its like they get jealous i have no idea what to do..

-stuck in the middle

Just have them talk it out and help them out but make sure you dont get caught in the middle cuz that is worse-trix

Q: hey i was wondering what a BMI is and where i can find out what mine is. thanks!!
body mass index.. go to askjeeves.com but as my friend michael says "bloody man inside" but thats just him!-trix

Q: okay.. i love this guy.. hes perfect.. *like for me at least* hes the sweetest, hottest, funniest guy i know.. he makes me wanna be beautiful.. and well i dont really know if he likes me.. i mean we ALWAYS flirt and like yah.. so what should i do.. juss stand in the corner or tell him how i feel.. i mean i really do love him, hes perfect for me.. what is yer advice for me?
verry confused,
mwAhz1563
Tell him how you feel!! Dont pass this up!! Tell him!!-trix

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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