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Alright, I've been inlove once before. I try my hardest to move on. I know that I'm not still "inlove", but those feelings will always remain. Every time I like someone, when they offically ask me out, I start to run and stop liking them? When I actually have hard feelings for someone and I could see myself not wanting to break up with them, things always go wrong. Once I even told someone not to ask me out I didn't like him anymore and I LOVED EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM!!!! Now I watch one of my bestfriends have him, and him and I could have been dating for over a year by now. What do I do? Why do I run or things get destroyed?
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I think you are just afaid of rejection. We all have that fear but you need to get over it. Take some risks, put yourself out there or you will never know. Dont be a what if kinda person. Do what you feel is right in your heart.
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you run from things because you dont want to have another relationship fail when you are actually happy and you do want to stay with the person. once the relationship is over between you and the one that you love, dating will become hard. its like you think "yes i like him but i dont want to get hurt by him". i was the same way with this one guy i had strong feelings for but i took a chance and now im with someone that i truly love and we've been together for 10 months and we're still going. just take a chance and see what happens. good luck.
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Your first loves are never forgotten, no matter how hard you try, you cant ever stop loving him. Its hard having other boyfriends when you know you could have been with your first love and its definitly hard watching him care about someone else. Eventually, you will meet someone new and start loving him but before that comes, I think you will always have feelings for that guy. Maybe right now you arent ready for a serious relationship, just have fun and flirt with other guys and go out! Good luck sweetie!
LoVe,
HeAtHeR!
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