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Question Posted Sunday July 25 2004, 12:06 pm

Should i let my friend come up my shirt..? hes always like bringing my boobs up.. were not goin out but we flirt a rly lot.. Hes always hinting.. He really wants to.. Shuld i let him!? plz help i have no idea wut to do
(( im 13 ))


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confusedbabii answered Monday July 26 2004, 1:59 pm:
i think you shouldn't...b/c you could get into somthing serious. it's your choice but 13 is kinda young for that...
hope i could help <3 Niki Lyn

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EmO_EmMa answered Monday July 26 2004, 4:44 am:
i personally think 13 is too young for that.... especially cuz he isn't ur b/f. i say no. this kinna thing could get around and ud be known as the "s.l.u.t". i say no don't let him.

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Tori_Dori answered Sunday July 25 2004, 7:58 pm:
Okay, if you're 13, then I don't exactly think you're ready to go through that kinda stuff, but if you're ready, then that's your choice.If you want him to stop, then just tell him that you're uncomfortable with it, 'n that you wanna be a 'lil more older to be doing that.Hope I helped~!!!
-Tori

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TheLovex8 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 7:18 pm:
if you think your ready to go into sexual activity then yes but its its unconforting hes sexually harrassing you and you should tell your mom or some one and tell him to stop!! x0x0 Kay aka Roxy

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DeeplyInLove102203 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 6:05 pm:
Only8ifu r comfortable and ready for him to do that to you so if your ready go for it!!
Hope i helped


.*.>> Caitlin <<.*.

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Sara8047 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 6:05 pm:
Only do it if u want to and if u dont tell him that your not ready

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 5:29 pm:
Uh.. if you want to.. just hope you dont get the name slut.. i mean alot of people have but just dont let every guy that walks across you do that.. and he may figure that sense you let him do that.. then he can do more with you so you may just want to keep that lil much in your mind-trix

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IxAmxCrying answered Sunday July 25 2004, 5:06 pm:
Yeah, it'll make him shut up about it.

It's not like it's an everyday occurance.

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raushelle answered Sunday July 25 2004, 4:45 pm:
He sounds alot like hes using you. Dump him or talk about commitment.

*Raushelle*

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court_sport909 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 4:32 pm:
ok. if you r 13 i dont think you should let him feel you up. maybe in a couple of years that would be alright. only do something like that if you r comfortible with it. Also, if you two are not going out then you should wait!
I hope i helped.
~Court_Sport~

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marebear96 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 4:24 pm:
uM no... not unless ur the one wanting him to... guys are horn dogs aight?... they think with there packages! ~ dont let him do anything you dont want him to do... ~ *mare*

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Qt_pU_tOo_T answered Sunday July 25 2004, 4:14 pm:
definAtLy dOnt Let hIm yOur tOo yOung 4 thAt kinD Of stuFf And thAt mYte LeeD inTo suMthinG thAt wiLL geT u intO trubLe

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Ineedhelpfast2005 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 3:48 pm:
im 13 too! if you fell comfortable with it! then its ok . but jsut remember ur to young 4 sex and if you let him do that, he might think its ok to do more stuff if you dont fell right ... tell him!
Hope this works
Ashley

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storageanddisposal answered Sunday July 25 2004, 3:34 pm:
He's not even your boyfriend, you're only 13, and he sounds like he has a 1 track mind. No.

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MaGiCLyDeLiSh88 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 2:54 pm:
I may be 2 years older than yOu but whats the difference??? There is this guy that I am always around. We are not going out but we flirt and make-out all the time. If he wants to go up yOur shirt then do what yOu want him to do. If yOu dont really care if he does then let him... what's so bad about it??? But if yOu dont want him to just do somthing else... lyk just start making out with him or wutever else yOu fell comfortable doing... I know a little about this. and I didnt really feel comfortable with him going up my shirt. But after a while things grew between us and we did "other things" Hope everything works out! *Tell me how it goes*

.:* Erika *:.

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Shortstuf0921 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 2:41 pm:
Well i think that first you 2 should do out on a couple dates before doing anything liek that.

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xaDvIcERsAiRx answered Sunday July 25 2004, 2:34 pm:
well, if you don't even really know him that well, and u havent even been going out... id think about it, maybe go out on a couple dates b4 u let him stick his hand up ur shirt

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Pink_Flamingo answered Sunday July 25 2004, 2:21 pm:
I dont think you should let him do it. Its invasion of your privacy. If you feel uncomfortable about it you should definatly tell him and if he doesnt stop it tell an adult.

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Sagittarius03 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 2:15 pm:
yeah sure go for it. im only 13 and I let my bf do it. its not that bad, its kinda hot. keep that one, he seems special. -PA (rate me please!)

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texangirl01 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 2:11 pm:
well your still kinda young but you go how ever far you think feels right to you!

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Mercy_x_Me answered Sunday July 25 2004, 1:33 pm:
i would say if your not going out.. dont get in to anything that could make you have the attitude of a whore. IF you guys flirt alot i would say going out is the best thing to do.. even then make sure that going up your shirt is all he wants to do and whatever you do dont let him take things to the next level.. that could get all jumbled and screwed up if you know how it is.... dont let him do things if your not going out... if he wants some he has to atleast make a commitment to you and not for your boobs... for u

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Floridagirl1821 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 1:19 pm:
You might regret it later!!! Its your body, you have control. Don't let him pressure you to do something that you do not want to do!!! Hope I could help:)

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GoDdeSsOfEveRyThInG answered Sunday July 25 2004, 12:58 pm:
Dont do anything you dont to or feel uncomfortable with! Dont let him pressure you either, if he really wants to and you dont, then dont! They are YOUR boobs and its your decesion.. Good luck!!

LoVe,
HeAtHeR!

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Just_Being_True answered Sunday July 25 2004, 12:42 pm:
if you feel comfortable letting him go up your shirt than go ahead and let him. But it all depends on what you are comfortable with.

hope I helped.......Alina

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